Went home. Jerked off. And proud of it.

I do this all the time. Xvideos is the best site for just that. Next time, a good track for the ride home.

JJ Grey & Mofro - The Sun Is Shining Down
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cYRs2SR…

I commend your resilience but if she that hot, why not try to set something up for the future? Let’s assume that she wasn’t lying and you see her working at the club. Then you already have a rapport and can get her number to set up some OTC action. I like to show them funny photos on instagram if they relate to our conversation.. which can segue into asking her if she’s on instagram. If you harmlessly start following each other this will give you an opportunity to stalk and research a bit before you take any more risks.

A few opportunities to get down fell in my lap over time and I passed. The only emotion I feel now about said opportunities is regret. Not real regret, but damn, why not.

General rule thumb.....if a girl that you find attractive says let's fuck, you oblige. Beating off is not a quality alternative.

If your Spidey senses were telling you too good too be true better to follow your gut feeling and live to Monger another day.

We too often follow our dicks rather than our gut feeling which lcan leads to poor decisions with money but not too often life threatening situations; however, if it does not feel right better to move on.

Good story, thanks for sharing.

I don’t know what kind of creature you your Sgrayeff, but I have to say that I just can’t sympathize with you.

First of all, if a pretty female hairless ape starts playing with my cloaca I follow through. Her boyfriend could be waiting with a tire iron... whatev... if some jealous ape wants to tango with me he’ll get the kind of beat down only a vulture can give. When that guy walks into the ER covered in bruises and vulture vomit the docs will KNOW he was ricked!

Squawk!

I agree with Cristobal completely, you were given a spider sense for a reason and not paying attention to it is what gets lots of people in big trouble.

Does no one keep the strap on d(e)ck with them?

Agree with others. If your Spidey sense is tingling, then pay attention to that.

Buying dances is a chump's game, and LDKing is just paying money to exacerbate your sexual frustration. So of course, jerking off will be necessary some times. But most of the time FS should be the outcome.

SJG

IMO likely nothing bad would have happened - a lot of PLs are risk-adverse - used to be we got a lot of threads about guys concerned/scared about doing OTC w/ a dancer they had met at a club thinking something bad would happen or it could be some kinda set-up - heck there are a lot of newbs that are scared of ITC-extras thinking they will somehow get busted by LE and that there can even be undercover LE dancers at clubs - as wells as many guys that think if they go to TJ they will be kidnapped and never heard from again - yeah - all these things "are possible" similar to getting on a plane to go to a club in a different city could mean you die in a plane-crash - yet many guys on here OTC, have gone to TJ dozens of times, etc.

When I lived in Dallas in the 2000s, it wasn't uncommon for some girls to drive by SC parking-lots looking for custies.

My point is - depending on one's personality and maybe mongering experience, certain things may look riskier than they really are - and I don't necessarily think this girl coming-on to the OP meant a high-probability of something sinister - hell there was a thread on here where the OP ended up P4P-banging a female Uber driver after they got to talking and the conversation headed in that direction somehow - and another TUSCLer that was on an ATL SC trip and was at a local CVS and got to talking to the girl behind the register and subsequently P4P-banging-her at his hotel on her break I believe - and I think I've read a thread or two about a TUSCLer an off-duty dancer at a club and leaving w/ her, etc.

i.e. girls fucking for $$$, at least on the side, or from time-to-time, is more common than one would think and it's not always the conventional way of an escort-ad or a stripper one knows from the club.

Having said this - no-matter the type of P4P, certain basic security measures are kosher such as not going to their place nor giving a P4P girl your room # until she's actually in the lobby and they you take her to your room, etc.

But this "oh yeah you bit the bullet and you were probably being set up ..." I think is overblown: I think it's more about not being used to that type of interaction just like newbs are not used to ITC nor OTC interactions and are overly concerned.

My 2-cents.

This kind of stuff real?

https://getmegiddy.com/?utm_adgroup=ed_d…

SJG

Good story. Every aphorism has an opposite aphorism. "Better safe than sorry" is the one you followed. You could have thought "nothing ventured nothing gained" or "opportunity only knocks once". Either way, you have to be true to your gut.

She was an unknown quantity hanging out in civvie clothes in the club while trying to pick up a random p4p date. You were right to scrutinize things more carefully as this is not normal.
Most clubs wouldn't allow this to happen at all, though I also hang out at a dive where this is possible.

As I always say in these situations, trust your gut. Our subconscious picks up thousands of unspoken cues that our conscious minds can't articulate or quantify, but that are nonetheless valid warnings. Now maybe everything would have been fine, but something felt off to you. Kudos for not letting your little head override your instincts in a situation like this.

Civvie in a strip club, not subjected to club rules and ready to walk out the front door with you?

Lots of potential there.

SJG

Appreciate all the comments, but I think some of you might be missing an important point (particularly those who'd say they'd fight in order to fuck).

There were girls there I could fuck in the club that night.. Known price. No problem.

This girl would be working there soon. I could fuck her in a few days. Price not yet known.

Like I said: Risk-reward ratio. This time it favored waiting. No reason to risk the tire iron, the police or who knows what.

As I re-read the original post and look at all the comments all I can figure is that I skimmed the original too fast. If she was implying that you two leave and you pay her maybe it was risky. When I gifts read I assumed that perhaps she wanted to get it on in the club. Anyways, not enough details to discern. Overall I do agree that if something didn't feel right, it's best to pass.

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