BDSM or Femdom.

You might be paying a lot for that, though if you put yourself on seeking.com as a male sugar baby, you might get some hits.

You can easily find what you want, except for the sucking and fucking part, in most cities on fet life. It's not my thing, but I don't believe that most "Doms" will actually perform sex acts - unless you find them on escort sites. But they will guide you through other fetish-like activity like SPH, JOI, etc. (Look them up...). So you get the visual/verbal experiences described, but the actual acts are self-managed.

Very easy to find domination at the SC. Most of the girls are submissive but there's dominant ones around. You probably won't be penis pumped in the club though, and let's face facts, if she wants 9 inches of monster meat from you, she's going to have to get you hard three times. But otherwise, not far fetched at all :) :)

Interesting. I did not know that they generally do not complete the acts. Now even more intrigued. May be a kind of safe sex experience.

And I just learned two new acronyms, SPH and JOI.

Found a massage therapist listed in KC MO who boasts to have the only milking table around. She also says she is “fetish friendly”. I may have to try her out. Listed in rubratings.com

-->" I did not know that they generally do not complete the acts."

That's pro dommes only. Go get your domination from a stripper, escort, FBSM girl, or SB, and they'll complete whatever act they signed up for. Waaaaaaay better.