Strippers that encourage Touching during Lap dances
Evasparkling
Atlanta
How common is it for Strippers to encourage you to touch them during lap dances?
Most times when you're getting lap dances, if you're touching the strippers body, you're the one who took the initiative not the Stripper...
But sometimes Strippers dancers will encourage you to touch them and even though it's not that common some Strippers will go as far as putting your hands on their body { Boobs & Ass} and some do go under your shorts with their hands inorder to stimulate junior while giving you a lap dance...
At the same time some Strippers tend to avoid contact and limit touching as much as possible
Last week I got some dances from this beautiful Latina but she wouldn't let me touch her... She kept on brushing my hands away whenever I attempted to touch her breast & also the grind was lame because she tried as much as possible to Limit contact on the Dance Floor while yelling about VIP constantly into my ear...Ended up disappointed & I had to send her on her way after two dances...
So While sipping my drink a Black Stripper tapped me on my shoulder & asked if I needed some dances & I said yes...
Not only did she give a better grind but she took my hands and place them on certain parts of her body while simultaneously reaching under my shorts to give junior a good massage...
By reading TUSCL I already know she wasn't, but it does seem like she was into it. Some of these strippers do deserve awards for their play acting...
I'm not complaining about this particular girl because experiences like these makes strip clubbing enjoyable...
Most times when you're getting lap dances, if you're touching the strippers body, you're the one who took the initiative not the Stripper...
But sometimes Strippers dancers will encourage you to touch them and even though it's not that common some Strippers will go as far as putting your hands on their body { Boobs & Ass} and some do go under your shorts with their hands inorder to stimulate junior while giving you a lap dance...
At the same time some Strippers tend to avoid contact and limit touching as much as possible
Last week I got some dances from this beautiful Latina but she wouldn't let me touch her... She kept on brushing my hands away whenever I attempted to touch her breast & also the grind was lame because she tried as much as possible to Limit contact on the Dance Floor while yelling about VIP constantly into my ear...Ended up disappointed & I had to send her on her way after two dances...
So While sipping my drink a Black Stripper tapped me on my shoulder & asked if I needed some dances & I said yes...
Not only did she give a better grind but she took my hands and place them on certain parts of her body while simultaneously reaching under my shorts to give junior a good massage...
By reading TUSCL I already know she wasn't, but it does seem like she was into it. Some of these strippers do deserve awards for their play acting...
I'm not complaining about this particular girl because experiences like these makes strip clubbing enjoyable...
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if for whatever reason you have your arms to the side and it’s a 2 way contact dance, there’s a very good chance the stripper will take your hands and place them on her ass and/or breasts
w.r.t. black dancers it seems they often have to try harder - in mixed-clubs the white dancer that's a '7' seems to usually get more interst from custies than a black dancer that is also a '7' - i.e. if they are similar in looks seems the white dancers on avg get more biz and black-dancers often have to try harder in part by giving more mileage.
Around here (Providence, RI), it's very common because we have high mileage clubs. Then again, there are some brand new strippers who are still figuring out their limits. And there are some super hot dancers who make enough money without encouraging anything at all.
Utah... probably much different.
In SF once again it depends on the club and the area you're in. In the topless SF clubs on the floor it is not common for the dancer to put your hands on boobs/ass. In the VIP, maybe. In the nude clubs is where the practice is common enough. Like Shadowcat says, money talks. I'm sure those dancers realized that by taking your hands and putting them on her boobs or ass she has a better chance of getting you hooked to get more money out of you via more dances or VIP.
Both parties are thinking of two different parts of this sentence: I'll encourage him to touch my boobs and ass to get more money out of him. The PL is only thinking of that first part "she's encouraging me to touch her, she's gonna be a lot of fun". While the dancer is thinking "I'm about to get all kinds of money out of this guy". As long as the situation stays in the middle of the tug of war I think it's ok for both parties.
I have had quite a few dancers put my hands on the goods (I like to play shy).
My most memorable:
It was a three song dance, the first song bikini, the second song topless, and the third song full nude, for the first two she guided my hands all over which I thoroughly enjoyed but for the third song she sat on my left leg facing me, moved my hand to rub her kitty while she massaged junior, her look and breathing with slight moans in my ear was making me believe she was enjoying it almost as much as I did.
We ended going to the VIP room to finish up.
Oh, the memories.
Front room makeout session. Then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.
Then take her home with you for more of the same and continue to see her regularly.
SJG
I think a lot of the touching is due to competition and a lot of pretty girls allowing it. Idk
The only thing is, once you have abs, they EXPECT you to have a nice sized member. And being a flaccid grower can be a deterrent. I remember one girl complain about some good looking in shape dude be a small potato below the belt and was shocked because he had abs.
Fellas, get abs, old or young, they help make things more interesting.
My girlfriend tells me she doesn't mind a little flab either and I'm sure that's how it is with a lot of women. But also from my experience, when women say that, it's usually what they're fine with in a SIGNIFICANT relationship. I bet you if you were a fly on a wall amongst girl talks, they'd be eye fucking the shit out of those ab-tastic men. Would they seriously date them long term....maybe if he accepts her gaining a bit of flab herself (see why a little flab is ok on men for women yet?), but from their perception, men in great shape only date women in great shape and being in great shape is more of a chore for some than it is for others.
But I still respect ya for being yourself. Bad food however, physically makes me ill, so I can't eat chips and cookies even once every 2 days.
@blahblahblah23 wow, we gotta mark these clubs so we can know which ones to avoid.
That’s how Austin is. Heck I didn’t even know at all that grinding is technically prostitution there until I was working at a club one night and TABC came in. And by that point I had been dancing for a year.
(TABC=Texas alcohol board commission. Not even a true vice squad. Who in the fuck are these power tripping nazis looking into shit past simple drinking? 😡)
Which leads to a weird thing where sometimes it’s okay to have heavy two way contact and then occasionally it’s not in the clubs. But customers expect that stuff so it all just sucks all around. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
Though, I do remember one time I was on stage in San Antonio and chatted with a customer who tipped me and he said he was from Atlanta. I took a leap of faith that he never went to Follies, and outright pitched to him getting dances and mentioned touching as a selling point. It was a stupidly fast sale and he was immediately ready to go when I got off stage. 😁