This concept varies by club, city and state. East coast locations, just like regular bars, clubs and restaurants can have a dress code. Clubs that want to be "upscale" will generally have a dress code (no shorts, no sweat pants, collared shirts, no hats, etc.). But others don't care, especially when the club culture includes HM+ dances.
In Los Angeles, clubs like Plan B and 4Play are upscale. While Deja Vu, Valley Ball, and Jet Strip don't care, as long as you pay the cover and don't act like an asshole.
Just like PL's can identify a likely HM+ dancer by the way she approaches and talks, dancers can identify a likely HM+ PL by his clothes. I mean if wearing black polyester sports shorts commando doesn't telegraph my intentions, she's in the wrong job.
I don’t wear sweatpants to a club but I have several CF’s who don’t hesitate to take my dick out of my pants when I see them. Sure they do it for the money but your comment is incorrect.
but I have several CF’s who don’t hesitate to take my dick out of my pants w
1) your CF liking it isn't the same thing as Just waltzing into a club with ur dick having easy access and requesting a dance from a girl that doesn't fucking know you and isn't comfortable with it.
This thread isn't the same thing as reality where a stripper can see exactly what kind of clothes you are wearing and decide not to offer you a dance for any fucking reservations she has.
Nor is this thread the same as reality where at anytime during a dance a stripper can call it off if she's uncomfortable in any way.
This thread is just another result of a Nicokeyes manic episode.
"No, this thread was acknowledging that very fact .the point isn't that she can stop the dance at whatever time, but rather that she shouldn't have to."
No, typical with you, this thread was very ambiguous and based on assumptions in your own (manic) head and only became clear with this clarification.
And you still are making assumptions about what strippers should and shouldn't have to do. Unless there is a dress code at the club, a stripper shouldn't have to dictate what attire a patron wears.
^ a patron can wear whatever the fuck he wants within the club dress code rules. If a stripper doesn't like it, she can change clubs or not give dances to customers that don't wear what she likes.
My backup CF was stick shifting me good yesterday in the main room. As we sat together. I was wearing my special LDK pants too.
Prior to her coming up to me, another stripper that I've never gotten dances with walked up to me unsolicited and grabbed my crotch and said "You look nice. And nice pants!" LOL she knew I was going commando.
Nicole, are you dancing in a club now? Getting ready to?
There are different types of clubs. In some, not near me, a guy get greeted by the stripper handshake even before his eyes have adjusted to the dark. And then if he sits down with the girl, it will probably quickly escalate to bared dick.
For myself, I don't really care about that, care more about front room makeout sessions. I want to get my selected girl softened up. But probably that will work in conjunction with front room preliminary HJ, sometimes even BJ, and then back room FS.
So you say, "no one wants it when u go to the club".
Well yes, in some clubs it will be that way with most of the dancers. But in other clubs not at all, quite the opposite.
I have no interest in using any strip club, anywhere in the world, as my regular source of sexual gratification.
Long ago, dancer told me, "Don't use strip clubs for sexual gratification, that's perverted."
So what are they good for?
1. Sometimes you want to imbibe a sexual aesthetic, in the dolled up hotties and the emotional and physical openness.
2. And then some of us really like strippers and want to know them, and want to be walking up in the mornings with them. So in any new metro, best place to start getting to know people is a strip club.
But neither of these two uses requires frequent visits. You recreate what you like, in your outside life.
So Nicole, if you are going to start dancing in strip clubs, make sure you find the sort which is best for you.
^^^^ In some clubs it is well documented that girls are getting out beyond the front door, out onto the sidewalk, to administer the stripper handshake and try to get guys in.
No one really does wanna see your dick at the club. A hoe doing it for money doesn't mean she actually wants to do it. Is she doing it without money? Nope...
In the summer its shorts, no underwear and a T-shirt. In the winter its a t-shirt, hoodie and sweats or flannel pants. The idea an imbecile like Loco or a little girl with no life experience like Nicole has anything valid to say on this subject is inane. If the dancers don't like my attire they can finf other customers they like. My fucking wallet makes me look like I am wearing a tuxedo.
^^^^ Not for free, but in the best circumstances the girls are being totally for real and totally GFE, and they can easily be gotten outside. They want money, but they enjoy it just as much as they would without money.
SJG I don't believe that. That's the thing, its a girlfriend "experience" and they're giving that experience for a price. Hoes tend to be very different in their private lives.
Girlfriend Experience seems to be an escort term coming from the Taiwan AAMP industry. Many of the Taiwan girls do really good GFE too. They really do love it. But it is an unfortunate term. Its not good English.
Many girls in strip clubs would be happy to be going out with a guy for free. And they do BJ and other intimacies just as good as it would be if they were civilian.
If you treat them like civilians, they deliver that good.
Hmmm. The only time I wore shorts to a strip club was the first time that I got my cock pulled out because the gal simply wanted to see it. No extra money. She simply stated that she wanted to see it. I told her that it is fine by me. She pulled it out, then asked me to fuck it. All the other times this happen was in my regular slacks. I never requested such, but seemed to get the treatment anyway. And as SJG stated, in several clubs, the strippers have my cock out and in their hands before I can sit down to order a beer. So, either they pretend really well or your information is flawed. Either way, it all works for me in the satisfaction department.
BTW for the record @Nicole the only time I have ever pulled my dick out and showed it to a stripper was when she asked me to let her see it. It was in a private bedroom dance. She took a break from a dance and was rubbing her pussy in a chair and asked me to pull mine out and stroke it. All I did was show it to her and put it back in my pants. Completely unsolicited on my part.
And in all my 20+ yrs of going to strip clubs I've never seen a dick out but then again I don't look there. And also in that time maybe a handful at most of strippers I knew had a dick out encounter.
My dick has only come out in the last 9 months. For 20 years previous, it never peaked its ugly head. For whatever reason, the girls are wanting to play with it now. Not that I am complaining. Perhaps, they see me as a safe play thing the older I get. Quite frankly, they can play with my cock as much as their hearts desire. I’m safe. It will go nowhere romantically, but if they choose to sit on it, I’m also GAME AS ALL FET OUT! Fuck the hell out of me and I promise to forget you as soon as I walk out that fucking door.
@Nidan111 contrary to what IceyDodo and Nicole ASSUME, there are strippers that are just as much initiating the desire give the PL an extra as there are PLs trying to get an extra.
In my anecdotal experience with past faves and ATFs and random LDK strippers I would guess around 5% of them were down for extras and dick out because they openly solicited it from me. I don't ask nor imply that I want anything anymore than a nice contact lapdance. Extras are not on the table for me yet I get solicited for them in clubs across the west coast and midwest.
So no, strippers aren't always being forced to see old guy dicks and old guys are NOT always trying to force their dicks out on strippers. Sometimes it's the stripper that is wanting it. And yes of course it's because she wants money in case you think I don't know this.
I wouldn’t wear sweatpants to a club. They are way too confining. Plus, it’s such an unclassy thing to do.
I prefer to wear those gowns that tie in the back like they make you wear in the hospital, except that I wear mine backwards so that it would tie in the front if I was inclined to tie it at all.
In one of our underground places, we had girls doing front room FS. Often that was wear you were sitting, but other times you could do her standing up. But never a full undress.
These girls, the core of them I call, "The Beloved Latina Escorts".
They make you feel like a king, and they are justifiably proud too.
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In Los Angeles, clubs like Plan B and 4Play are upscale. While Deja Vu, Valley Ball, and Jet Strip don't care, as long as you pay the cover and don't act like an asshole.
Just like PL's can identify a likely HM+ dancer by the way she approaches and talks, dancers can identify a likely HM+ PL by his clothes. I mean if wearing black polyester sports shorts commando doesn't telegraph my intentions, she's in the wrong job.
1) your CF liking it isn't the same thing as
Just waltzing into a club with ur dick having easy access and requesting a dance from a girl that doesn't fucking know you and isn't comfortable with it.
Nor is this thread the same as reality where at anytime during a dance a stripper can call it off if she's uncomfortable in any way.
This thread is just another result of a Nicokeyes manic episode.
No, this thread was acknowledging that very fact .the point isn't that she can stop the dance at whatever time, but rather that she shouldn't have to.
No, typical with you, this thread was very ambiguous and based on assumptions in your own (manic) head and only became clear with this clarification.
And you still are making assumptions about what strippers should and shouldn't have to do. Unless there is a dress code at the club, a stripper shouldn't have to dictate what attire a patron wears.
^^^says ugly men with ugly dicks that (most )strippers don't wanna see or feel lmao........
Prior to her coming up to me, another stripper that I've never gotten dances with walked up to me unsolicited and grabbed my crotch and said "You look nice. And nice pants!" LOL she knew I was going commando.
There are different types of clubs. In some, not near me, a guy get greeted by the stripper handshake even before his eyes have adjusted to the dark. And then if he sits down with the girl, it will probably quickly escalate to bared dick.
For myself, I don't really care about that, care more about front room makeout sessions. I want to get my selected girl softened up. But probably that will work in conjunction with front room preliminary HJ, sometimes even BJ, and then back room FS.
So you say, "no one wants it when u go to the club".
Well yes, in some clubs it will be that way with most of the dancers. But in other clubs not at all, quite the opposite.
I have no interest in using any strip club, anywhere in the world, as my regular source of sexual gratification.
Long ago, dancer told me, "Don't use strip clubs for sexual gratification, that's perverted."
So what are they good for?
1. Sometimes you want to imbibe a sexual aesthetic, in the dolled up hotties and the emotional and physical openness.
2. And then some of us really like strippers and want to know them, and want to be walking up in the mornings with them. So in any new metro, best place to start getting to know people is a strip club.
But neither of these two uses requires frequent visits. You recreate what you like, in your outside life.
So Nicole, if you are going to start dancing in strip clubs, make sure you find the sort which is best for you.
SJG
SJG
No one really does wanna see your dick at the club. A hoe doing it for money doesn't mean she actually wants to do it. Is she doing it without money? Nope...
Lots of girl who love doing such stuff, and I know this personally.
SJG
SJG, yeah but they're not offering for free for their own enjoyment. At swingers clubs, thats another story though!
SJG
Many girls in strip clubs would be happy to be going out with a guy for free. And they do BJ and other intimacies just as good as it would be if they were civilian.
If you treat them like civilians, they deliver that good.
SJG
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A. Double dong.
B. Standard vibrator.
C. French tickler.
D. Ben Wah balls.
E. All of the above.
F. Other.
SJG
SJG
And in all my 20+ yrs of going to strip clubs I've never seen a dick out but then again I don't look there. And also in that time maybe a handful at most of strippers I knew had a dick out encounter.
In my anecdotal experience with past faves and ATFs and random LDK strippers I would guess around 5% of them were down for extras and dick out because they openly solicited it from me. I don't ask nor imply that I want anything anymore than a nice contact lapdance. Extras are not on the table for me yet I get solicited for them in clubs across the west coast and midwest.
So no, strippers aren't always being forced to see old guy dicks and old guys are NOT always trying to force their dicks out on strippers. Sometimes it's the stripper that is wanting it. And yes of course it's because she wants money in case you think I don't know this.
I prefer to wear those gowns that tie in the back like they make you wear in the hospital, except that I wear mine backwards so that it would tie in the front if I was inclined to tie it at all.
Works great for me.
These girls, the core of them I call, "The Beloved Latina Escorts".
They make you feel like a king, and they are justifiably proud too.
SJG
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A lot of the men who post on this regularly are just pay for play creeps, guys seeking ejaculation services in strip clubs.
But a lot of the girls go along with that completely, so it hard to say anything about it.
SJG