What Does the Strip Club Offer You That The OTC World Doesn’t?

"SEX"

Lol. Sex, period or with specific types of girls?

I may not understand the question. You're asking what ITC offers that OTC (in both cases, with strippers) doesn't?

Anonymity.

ITC with a stripper can be more social (i.e., you can do it with your buddies), with not much planning needed, and the ability to call an audible to switch girls, activities, etc

OTC gets you quality time with one stripper (if she manages to show up), much more time and sex for the $$$ than ITC, more planning required but sex in complete privacy

Is this a trick question?

Let me clarify. Not OTC with strippers. I mean life completely absent of strippers. Does the strip club compensate for something you don’t get in the outside world.

Ah. I wouldn't use the term OTC to mean real life. We all use it almost exclusively to mean "Outside The Club WITH Strippers"

Up until a few years ago, I'd have said the main thing ITC or OTC gets me, that I don't get in real life, is sex with an 8+ 20-25 year old woman. But, I've since been getting that same thing through SA, and in fact, as the SC quality in my area has gone down over the past few years, I've been doing even more of that through SA and relatively less with strippers.

What ITC still gets me is a unique social situation that I can enjoy with my buddies. We go to the club together, party there together, etc. And despite my activities on SA, I still enjoy strippers so much that sometimes I connect with the right stripper and go OTC with her.

NSA fun without any repercussions or entanglement

===> "NSA fun without any repercussions or entanglement"

This. Plus the convenience of having this fun whenever I choose to without having to schedule or pre-plan.

See, while I definitely enjoy the NSA no-entanglement fun with CFs and random strippers, I also like the light-strings-attached and light-entanglement with my ATFs.

Totally understand why some (most) guys on tuscl prefer the former and avoid the latter. But my experiences on SA have shown that what I have with ATFs is pretty much indistinguishable from an arrangement, and I do enjoy the sex more with a woman I know better, I enjoy when they lean on me for advice, etc. Not a right or wrong thing, just different ways to have fun.

^ I have arrangements too, but that’s my choice but the best part for me is it’s available when I decide I want it, and even if I hadn’t made a plan to meet a specific girl, chances are better than 95% that there’ll be some gal there that matches my desires when the urge strikes.

Anonymous fun. I don’t go to strip Clubs with friends. My friends do not know I go to strip clubs. Only I know I go to strip clubs. I like talking to, interacting with, feeling up, and having sex with beautiful women that I never have to deal with again after I walk out that door.

JITP (Just In Time Pussy)


By age 30 I knew I didn't wanna get married - not against marriage and I think it's a good-thing, it just not something I desired/wanted personally.

By age 40 (currently 49) I decided not to be in relationships/GFs anymore, felt a bit like being married and by 40 I was feeling the cons of relationships were outweighing the pros for me personally.

I like women A LOT (and in the plural sense) - especially like getting immediate physical gratification - the SCs provide immediate access to women w/o having to be in a relationship - I'm not that great at picking up chicks so if I had to rely on that to get the physical pleasure I seek/need, I'd be more frustrated than not - also liking variety A LOT it's not worth the effort to me to work and win a civvie over when I often wanna move on to something new if I get what I want.

I don't SC for emotional reasons (lonely, wanting a GF, etc) l; for me it's about the physical -so for me SCs fit me like a ring on a finger (immediate access to women I find-desirable/rurn-me-on, and no expectations/demands from her except a monetary donation)

I second Nidan...anonymity 100%

Papi, I dig you way of looking at life.

Your reasoning is more aligned with mine.

As I get older (31), I’m seeing the con of relationships and marriage plus I love variety.

I tried swinging with my ex and she wasn’t as down for it as I needed for her to be to truly enjoy myself. I love women in the real world but it’s too conditional for what I really want and SCs provide that instantly.

I suppose at least with me being around dancers for over 25 years, plus the swinging world, I’m ruined for civvie women. I’m attracted to “trashy” women and can’t ever see myself in the near future with a dowdy vanilla girl. In fact I was having this very same conversation with a dancer last week.

My “kryptonite” is a MILF dancer who wants an occasional OTC arrangement so that when we go out, her skirts are way too short, her heels at least 6” high and her boobs get in the room at least 2 seconds before she does.

In the club, I just enjoy a nearly naked woman draped around me for an hour or so, and then at least for me, it’s back to reality.

You can get hood girls at any club, not just "hood" ones...

For me, it just started with girls I grew up with becoming strippers, going to see them at work for support, then dating strippers... I really just treat them like regular clubs, with better vibes and better eye candy.

I wacthed the US Open, but I play golf. I like to go out for dinner, but my wife is a spectacular cook. I enjoy sex with my wife but strip clubs .........

IceyLoco i don’t do clubs like that if at all. Just went to see em and be done with them.

Strip clubs provide me a good collection of eye candy and when in the mood (most of the time) something extra.

SCs offers me a good alternative to the drama/heartache of a GF, fiance, or wife.

Papi's reasoning definitely resonates with me.

As my wife and I got older sex became a less common then non-existent thing. For a while we each had our own health issues, Now that we seem to be healthy enough again my wife has made it clear that she is no longer interested. So I go to SC’s to have young sexy women pretend that I am sexy and handsome enough to have sex with. I know they are pretending but as long as they do a good job it makes me feel sexy and young again.

Second what lotsoffun said. Definitely

It's an "easy" button that allows me to have sexy fun times with hot young women.

Well... easy but expensive.

I like looking at and touching hot naked women. Turns out when I go to a bar, I’m reminded that I am not in fact a solid 10, and already I can’t hope to talk to the hotness level of women I like.

Secondly, should I consume enough beer to no longer be bothered by the 4s and 5s (and occasionally the 3s) that will entertain my company, they require an exorbitant amount of time and energy to engage. Assuming things escalate there’s the question of where to go. And seems they don’t want to just dance and strip for me while I touch and have fun. Also can I remind you that even drunk I’m still conscience enough to know they aren’t as hot as the SC girls I now know are only a 10 minute drive from the bar I frequent. If I had the youth and looks to bag a 10 at a bar, maybe I’d not be so enthralled with SCs.

I have plenty a life and friends and activities that I partake in that don’t involve SC. But SC seem to be the only place I am easily able enjoy hot women that are otherwise out of my league.

at my age of 69 strip clubs are a easy access to the women I like.

What man doesn’t like hot, young women?
I’m late thirties and would feel like a creep hitting on civilian twenty somethings.

When I talk to a dancer, I don't come to realize later that they managed to get the answer to every single one of these questions:

What is your profession?
Where do you work?
Do you own or rent?
Do you have a roommate?
What kind of car do you drive?

I believe ITC has much less risk of being a victim of local LE sting operations as far as the male clients go. The dancers on the other hand still face some degree of risk of being arrested.