This thread is inspired by Muddy9’s thread in the Front Room. I am thinking of the practicality of actually asking a dancer I know to become a part of our community. There are pros and cons.
Pros. We get another dancer to give their perspective on what we all love to do and maybe some insight in how to up our game to be more successful in our quest for “female companionship”. If we are lucky we get another delightful sparing partner for our discussions. Possibly she posts some pictures that will assist in our daydreams.
Cons. She will be able to read the reviews I and others make on where she works, specifically if the review of the place is really a review about her. She will learn that I pursue numerous other dancers when I get the chance. She will be subjected to all the negative crap that some members dump on dancers who are active on this site.
It takes a woman with strong self-esteem, witty intelligence and nimble posting skills to thrive or even survive in this environment.
I would love to invite the dancer I have in mind to join our happy group, but I am also somewhat concerned that she would get hurt.
What do you think guys?
All risk and little chance of a vague and generalized reward. I would advise against.