OTC opportunity Northern NJ

1. Which clubs worked for you? Too may to list.

2. What tips can you give me for asking for OTC? Ask her if she'll meet you at your hotel.

3. How long did it take you to bang them OTC after meeting them? Anywhere from an hour to several hours.

4. I don’t want names of course but location and hours where more available OTC options are would be helpful Location doesn't matter. Optimal time is near end of shift, whether day or night.

I’m way too paranoid to try escort services. Worried about getting scammed

Extras in NNJ are spotty. Most clubs are bikini with booze or Nude without. Neither have good privacy.
Passaic has a couple club that are ok but you need to be a regular to get a private. Or do one of the full service AMPs

Some of the clubs you reviewed are good spots for finding otc. You should look at your pitch if it never pans out. Are you making a clear offer?

This is a numbers game. IME, some dancers will give you their number and their (still fake) "real name" and make promises of wanting OTC. But when you message them they play you along just trying to get you back into the club ("I like you, but I need to know you better before I feel comfortable...").

Others will be happy to meet you, for some insane amount ($500, 750 1000!) thinking you are (and in your case you really are) a rube and won't have game to call bullshit and negotiate the down to $300-$400 or less. There are also dancers with pimps who will offer you a stupidly low number like $100 but will show up with Pimp Daddy and his gang of armed thugs.

Finally, there are dancers who will be open to meet for a fair rate, as long as you don't treat them like a 'ho' (ironic, isn't it?).

Work up your game:
1. Build up trust first. Talk her up, pay attention, compliment her on anything except her looks/anatomy/etc.
2. If possible, get HER to suggest OTC. Be nervous about "going to far" in the cub, but be demonstrably interested in her (a hard-on speaks volumes).
3. Present yourself as confident, but not arrogant. A shark will smell blood in the water and will drain your wallet without ever draining your dick

“compliment her on anything except her looks/anatomy/etc. ” What’s thendeal wirh this advice? I always compliment them on their looks. Why not? They are there to look good.

Thanks for the great advice everyone. My game is good, looks are good, I make clear offers, and even some of the girls have suggested OTC first. but I guess I’m having a tuff time finding the right one to do OTC whenever I’m available . I have a few that I’ve been texting for months now and it’s always “I’m busy, I’ll be away, etc”. I know 2 are single mothers so that always complicates it. I have home obligations too so conflicting schedules are always a problem. I have yet to find a girl with a flexible schedule I guess.

Offers should include when.
"You are working thursday. Lets get together at 4. You will have enough time to get to work on time and you start the night with your bank made."

Or consider offering to meet up after work today. This is useful when she hasnt made her money for the night