The "L" word...

I only remember one ATF telling me she was in love with me. She told me this as I was saying goodbye to her since I was getting ready to move out of state.

After many years of experience, I've only had three of my girls, lay the "L" word on me - my ATF, and the prev two ATFs. In all three cases, it was used more as a "thank you", rather than to imply that there was romantic feelings associated with the utterance of the word.

I know that I am very careful not to use the word, when in the presence of a dancer, and to this day, have never let that word slip to a dancer.

I believe that the low number of dancers that I've heard the word from is pretty much the result of the type of girls that I spend my time with. The girls that I am usually with seem to the be the type that tend NOT to lead guys on (or maybe just me?) to think there's more than fantasy going on. So, I feel pretty certain that these girls are as careful about using that word as I am.

I don't recall any dancers telling me that they loved me, however, some have told me how they "loved" dancing for me. I suppose that is just 'stripper lingo', but I do try my best to make sure the dancer is having as much fun with me while dancing for me. I'm a very considerate type gent with the dancers and it pays off in the long run.

Now...... I certainly could 'fall in love' with evilcyn, now that I've met her. However, I will stick with the "fantasy" of loving her...... every part of her to include her mind!

My ATF uses the L word every time I talk to her. She does the same with other people she feels close to, I've heard her say it amny times. She really means it but not in a romantic sense. As we all know there are many different varieties of love.

But does anyone know what "love" is? And to go back to a previous discussion, is love real or fantasy?

I have to say the only times I've heard was with my ATF and the same way as FONDL. "She really means it but not in a romantic sense." Also, I told her, as well. Being so much older that she is, I still think she had me as her father figure.

I hear it all the time from strippers. I probably encourage by saying things like, "I don't love you just for your body, I love you for your filthy imagination." It's just strip club love.

Sometimes, in a strip club at least, "I love you" is just a girl's way of saying "Thank you for not trying to stick your finger in my ass".

Of course, as we all should know by now, the correct Stripper-to-English translation for "I love you" is "I love your money".