Addicted to TUSCL, but it could be worse

JAprufrock
Did desertscrub's mom suck you dry, too?
Been on TUSCL for three years and lately I noticed I'm obsessed with checking out this site and another like it that is devoted to the Toronto escort and massage scene. Weird thing is, I'm not even that hardcore of a monger -- at least not yet. I go to TJ once a year and Toronto a couple times a year and that's it.
But I've found this site to be invaluable for information about the lifestyle I'll likely lead for the rest of my life, as someone who swore off dating and relationships after I got bent over a table several years ago by the woman I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with.
There are far worse addictions, and I'm glad I'm not wrapped up in any of these:
1. Drugs: Never had any interest, even on my darkest days. Amazes me to see some rich people and celebrities OD on heroin; it's like, what the fuck is so wrong with your life that you feel the need to stick needles in your arms?
2. Alcohol: I started drinking again after my marriage failed, but not to the point where it was a problem and I've cut back considerably the past year to just 2-3 beers a week.
3. Tobacco: Haven't smoked in about 28 years and the thought of putting chewing tobacco in my mouth makes me want to vomit.
4. Gambling: This could be dangerous with the proliferation of casinos throughout the country and now sports betting becoming legalized in more states. I've always been strong-willed, so I'm betting I don't get hooked.
5. Food: I've lost a lot of weight from working out the past few years and am highly motivated to keep it off, so no worries about this.
6. Porn: I spend so much time on TUSCL and that other site at night that I'm looking at less porn these days. But now that there's so much free porn on the Internet, it wouldn't cost anything or bother me if I was checking out porn every night.
7. Sex: The only issues I see with this addiction is if you're spending too much money for it or engaging in dangerous acts, like bareback with pros.
8. TV: I was watching a lot of TV couple years ago, so many binge-worthy shows on Netflix, but not to the point of addiction.
9. Video games: I was spending too much time doing this a couple years back but have completely lost interest and don't think I've played in more than a year.
I think TUSCL has prevented me from over-indulging in some of these other vices. Founder, you deserve some sort of humanitarian medal for this.

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I mean isn't that what facebook does to ppl lpl
Papi_Chulo
6 years ago
TUSCL seems to fill a niche - its ease of use and non-existent moderation make it an interesting place
Papi_Chulo
6 years ago
^ where one can freely share their views (for the most part)
CJKent (Banned)
6 years ago
@JAprufrock
“Nothing is good in excess...”

Is natural for any human being to have a healthy desire to mate and procreate and there is nothing wrong with that.

Sexual behavior is a normal, healthy part of life and many people enjoy being active with multiple sexual partners or seeking out many different kinds of sexual experiences.

If you thought that the only benefit of sex was, well, pleasure, here’s some news for you. Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better.

Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are also several other reasons why you need to have sex more often.

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Muddy
6 years ago
It’s one of the few places where you can really say what you feel. Other bsing with close friends. It does give some cool perspectives while also attracting a few lunatics.
Cristobal
6 years ago
TUSCL is certainly a different type of community:

Freely expressing feelings and interaction with all types of women even in P4P world.

For the most part it's nonjudgmental.

Occasionally you receive helpful advice and support.

As far as addiction goes, it's only bad when it overtakes your life and creates imbalance.

I would rather monger than smoke, gamble, do drugs, and play videos games.

I would rather make porn memories than watch porn movies.

Alcholol, food, and TV (mostly sports) have their place for me to enjoy life.
Nidan111
6 years ago
I like this site and hobby simply because I am allowed to fully express myself without giving a shit about ramifications. This site is anonymous, the SCs are technically anonymous, sex is anonymously and my fun banter with naked women half my age is anonymous. It truly is my release. Especially since I feel too old to put on the gloves and foot gear and go a few hard rounds anymore. This site is therapeutic.
founder
6 years ago
I'm glad you all enjoy it
flagooner
6 years ago
Some days I tell myself that I won't check until after dinner. That lasts a few hours.
CC99
6 years ago
I like posting here but being addicted to this site is no joke. Alcohol, gambling, cigarettes, and drugs are certainly more destructive so I'm not trying to say they are as bad or anything like that but TUSCL can be a surprisingly difficult and time consuming addiction to break because its always there and it lures you in stealthily. The October-January period especially I was extremely addicted to this site. I found myself being late to a lot of things because I couldn't get off when a heated discussion was going on. Even when there wasn't I always thought something was going to happen and I was gonna miss it. Personally though, based on my observations of your posting habits, you don't seem anywhere near the level of addiction to this site that I've been at so you're probably fine.
Icey
6 years ago
I enjoy participating
nicespice
6 years ago
TUSCL is a fun place. 80% stupidity, and 20% surprisingly good insight in a variety of subjects.
nicespice
6 years ago
Now that I think about it, around the time I started posting on here correlated with the time I stopped calling a male friend a “ho” on his various ho statuses. I also stopped saying stupid things on people’s stauses about politics.
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