Farewell Friend
Cristobal
I give in to sin because you have to make this life livable
In my Vietnamese Bikini Coffee Shop days I befriended a beautiful, aspiring Cosplay model who introduced me to a group of amateur mongers who would later become my close friends.
One of the mongers, who provided me solid advice on the coffee shop world, reintroduced me to strip clubs and took me to TJ, soon became my best friend.
However, we were different types of mongers, I am an extras FS hound while he enjoys looking more feeling less; also, I visit clubs/brothels twice a week and he would visit once a month or less frequent.
He convinced me a life changing experience was awaiting me in Thailand and Vietnam, he had business interests in Southeast Asia and invited me to join him for a trip.
I accepted and started saving money by cutting down my visits to SCs and TJ, and then something strange happened:
My civvie game improved.
Then something stranger happened:
My best friend canceled our Asia trip claiming I would become jaded explaining he was trying to be my moral compass.
Needless to say I was upset but I respected his decision though I secretly planned to go by myself in a few months.
So I was enjoying my mongering and civvie game, having the best time of my life, and on a return trip from TJ after missing several text messages to meet up for coffee something really strange happened:
That night at the Cosplay model's birthday party my friend called me out in front of everyone as "the worst commincator" too concerned with chasing ass that I neglect my friends.
I decided to leave the party early to take a coffee girl out to dinner and the next day my best friend texted that I was a "cocky bastard, an arrogant asshole" saying our friendship was over, blocked my number, blocked all social media, and removed his number from all group chats I partake in.
Not sure why this happened but I accept it and move on: I've buried my mother, my cousin, my aunt, I lost the love of my life to divorce, I survived serious stomach surgery, so losing a two year friend is hardly a blip on the radar.
Farwell friend.
One of the mongers, who provided me solid advice on the coffee shop world, reintroduced me to strip clubs and took me to TJ, soon became my best friend.
However, we were different types of mongers, I am an extras FS hound while he enjoys looking more feeling less; also, I visit clubs/brothels twice a week and he would visit once a month or less frequent.
He convinced me a life changing experience was awaiting me in Thailand and Vietnam, he had business interests in Southeast Asia and invited me to join him for a trip.
I accepted and started saving money by cutting down my visits to SCs and TJ, and then something strange happened:
My civvie game improved.
Then something stranger happened:
My best friend canceled our Asia trip claiming I would become jaded explaining he was trying to be my moral compass.
Needless to say I was upset but I respected his decision though I secretly planned to go by myself in a few months.
So I was enjoying my mongering and civvie game, having the best time of my life, and on a return trip from TJ after missing several text messages to meet up for coffee something really strange happened:
That night at the Cosplay model's birthday party my friend called me out in front of everyone as "the worst commincator" too concerned with chasing ass that I neglect my friends.
I decided to leave the party early to take a coffee girl out to dinner and the next day my best friend texted that I was a "cocky bastard, an arrogant asshole" saying our friendship was over, blocked my number, blocked all social media, and removed his number from all group chats I partake in.
Not sure why this happened but I accept it and move on: I've buried my mother, my cousin, my aunt, I lost the love of my life to divorce, I survived serious stomach surgery, so losing a two year friend is hardly a blip on the radar.
Farwell friend.
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Hey, where’d you go? Guess we’ll have to wait and see if you return stateside to find out if we’re still friends ;)
Farwell friend.”
Good writing. The last part of it especially stuck out for me.
I plan on going to Asia, not sure where and when.
But Macau sounds like a good time too.
If you had to choose one, Thailand or Vietnam?
Regardless, if he really blindsided you with all this in public and without coming to you privately first, then farewell indeed. "With friends like that..."
Just do it, no regrets :)
As for your “friend”, only you two know what happened from your own perspectives and what’s best for yourselves to achieve your goals and dreams. “Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher.”, Oprah.
Now I've seen it all, an Oprah quote on TUSCL... Lol
Thanks for the insight on Asia, yes, I'm going to do it perhaps in June for my birthday.
I agree with you, this is an opportunity to look at myself and see the truth in his words.
Not only was a blindsided in public but the next day I received about 20 text messages enumerating all my faults and without a chance to discuss this man to man (I wouldn't talk about this through text messages) he completely blocks me.
Enjoy! Common sense advice:
Drink bottled water, bring flip flops and foot spray cause athletes foot is common. Learn a few phrases/ terms such as yes, no, how do you say...in..., etc to earn goodwill and reduce the probability of being taken advantage of.
Use local currency, everything’s negotiable/haggle it’s expected, meeting local girls is easy and cheap since you’ll be an ”exotic foreigner.” Paid services are cheaper with local girls then progressively more expensive with girls from other provinces, countries, and continents.
Vaccinations: https://wwwnc.cdc.gov/travel/destination…
Travel requirements & advisories: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/…
Send cool pics and stories!
Oh, get a prepaid sim card so you can look up directions and translations as well as communicate. Install and setup most popular chat apps so you’re not fumbling last minute and losing opportunities to hangout, have fun and hookup with girls. Ex. Macau WeChat, QQ,/Thailand Line/Vietnam Messenger/WhatsApp.
Unfortunately I did not have the opportunity to discuss and if needed, to apoligize.
Our friendship was over in less than one day.
Sorry it ended like that for you.
Thanks for the very helpful tips.
It might have been about when I pursued a few coffee girls (civvies), my friend would tell me things like "they are out of your league" and "they only act nice to you because you hang out with me."
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It was strange for me too for us not to talk it out face to face but for him to just send about 20 messages and then block me.
We all monger differently and I respect it.
It's just went my civvie game changed then his attitude with me changed.
It's kind of ironic I have less drama with dancers/bargirls/civvies than I do with my supposed best friend.
It was strange to end a two year friendship via text message.
It was not strange to post it on a strip club forum as it was related somewhat to my mongering.
Plus, I feel comfortable enough to write about my escapades in VIP rooms and Brothels, I feel comfortable enough to post about a farewell friend.
I agree, true friends don't judge.
The ironic part he was a monger too.