In my Vietnamese Bikini Coffee Shop days I befriended a beautiful, aspiring Cosplay model who introduced me to a group of amateur mongers who would later become my close friends.
One of the mongers, who provided me solid advice on the coffee shop world, reintroduced me to strip clubs and took me to TJ, soon became my best friend.
However, we were different types of mongers, I am an extras FS hound while he enjoys looking more feeling less; also, I visit clubs/brothels twice a week and he would visit once a month or less frequent.
He convinced me a life changing experience was awaiting me in Thailand and Vietnam, he had business interests in Southeast Asia and invited me to join him for a trip.
I accepted and started saving money by cutting down my visits to SCs and TJ, and then something strange happened:
My civvie game improved.
Then something stranger happened:
My best friend canceled our Asia trip claiming I would become jaded explaining he was trying to be my moral compass.
Needless to say I was upset but I respected his decision though I secretly planned to go by myself in a few months.
So I was enjoying my mongering and civvie game, having the best time of my life, and on a return trip from TJ after missing several text messages to meet up for coffee something really strange happened:
That night at the Cosplay model's birthday party my friend called me out in front of everyone as "the worst commincator" too concerned with chasing ass that I neglect my friends.
I decided to leave the party early to take a coffee girl out to dinner and the next day my best friend texted that I was a "cocky bastard, an arrogant asshole" saying our friendship was over, blocked my number, blocked all social media, and removed his number from all group chats I partake in.
Not sure why this happened but I accept it and move on: I've buried my mother, my cousin, my aunt, I lost the love of my life to divorce, I survived serious stomach surgery, so losing a two year friend is hardly a blip on the radar.
Farwell friend.
Go to Asia...get jaded :) Go to Macau and get spoiled sitting in a plush reclining chair while eating good food and getting massage. Then the manager brings the entire lineup of 25+ beautiful, scantily clad, young Asian women to stand in front of you so you can pick which women you want. Women are routinely tested for STD’s and FS is cheaper than US VIP fee. Thailand and Vietnam are cool too.
Hey, where’d you go? Guess we’ll have to wait and see if you return stateside to find out if we’re still friends ;)