I find girls that typically perform extra dont kiss and lack affection. Its good for both parties and it allows her to maintain some decency as she spends most the on her knees.
You can't challenge women directly on that sort of issue. If you and she get along, and if you are doing this in the front room, not having committed to the back room, then probably she will come around. Good chance.
If you show generosity, openness, contact info, and show that you want to be seeing her outside regularly, like taking her to your own bed, then the chances are good.
I have had AMP girls and strippers in DV San Francisco who recited the "I don't kiss" line, and then soon after were demonstrably reversing themselves, and doing it very well.
Remember, select the girl you want, that is, want to be waking up in the mornings with. That way you can go much further in the initial smooth talking. She will feel that you really like her and are really extending yourself.
Worst case try to get her outside ASAP. And if all else fails, do not go for dry humping or BJ till completion. Instead you can DATY her in the dance booth. Always goes over well. She will see that you are saving your load for her, and that will increase the chances that you will be waking up with her the next morning.
Always make sure you have a definite time set up with her. If she won't go for that, find out the next time she works there, tell her you will be there at the start of her shift, and do so.
Unless she is seriously attached, she will come around.
SJG
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I don't understand why so many guys are okay with having sex without kissing? What's the point? You might as well buy a sex doll. Cheaper in the long run because you can fuck it every day. Sex without kissing is basically just an upgraded form of masturbation.
^I actually kind of get that, but that's why I actually prefer non-extras clubs. I just want GFE oriented clubs where the dances are essentially a preview and afterward I can take them outside and spend most of the night with her. For some reason it doesn't bother me if she's kissed other guys but the idea of them cumming all over her does.
@CC99 yeah goldmonger got it right. You dont want a girl who's been blowing guys to kiss you. Im even mildly offended when a girl emerges from the LD room after kising another customer and doesnt freshen up.
My worst kissing story was I had a fav who gave the best HJ along with DFK. I always assumed that she never went beyond HJ in the VIP room and once when we were DFK her breath strongly smelled of latex. I could only assume that she was blowing guys as well which pissed me off because I tipped pretty well and she never offered. I know, ask and you shall receive but her HJ were better than most girls BJ
Women are very sensitive to hygienic issues.
DFKing is one of the best ways to really get a woman to open up. And besides, you pick the one you want and then get her out of the strip club and into your own bed ASAP.
Don't need to go to strip clubs very often.
SJG
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"Id rather makeout than have a blowjob" Someone record this for line of the year lol. While I prefer a LDK over FS because its safer Im not sure about DFK over BJ. Her BJ would have to be very rushed and/or bad.
If there is nothing else which can be done besides ejacuation services, then DATYing the girl in the dance booth has always worked well for me. Leaves her extremely ready for outside liaisons.
SJG
Do you guys not feel this feeling of absolute bliss when you makeout with or hug a girl really tightly? For me there's this incredibly satisfying feeling of bliss that overwhelms my entire body and I feel like I'm just melting into her mouth or her arms and being consumed by bliss. It feels insanely good. It feels so good that the euphoria and lingering bliss is still there for up to two hours after we've stopped depending on how good it was. Its the best feeling I've ever felt in the world and I've tried just about every drug you can think of besides meth and heroin. You must not be feeling this because I can't see any other explanation for why so many of you think a BJ is better than making out.
I wouldn't not ask her to break that rule but if during the entertainment time she decides to break it, who am I stop her?
I don't need to kiss or hug a women to enjoy sex with her, in fact, most of the time I prefer not to.
Front room is better, that way you can get her softened up before committing to the back room. If you want her to let down her psychological defenses, shift from the sympathetic nervous to the para-sympathetic, not does the job like DFKing
SJG
This is a really tough one.....
I have different likes in clubs... I go for a drink, sometimes to try to pick up a dancer, or just to hang out with friends who are dancers. When I want a more conventional strip club experience, I like dances, drinks...having a good time but I know its just fun...get drunk with dancers and see titties...I don't want a fantasy....GFEs, extras, LDKs, whatever...all of that turns me off. Its my ego. Ironically though, my approach with new dancers works, they end up wanting more or get really curious about me when I spend money at the club, tip them well but am not all over them or anything. Its ended in girls falling for me, or hooking up...not P4P.
Kissing is just really rare around here. Its intimate, and hoes look down on it...its opening herself up to a trick.
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