OT crazy woman
steeldog65
I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
So I'm doing some long term rotations at work and stay in hotels. Monday night eating in the hotel restaurant and then sat at the bar for a while and chatted with a pleasant woman close to my age about 8 years younger. Attractive, witty, fun, in town for several days. We agreed to meet Tuesday evening for dinner as we were both single. Tuesday we meet, she's in a sexy dress has a great body that had been hidden on Monday in her big bulky sweater had dinner and then when across the street to her Room for a nightcap I wasn't expecting much but she took her dress off naked underneath she was insanely hot. Great sex and as we finished she says to me I can't wait for you to meet my kids. What the hell is up with a woman saying that in essence on the 1st time you've been with her. Is in one else experienced that sort of stuff?
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Many men offer love just to get sex.
In this case, it seems she mistook your one-night-stand as expressing a desire for a relationship. Venus and Mars, baby.
I'd say we've all experienced the stage five clinger phenomenon -- that's the allure of the SC lifestyle.
On a side note -- you must be charming -- that shit on a business trip has never happened to me.
There is a quite from the movie Forest Gump that popped into my mind as I read your post.....
Run Forest Run!
Just saying
Over the years I've had my share of one night stands, especially since I travel and if I am staying in at the hotel bar in a large city ( NYC, Philadelphia, DC, Baltimore, Dallas). Referencing the ones that come to my mind immediately.
Having lived through the early 80's I'm big on carrying and using protection but the majority of them didn't seem to care regardless if they had kids, where in a relationship or not.
Even the last SA girl I dated this past year for eight months first meet and greet ( not expecting anything) we end up in bed and she isn't interested in my using a condom........
I've also had them give me their home address and number......I live 500 miles away and I won't be back for months if ever......doesn't matter.......in case you are here is how your reach me........
And for the most part I don't feel I am an overachiever with the one exception that I listen to people and that seems to be in itself a lost art in today's world.
Did you end up tutoring the son? Was it P4P?
But in seriousness, you can't spend too much time trying to figure out what is going through a woman's mind. It's how they drive us crazy! Lol
Guys are simple - and if a guy says he wants to fuck - that means he wants to fuck. He didn’t say anything about meeting any kids!
And then after be silent. Do this and
have a rotation of three females once a week. From your angle, you get to be boyfriend-like three times a week and they only see you once.
If you could pull it off, then you will naturally fall into dealing with the cling and then demanding your attention more—which would likely be best to ignore at that point. And no promising to be exclusive or anything.
And throw in a sex worker or two in the mix for extra fun.
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And yeah, I think societal pressure to procreate and have a husband is more fierce on a female who is older. More so than wanting to take the time to decide if a man is actually suitable.
Oh well. That’s why I have customers I guess.
Deal with it! ;-D
Closest thing happened to me was with a sugar baby. We started as a regular SB SD arrangement meeting once a week for dinner, drinks and sex. Slowly it turned into over nights at the hotels I stayed in with no change in allowance and at some point we were meeting 4 nights a week for dinner and fun. At one point she said she wasn't comfortable taking money for sex. I generally take her to nice places and different food and go to movies and bowling etc. Every night was a date night with a girl 10+ years than me. She knew I was married when we started the arrangement but somewhere during the 2 years arrangement (though I wasn't paying after first 4 months) I think I told her that I was separated though I was still married with kids.
After 2 years, twice within a same week I had nightmares in which the SB was pregnant. She was on pills though. I took that a wakeup call and cut her off. It was fun while it lasted, I think I had feelings for her because after I cut her off next month or so was not easy.