Has porn had a positive or negative impact on your sex life?

19 comments

• JamesSD

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  5 years ago

  Net positive although there were days I jerked to porn all day instead of chasing real pussy. But we didn't have tinder fifteen years ago.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  On my sex life? Nearly zero impact. Porn isn't how people have sex. Most porn stars state that the sex they have on versus off camera is very different. I suspect that porn has more potential to hurt than help for those who struggle to separate fantasy from reality.
• Cashman1234

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  5 years ago

  I think it’s had an positive effect - if any. My only reason for saying that is because of the positions. When I was young - my thought was - can a small change (in position) really make a big difference? I tried the basic stuff - but then I started trying varying the angles and making adjustments for the size differential (as I’m significantly taller than most all my partners) - and that made a big difference in increased pleasure. Some of that was experimentation with partners - and some was brought on by seeing the different positions used in 70’s and 80’s porn. It wasn’t wild shit - but it made a difference.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  There is all kinds of porn, so saying that's not how people have sex is stupid. There's soft core porn, sensual porn, hardcore porn, something for everyone. And of course its not always what porn stars do in their private lives, porn is what they're paid to do. And its not porn star shit, its scripted. they just cant act It doesn't affect my sex life. I don't really enjoy porn. To me its like being a kid in a wheelchair watching all the other kids play soccer. I want to play, not watch others play. I'd rather just have sex than watch porn.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  If by 'lazy' you mean 'non-existent', then I believe you're correct.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  porn scripts just list the act and the direction to go in. lots of it is improvisation. i don't see anything wrong with the sex in porn. what don't you like about it? coz its not a GFE? Its sex....
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  women like being taken and controlled and fucked into submission
• April9424

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  5 years ago

  watching porn no. being involved in it, maybe sorta. but not really. i think it's mostly a good thing unless you're into fucked up shit or if your partner is psycho jealous.
• Electronman

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  5 years ago

  I would say a positive impact overall in that women who watch porn seem to be more adventurous and promiscuous sexually and that is great for me in my visits to high mileage, extras clubs. I attribute this trend to the widespread availability of porn which has either normalized female sexuality for young women or set a pretty high (and sometimes unrealistic) standard for female sexuality.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  I thnk porn makes women more self conscious. some feel they have to perform like porn stars, their pussies have to look a certain way, their bodies. I don't think its that positive for bitches
• bubba267

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  5 years ago

  Because I'm more seasoned(old), the effect has been negligible. In my day it was more traditional girly magazines. Today's porn holds little interest for me and I don't really watch it except for when someone brings it to my attention... I do agree with the cultural impacts that you've described Electroman.
• Huntsman

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  5 years ago

  I don’t think it has had much of an impact for me.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  How does it degrade them? Bitches love rough sex and being passive during sex.
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  I wouldn't know how to quantify that - kinda like asking if watching tennis on TV makes me play better or worse when I play myself. Along the lines of what Cashman mentioned, I assume I was exposed to different positions that I may end-up enjoying that perhaps I may not have thought of on my own? I assume it may have taught me something perhaps subconsciously - and actually, I have put something I saw in porn to productive use - many of the ebonies that I've banged have had huge asses which can make it difficult when hitting it doggy-style (a lot of mass in da way) - when watching black-porn, on many scenes I had noticed the dude would push up on her ass/butt-cheeks - at first I didn't make the connection that that made it easier when banging a huge-ass doggy-style - I tried it once when doggying a huge-bootied ebony - I was sorta mimicking what I had seen many times in black-porn and that is when I noticed it made it easier to bang her doggy if she had a huge-ass.
• TrapBaby304

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  5 years ago

  its not bad to learn techniques from
• Dudecreeping

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  5 years ago

  Negative porn sex is not real .. but I fuck regular chicks and not strippers and hoes. I like to LDK and HJs from strippers .. but real sex with a real woman is much more intimate and satisfying.
• Bavarian

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  5 years ago

  Negative. I’m not into porn just softcore models. I’ve seen so many beautiful Ukrainian models that I can’t even get turned on with the local fare at the strip club.
• BoringLoser

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  5 years ago

  I think porn fucked up my sex drive. I posted about not getting horny at clubs and I think porn has a lot to do with it. I recently decided to give it up and I think I’m going through a period of dead dick syndrome because of it. If all goes well I will recover and start enjoying titty bars again.
• Jascoi

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  5 years ago

  i think think a girl might benefit from watching some porn. me? very little.