Has porn had a positive or negative impact on your sex life?
Electronman
Too much of a good thing is never enough
Title says it all. Would love to hear from both males and females. Would love to hear the rationale for the positive or negative impact.
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I suspect that porn has more potential to hurt than help for those who struggle to separate fantasy from reality.
When I was young - my thought was - can a small change (in position) really make a big difference? I tried the basic stuff - but then I started trying varying the angles and making adjustments for the size differential (as I’m significantly taller than most all my partners) - and that made a big difference in increased pleasure.
Some of that was experimentation with partners - and some was brought on by seeing the different positions used in 70’s and 80’s porn. It wasn’t wild shit - but it made a difference.
It doesn't affect my sex life. I don't really enjoy porn. To me its like being a kid in a wheelchair watching all the other kids play soccer. I want to play, not watch others play. I'd rather just have sex than watch porn.
i don't see anything wrong with the sex in porn. what don't you like about it? coz its not a GFE? Its sex....
I do agree with the cultural impacts that you've described Electroman.
Along the lines of what Cashman mentioned, I assume I was exposed to different positions that I may end-up enjoying that perhaps I may not have thought of on my own?
I assume it may have taught me something perhaps subconsciously - and actually, I have put something I saw in porn to productive use - many of the ebonies that I've banged have had huge asses which can make it difficult when hitting it doggy-style (a lot of mass in da way) - when watching black-porn, on many scenes I had noticed the dude would push up on her ass/butt-cheeks - at first I didn't make the connection that that made it easier when banging a huge-ass doggy-style - I tried it once when doggying a huge-bootied ebony - I was sorta mimicking what I had seen many times in black-porn and that is when I noticed it made it easier to bang her doggy if she had a huge-ass.
If all goes well I will recover and start enjoying titty bars again.