OTC Funding
Ch3ll
Arizona
I've been absent from the otc experiences sparingly throughout last year 2018, last was in October 2018. I plan to get my finances in better order early 2019 and got to thinking about OTC, in particular if it's a new OTC candidate and she asks to see the money first.
I've had 5 or 6 different dancers outside the club and only one asked, or at least we negotiated to the point of me showing her the money in the club prior to leaving. So are you okay with showing the money first or do you prefer for there to be a mutual understanding you'll get this and I'll give her what we agreed?
I've had 5 or 6 different dancers outside the club and only one asked, or at least we negotiated to the point of me showing her the money in the club prior to leaving. So are you okay with showing the money first or do you prefer for there to be a mutual understanding you'll get this and I'll give her what we agreed?
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It could also be a set up though.
Either way, its gonna effect his experience negatively
Nope. NEver ever heard of a stripper asking to literally see the money, not me, not any of my buddies, not any OTC story on the internet. I'd take it as a pretty terrible sign. Just seems like a bad idea security-wise in any case. The fact that she's asking you, I imagine means you don't know each other very well; once she eyeballs that it's really there, how do you have any idea who she'll tell? That'd be an automatic stop and move on for me. On the other hand, I don't tend to meet a girl and then move straight to OTC, I like to see them in the club a few times.
Another question...have any of you guys been out otc and she asks you are you law enforcement? This same one I mentioned above did and it just surprised me because I couldn't understand how if she was with a law enforcement guy, that he'd be thruthful in his response.
Show her the money...
you never know what will happen next.”
In my humble opinion, asking for money up front, or seeing it, is a sign of distrust, a common practice in the escort environment, because unless you are a regular she doesn’t know if you are a gentleman or a criminal.
And, who knows, even after being a regular for a long time she or you might go “crazy”, be drunk or high or whatever and things can go wrong.
In the OTC environment, if this is the first time for OTC, the level of “trust” depends on how well and how long you known each other and if there is chemistry etc.
In my limited experience the more trust you build ITC, make her laugh, listen to her, compliment her, get a couple of dances or a VIP, the more possible is the chance to move to OTC, by telling her that it will be a better mutually beneficial arrangement by eliminating the middle man (the club). As long as she gives a reasonable price for OTC.
I believe than when seeing an escort, the safer, relax and more comfortable you can make her feel, the better the session is likely to be.
Some people think that holding the donation as security for the carrying out of the agreement will guarantee "the service", nothing can be further from reality, it shows distrust and disrespect.
Like I said at the beginning this hobby is a gamble, sometimes you win and sometimes you loose, but the more you practice the better you might be at it. And always remember some of the recommendations:
1. if you don’t bet, you can’t win.
2. Don’t bet more than you can afford to lose.
3. Don’t drink or use drugs when “gambling
You must like to gamble!? Great tips indeed.
She thought about it for a second and said, “I guess that means you don’t trust me either?”
I shrugged and said, “I do now.”
She seemed satisfied with that. :)
I have gambled in Vegas, blackjack only, for entertainment and to look into probability and statistics methods like counting, because it is one of the few games where the odds are about even between the house and the gamblers.
Many situations in life are like gambling, betting.
I like the advice in Kenny Rogers “The Gambler”
"If you're gonna play the game, boy
You gotta learn to play it right
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
You never count your money
When you're sittin' at the table
There'll be time enough for countin'
When the dealin's done.”
I take the gambler approach for getting a girl for OTC.
More than anything I listen to my gut, my spidy sense, if I get a good vibe from the girl I am attracted to, and we have “chemistry”, I go for it, but the moment I sense/feel like something is not right, I either walk away or go in with eyes and ears wide open.
Good luck on your OTC experience.