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If you're gonna pay a hoe, the more distrust or paranoia either of you exhibit, well its gonna impact your experience.

Never heard of a PL having to literally show her the $$$ for her to agree to OTC

I've heard of hoes doing it. When hookers are paranoid or had negative experience, or had tricks try to rob or rape them, they ask for money upfront or to see it.

It could also be a set up though.

Either way, its gonna effect his experience negatively

-->"So are you okay with showing the money first or do you prefer for there to be a mutual understanding you'll get this and I'll give her what we agreed?"

Nope. NEver ever heard of a stripper asking to literally see the money, not me, not any of my buddies, not any OTC story on the internet. I'd take it as a pretty terrible sign. Just seems like a bad idea security-wise in any case. The fact that she's asking you, I imagine means you don't know each other very well; once she eyeballs that it's really there, how do you have any idea who she'll tell? That'd be an automatic stop and move on for me. On the other hand, I don't tend to meet a girl and then move straight to OTC, I like to see them in the club a few times.

I believe I was way more paranoid with this one that asked to see prior us leaving the club. We got to the room and she wanted to give me a massage and I was so stuck on she's going to do something to me while my face is down. Paranoia aside, our first encounter was good. Subsequent encounters, she never asked to see the money first.

Another question...have any of you guys been out otc and she asks you are you law enforcement? This same one I mentioned above did and it just surprised me because I couldn't understand how if she was with a law enforcement guy, that he'd be thruthful in his response.

I hate to say it, but all of this does sound more prostitute-y than stripper-y. A lot of the escorts used to do that, under the somewhat retarded belief that the police had to tell them ... or maybe that they'd be able to read it if they lied. Was she a bit ghetto?

No she wasn't ghetto. She was in her mid 30s, level headed in my opinion. I did ask her why would she ask me that and she mentioned her and a friend would do massages, or escorts something to that effect and they had to be careful.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWek6Jsh…

Show her the money...

“Life is full of surprises;
you never know what will happen next.”

In my humble opinion, asking for money up front, or seeing it, is a sign of distrust, a common practice in the escort environment, because unless you are a regular she doesn’t know if you are a gentleman or a criminal.

And, who knows, even after being a regular for a long time she or you might go “crazy”, be drunk or high or whatever and things can go wrong.

In the OTC environment, if this is the first time for OTC, the level of “trust” depends on how well and how long you known each other and if there is chemistry etc.

In my limited experience the more trust you build ITC, make her laugh, listen to her, compliment her, get a couple of dances or a VIP, the more possible is the chance to move to OTC, by telling her that it will be a better mutually beneficial arrangement by eliminating the middle man (the club). As long as she gives a reasonable price for OTC.

I believe than when seeing an escort, the safer, relax and more comfortable you can make her feel, the better the session is likely to be.

Some people think that holding the donation as security for the carrying out of the agreement will guarantee "the service", nothing can be further from reality, it shows distrust and disrespect.

Like I said at the beginning this hobby is a gamble, sometimes you win and sometimes you loose, but the more you practice the better you might be at it. And always remember some of the recommendations:

1. if you don’t bet, you can’t win.
2. Don’t bet more than you can afford to lose.
3. Don’t drink or use drugs when “gambling

This stuff happens from time to time. I've never been asked to show the money at the club, but a small % of girls I've taken OTC have asked to see the cash once we got to the hotel. I've also had girls ask me the LE question. But these events are rare and generally only happen when first time meets are followed by same night OTC.

@CJKent
You must like to gamble!? Great tips indeed.

I was recently asked by a girl I’ve seen a dozen times or so how I determine who to trust. My answer was simple, “I don’t trust *any*one.”

She thought about it for a second and said, “I guess that means you don’t trust me either?”

I shrugged and said, “I do now.”

She seemed satisfied with that. :)

If there's any debate about the price or anything out of the ordinary like being asked to show your ID wallet whatever, it smells like a setup and you should walk away. Even if it isn't, the vibe is gonna make it not that great

@Ch3ll;
I have gambled in Vegas, blackjack only, for entertainment and to look into probability and statistics methods like counting, because it is one of the few games where the odds are about even between the house and the gamblers.

Many situations in life are like gambling, betting.

I like the advice in Kenny Rogers “The Gambler”

"If you're gonna play the game, boy
You gotta learn to play it right
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
You never count your money
When you're sittin' at the table
There'll be time enough for countin'
When the dealin's done.”

I take the gambler approach for getting a girl for OTC.

More than anything I listen to my gut, my spidy sense, if I get a good vibe from the girl I am attracted to, and we have “chemistry”, I go for it, but the moment I sense/feel like something is not right, I either walk away or go in with eyes and ears wide open.

Good luck on your OTC experience.