Not that dating a stripper is bad, it gets expensive i believe and if you dont find one that is just genuinely doing it for school/living tell shes gets successful then stops dancing then your wasting your time in the long run.
I dated a stripper a long time ago then married a "former" stripper. Biggest mistakes in my life. Thank god I got out of the marriage without kids and alimony.
That is why I will never date a stripper, so you see some of us are experienced with it and have learned from our mistakes.
What percentage of women in the US are strippers? How many bad relationships are there in the US?
A lot of the losers on here pretend to not want to date strippers because they know that strippers wouldn't date them. So they actlike there is osmething wrong with it so they can pretend to feel good about themselves. lol
Strippers are down right sexy however it comes with a price.
In order to date one exclusively without baggage you gotta look at what reason she has to even started dancing as well as how her relationship is with her parents if it even gets that far down the road with her.
Physical attraction is just half the chemistry, your gonna need the others to complete the equation!!
I married up, socially too. Yet marrying a stripper would definitely be marrying down. If a woman can’t figure out how to make a stable living through conventional means, you’ll always be living an unconventional and unstable lifestyle.
I don’t look down on someone who chooses that path, it’s just that I’m the type of person who wants to avoid that lifestyle and play my odds a little safer. Trouble rides a fast horse.
I would casually date a stripper. Especially if it was non monogamous. Essentially FWB.
I've met two or three dancers that in a different life would have been "dateable". These girls were legit "dancing my way through college", no substance problems, often lasted a year or two at most before moving on.
So you have no problem paying them to make you cum, dance for you, fuck you. But you look down on them for doing it. That's pretty fucked up. What does that make you then?
You can find fucked up women anywhere. Truth about strippers is that if you fill the void they lack in their lives they're amazing women for the most part.
@boringlosers she falling in love with all the benjamins shes getting from you! Strippers arent so easy to fall in love, their job is to please men so you can imagine how many men she pleases on a daily base(not talking about sex).
@johny5 a strippers job is to dance and be pleasant while doing it. you'd be surprised at how many of these girls crave something real coz of the losers they're around all day.
@DC, you should try it. But keep in mind the nonjudgmental thing is often an act, they do it to make men comfortable.
@DC: anyone can be non-judgmental and accepting if they are getting paid to be. That is something you need to remember. Also be advised that you will have to be VERY non-judgmental and accepting of what they do with other guys and that you might be getting sloppy thirds or more every time she comes over/home from work and you have sex. Just food for thought before you date a stripper/escort.
The non judgmental thing is an act to a degree when its a trick, but they really do tend to be more accepting and less judgmental than other types of girls. Just because of what they themselves do.
But dating a hoe isn't as hard as you think. They tend to fall pretty hard when you don't judge them and are there for them emotionally. Them having sex with other guys.... TBH you don't really think about it that much. They tend to be really giving and loving in bed. They set boundaries on what they're willing to do with tricks, use protection... Yeah they sex with other men but thats their job. There's a big difference between them having sex for money and coz they're with you.
I've dated hoes and have side bitches who hoe. To me, they're the girls who fall the hardest.
It depends on the context, but I think acknowledging something without it leading to pejorative reactions, is being non judgmental.
You're probably treated better by strippers and hoes than most on here because of your age. Regardless of anything else, it makes you more relateable than a guy old enough to be their dad/grandpa. On the other hand that works against you as well coz it can make them see you as an easy mark.
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I was "engaged" to a stripper a long time ago. Some of us learn our lessons.
That is why I will never date a stripper, so you see some of us are experienced with it and have learned from our mistakes.
A lot of the losers on here pretend to not want to date strippers because they know that strippers wouldn't date them. So they actlike there is osmething wrong with it so they can pretend to feel good about themselves. lol
In order to date one exclusively without baggage you gotta look at what reason she has to even started dancing as well as how her relationship is with her parents if it even gets that far down the road with her.
Physical attraction is just half the chemistry, your gonna need the others to complete the equation!!
I don’t look down on someone who chooses that path, it’s just that I’m the type of person who wants to avoid that lifestyle and play my odds a little safer. Trouble rides a fast horse.
And so as such, they are 'tricks'
SJG
I've met two or three dancers that in a different life would have been "dateable". These girls were legit "dancing my way through college", no substance problems, often lasted a year or two at most before moving on.
You can find fucked up women anywhere. Truth about strippers is that if you fill the void they lack in their lives they're amazing women for the most part.
@DC, you should try it. But keep in mind the nonjudgmental thing is often an act, they do it to make men comfortable.
But dating a hoe isn't as hard as you think. They tend to fall pretty hard when you don't judge them and are there for them emotionally. Them having sex with other guys.... TBH you don't really think about it that much. They tend to be really giving and loving in bed. They set boundaries on what they're willing to do with tricks, use protection... Yeah they sex with other men but thats their job. There's a big difference between them having sex for money and coz they're with you.
I've dated hoes and have side bitches who hoe. To me, they're the girls who fall the hardest.
You're probably treated better by strippers and hoes than most on here because of your age. Regardless of anything else, it makes you more relateable than a guy old enough to be their dad/grandpa. On the other hand that works against you as well coz it can make them see you as an easy mark.