Me and another dancer I work with started sleeping together last week. Am I being dumb by doing this cause we do work together but I can't think of any reason why not?
Not at all if you just have an understanding not to poach each others customers. Hey you might even be able to leverage this with some $$$ duos inside or outside the club.
I'd go the opposite route and say its best to separate work from play. Another issue is if she's on friendly terms with bitches who don't like you, etc.
I like to make work feel as much like play as i can. i don't think any of the girls i work with dislike me but there's some who i never really talk to.
People hook up with their coworkers all the time, why would strip clubs be any different? As some else mentioned try doing doubles. Most guys will go for it if they see the girls are into each other. As long as feelings don't start getting in the way, have fun with it.
One of my favorites started seeing a fellow dancer, but then the other girl started getting an attitude and would try and cock block me when I came in to see her. So I moved on and she lost a regular over it. Don't let it affect your money.
Humans, men and women, have a natural and healthy desire to be sexual.
Many young girls are well-informed and know to respect their bodies and understand that developing as a sexual woman is a natural and enjoyable part of becoming and being an adult.
You are a good human being; you are just young and innocent, not involving evil intent or motive, I find that adorable and enduring. Please don’t change.
Like you said you don’t see anything wrong with having sex with a coworker.
In an ideal world, that would be the case, but in the modern civilization we live in there are a lot of things to consider:
The worst case scenario, mixing business and pleasure could result in messy breakups, jealousy, backstabbing etc etc etc. That is going to affect your work and your personal life.
This however might bring a good teamwork situation, you and her collaborating to do doubles at work, protect each other, help each other, mutually beneficial relationship...
As long as you both are in the same page regarding your relationship and how you would relate to other people you should be OK, but if you start having issues/problems you should end up the relationship in good terms.
Don't let a romantic relationship affect the quality and efficiency of your work or your income.
The only reference/experience I have about your situation is what the sister of mi ATF once mentioned to me:
“Some of the more experienced girls would take advantage of my ATF and would “confuse” her making her believe she was bisexual and just would take advantage of her, and would end up hurting her feelings and making her sad.”
I hope you are being safe and have fun and hope no one hurts you.
I'd go that route and say its best to fuck everyone at work from play. Another issue is everyone thinks I am a bitch. I said I was a girl in a previous thread
if you want to avoid drama don't hook up with dancers, staff, or regular customers. especially not the club dealer or anyone that's ever been in a relationship with other dancers. that being said it happens all the time at every club so do whatever you want just don't whine afterwards that drama always follows you and you don't know why.. like a lot of girls do after they go around shitting where they eat and stirring the pot..
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LOL warrior!
One of my favorites started seeing a fellow dancer, but then the other girl started getting an attitude and would try and cock block me when I came in to see her. So I moved on and she lost a regular over it. Don't let it affect your money.
Humans, men and women, have a natural and healthy desire to be sexual.
Many young girls are well-informed and know to respect their bodies and understand that developing as a sexual woman is a natural and enjoyable part of becoming and being an adult.
You are a good human being; you are just young and innocent, not involving evil intent or motive, I find that adorable and enduring. Please don’t change.
Like you said you don’t see anything wrong with having sex with a coworker.
In an ideal world, that would be the case, but in the modern civilization we live in there are a lot of things to consider:
The worst case scenario, mixing business and pleasure could result in messy breakups, jealousy, backstabbing etc etc etc. That is going to affect your work and your personal life.
This however might bring a good teamwork situation, you and her collaborating to do doubles at work, protect each other, help each other, mutually beneficial relationship...
As long as you both are in the same page regarding your relationship and how you would relate to other people you should be OK, but if you start having issues/problems you should end up the relationship in good terms.
Don't let a romantic relationship affect the quality and efficiency of your work or your income.
The only reference/experience I have about your situation is what the sister of mi ATF once mentioned to me:
“Some of the more experienced girls would take advantage of my ATF and would “confuse” her making her believe she was bisexual and just would take advantage of her, and would end up hurting her feelings and making her sad.”
I hope you are being safe and have fun and hope no one hurts you.
“Thrust but verify...”