Why I do this
steeldog65
I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
I recently was asked why I go to strip clubs and occasionally use an escort. I just lost a client and a friend who is only year older than me, he died suddenly and it made me think about my inner motivations. I've always wanted to live life to the fullest, and after I lost my wife it seemed to me that a couple $100 a month was a small price to pay to experience beautiful women spending time with me. If more happens, that's great, if not I still had fun and got to see beautiful women. To me, this is just another way to have fun, kind of like a classic car for me or a motorcycle or some of the other things I like to do. The hobby is just a way to make sure that I don't lay in my death bed with things left behind I wish I had done.
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The question I ask myself often is why do pay for that experience. I still have enough game to sti get laid but from my perspective anyone can walk away from the other partner anytime without feeling like they have been unfairly treated. It also creates somewhat of an emotional barrier to falling "in love".
@steeldog65 Sorry for your loss. You hit it on the head by saying "I have had an opportunity to be with beautiful women doing wonderful things and not hurting myself financially." I've heard a lot of stories of lonely, desperate, older PLs losing the shirt off their backs to gold-digging ho's and have to tell myself not to be that guy one day.
I've always enjoyed the simple things in life. No expensive toys or hobbies, modest car and clothes. Been saving and investing for close to 30 years, with the primary objective of making sure my kids are taken care of financially (including college tuition) and I that I leave them a large portion of what I've accumulated.
That still leaves plenty for me to enjoy what I love: the touch of a woman. Sure, paying for it isn't ideal. But I have no time or desire at my age to go through the dating nonsense all over again after my marriage dissolved a few years ago. So I'll happily buy love for the rest of my life.