I recently was asked why I go to strip clubs and occasionally use an escort. I just lost a client and a friend who is only year older than me, he died suddenly and it made me think about my inner motivations. I've always wanted to live life to the fullest, and after I lost my wife it seemed to me that a couple $100 a month was a small price to pay to experience beautiful women spending time with me. If more happens, that's great, if not I still had fun and got to see beautiful women. To me, this is just another way to have fun, kind of like a classic car for me or a motorcycle or some of the other things I like to do. The hobby is just a way to make sure that I don't lay in my death bed with things left behind I wish I had done.
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last commentI’m singing that exact song, man. Just got a keep an eye on the outlays (STILL cheaper than golf, and more satisfying), and don’t lose your head to the fantasy. I do not regret or feel ashamed of what I do in the least. Viva l’PL!!
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I just don’t see a better thing to spend money on. Most of my friends dump way more money into cars than I do into girls.
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As long as you can afford it, IE still do other things more productive, then go for it. I go for the entertainment and to break away from the daily grind.... and maybe slightly as a RIL, but smart enough to see it for what it is.
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Thats a healthy approach to strip clubs.
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I'm sixty. I actually feel more comfortable around strippers a third my age than women my own age. When women are my age I will often see them as potential sex partners and that causes me to try and impress them or figure out ways to maneuver them into sex. Strippers are out of my league and I'm never going to have sex with them (at least unpaid for sex). Strangely, that causes me to be more relaxed around them and not worry so much what they think about me so I actually enjoy being with them more. Does that make any sense?
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Strippers are fun. The end.
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It’s simple - you enjoy the experience of being with a beautiful woman. It’s not too expensive for your budget, and you understand the situation. Enjoy your experiences! Life is far too short to not do the things you enjoy.
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i consider going to the sc an investment in health similar to eating healthy foods, getting a massage, or paying for a gym membership. looking at and touching beautiful women is good for a man's heath. it increases testosterone and reduces cortisol. of course don't blow the budget.
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I thought you said your daddy wouldn't let you have a job because you needed to concentrate on your studies.
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It's an escape and a fantasy. It's also easy. Where else can you find so many willing beautiful girls contracted together. I also seem to find myself looking for regular OTC opportunities with special girls I meet.
The question I ask myself often is why do pay for that experience. I still have enough game to sti get laid but from my perspective anyone can walk away from the other partner anytime without feeling like they have been unfairly treated. It also creates somewhat of an emotional barrier to falling "in love".
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I think all of you who commented are in the same ballpark as I am. There's a point in your life where you realize you can spend thousands of dollars on motorcycles or cars or golf, or you can spend it on beautiful women spending time with you and possibly engaging in adult acts of pleasure. While I still have my classic cars and my motorcycles and I've never golfed, this is a much more satisfying hobby and when I'm dying I will know that I have had an opportunity to be with beautiful women doing wonderful things and not hurting myself financially.
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@docsavage Good point. When I'm interacting with professionals (strippers, masseuses, escorts, etc.), which isn't often but will be in the future, there's a sense of ease, comfort knowing it's a straightforward business transaction, no games, no need to do or say anything to impress her or worry about being out of her league because the money does the talking.
@steeldog65 Sorry for your loss. You hit it on the head by saying "I have had an opportunity to be with beautiful women doing wonderful things and not hurting myself financially." I've heard a lot of stories of lonely, desperate, older PLs losing the shirt off their backs to gold-digging ho's and have to tell myself not to be that guy one day.
I've always enjoyed the simple things in life. No expensive toys or hobbies, modest car and clothes. Been saving and investing for close to 30 years, with the primary objective of making sure my kids are taken care of financially (including college tuition) and I that I leave them a large portion of what I've accumulated.
That still leaves plenty for me to enjoy what I love: the touch of a woman. Sure, paying for it isn't ideal. But I have no time or desire at my age to go through the dating nonsense all over again after my marriage dissolved a few years ago. So I'll happily buy love for the rest of my life.
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