Advice for couples

9 comments

• PaulDrake

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  6 years ago

  Spend more money in an obvious way.
  Go to the same club repeatedly so the dancers learn you are willing to spend.
• bubba267

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  6 years ago

  Didn't know there was another "bubba" on the board. My experience has generally not been positive. In two of three Atlanta clubs the majority of dancers would not approach even after being tipped generously on stage.
  
  I think it is a matter of finding the right dancer and showing you are generous and no threat with female companion jealousy issues. Good luck.
• nicespice

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  6 years ago

  I think most of this is going to be on the wife. If there is a dancer you guys both like, then it’s more important for her to be the one to make eye contact and smile. If the dancer is on stage, then she will be the one with cash in hand to tip. And also directly say “we are at that table over there. Come see us when you can”
  
  Like bubba267 said, it’s just putting them at ease.
• EastCoaster

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  6 years ago

  Nicespice is absolutely right. The relatively few times I've visited a club with a female friend, I've always had her talk to the dancers about doing something behind the curtains with the two of us.
  
  Female customers in strip clubs are complicated. If the man asks the dancer about "having fun with couples," she will likely be leery about how the woman really feels about even being there. On the other hand, men in strip clubs are not complicated at all. If the woman goes to the stage and asks, the dancer can 100% assume the man already has a hard-on as he watches the conversation.
• JohnSmith69

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  6 years ago

  Good advice above. I used to take my fav stripper to clubs on dates, and I found it surprisingly awkward. I eventually learned it’s all about the woman when you take her. She has to take the initiative, and nothing happens unless she is 100 percent on board with it. It takes time and experience but you can have fun as a couple. Spending openly and going to the same club repeatedly are also good suggestions.
• jsully63

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  6 years ago

  My wife enjoys coming with me to club and she is Bi-sexual so she enjoys a good high mileage lap dance as much as I do. Everything that others have said here is dead on. Most dancers have likely had a bad experience with a couple due to jealousy issues with the wife so many dancers will just avoid you. Has happened to us many times when we first started going together or if we go to a club where we are not regulars. Also some dancers just aren’t into other women in general so they will pass on you too. Our strategy if we haven’t planned to meet up with one of our favorites is to sit at the stage, tip well and try make conversation so the dancer knows your wife is ok with this and not the jealous type. I also give my wife a stack of ones and let her do the tipping and start the conversation. It’s still going to be hit or miss but when you find a dancer who is experienced with couples they’ll catch on by your actions that your both open minded and willing to spend. Then invite her to your table for a drink. Again I let my wife carry the conversation to allow the dancers to get a comfortable feeling. It definitely takes a little effort but eventually you’ll build up some good relationships and then the fun really kicks into gear!
• EastCoaster

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  6 years ago

  jsully63 makes a good point about finding a dancer who is experienced with couples. Naturally, that's helpful, but even dancers who are not experienced with couples may come around if they feel the woman is pleasant and friendly, and is obviously 100% on board. As I mentioned in my post above, I always have my female friend initiate the conversation. She and I have actually had a few girls tell us afterward that we were her first "couples" experience. I can pretty much bet that those dances would never have happened had my female friend not been the one to approach the dancer from the outset.
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  Swinger's Clubs
  https://www.nasca.com/united-states.html
  
  SJG
  
  Stage Side Makeout Session, lots more going on in the shadows too.
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XARgc5Um…
  
  Lap sitting, prelude to a real nice DFK + FIV makeout session, if the guy wants to come on to her some and go for it.
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGdaWjCN…
  
  Stage side DATY discernable ( abajo )
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AOrtMIK…
  
  Heavy thighs and tush, in white. Such girls are best for TLN, and she looks very ready for that.
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ea3_CMDa…
  
  Led Zeppelin: Live on TV BYEN/Danmarks Radio [Full Performance] 1969
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-WSbMW7…
• joc13

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  6 years ago

  my GF and I have had good luck going together. when we get dances, I always have the dancer dance for GF first. while dancer is with GF, GF will tell her how she likes to share and what she wants to see the dancer do while dancing for me
  
  now, if I go to a club by myself, dancers come over, give me a hug and ask "where's your GF?". They want to see her more than me. :-(
  
  GF has been the best strip club wing man I've ever had