I have a friend that I had lunch with today who is recently divorced. We were talking about clubs and he and I are going out to 1 or 2 in the Chicago area next week. We then discussed OTC dating and he was curious what it was like. I told him my experience and then thought I'd ask others what it was like for them. I typically stay at a nice hotel such as a Hilton/Hyatt/Marriott. I meet the girl either at the hotel or at the restaurant because I do like to have a good meal and it's a mid level restaurant rarely Olive Garden. :). After that, if it's a weekend, perhaps a show or we end up back at the hotel regardless. I look at is an actual date just has a guaranteed outcome. He is more of a pump and dump at a Holiday Inn. My question is which end of the spectrum to most of us end up at?