Typical OTC

I'm not at all interested in an escort-like experience with a stripper. I get the escort's transactional approach and by-the-hour pricing, with stripper-level flakiness. Basically, worst of all worlds. The only advantage to OTC, in this case, is that the stripper is likely much hotter than the escort... which, I suppose, might be enough of a benefit to be worth it. Well, that plus, if she's from a non-extras club, she hasn't already fucked 6 other guys today, if that thought bugs you.

My usual OTC is something along the lines of: drinks, then dinner and drinks, then bar hopping which might include going to a strip club, then the hotel room to fuck it all off. Afterwards, sometimes she goes home, but often we go back out to eat again, and/or she stays the night in the room. Basically, a night with an insanely hot, fun chick -- plus, there's sex!

Once we've known each other a while and the relationship becomes more arrangement-like, we might do things like you describe (e.g., see a show, go to a movie, etc) -- mixed in with the eating and drinking and partying.

IF he hasn't done OTC before, and he just recently got divorced so he's been out of the game for a while, he might not even realize what he would or would not like. He may well be shocked by how much he enjoys having the attention of a beautiful woman, especially one as fun as a stripper (assuming, of course, she bothers to show up to the OTC lol). I'd wager that if you somehow talked him into trying a dinner-drinks-sex OTC, he himself will be shocked how much he enjoys it.

One dancer likes to meet at a bar and I have to try to "pick her up." It can actually pretty fun as other guys are trying to pick her up and they're getting frustrated some pretty good stories come out of it.

I like to do things that make it feel like we're dating.

If he’s recently divorced, have him stick to the the well reviewed, but professional, escorts.

If he goes OTC with a stripper, and realizes what he’s been missing, he’ll fall in love with the first one to kiss his cheek and call him “baby”.

^ Good point GMD !

^^^Simply agreeing with somebody doesn’t meant it’s flirting. Is that why you are always flaming another board member? As an attempt to keep your *own* homosexual intentions hidden?

I heard you were quite the armchair psychologist too, dougster.

And stop fantasizing about my boyfriend like that! There’s plenty of gay for play options out there for you!

Apologies to steeldog for the thread derailment. I have nothing useful about typical OTC. Most of the OTC meetups I have done involved eating food.

Please believe me, I interacted with him lots. Dougster is not txtittyfag.

SJG

Derailment is complete. : )

^ :(

@SJG So txtittyfag isn’t an alias of anybody then?

Not much of an OTCer - seems to me most TUSCLers that are big into OTC tend to be more of a one-dancer/fave type of PL and seem to want the equivalent of a one-on-one relationship that encompasses more than just sex and it's more like dating (dinners; shopping; etc) - the pump-and-dump dudes can often lose patience w/ the hit/miss aspect of strippers and move on to more-sure-thing-escorts - not saying this applies 100%, but sorta the pattern I've gleamed from my years on the board