Any benefit from going from OTC back to LDK in the club?
NJBalla
New York
Ive been clubbing for a long time and finally thinking of breaking into the OTC game with a fav from a club. My question is after you OTC with a fav from a bar, is there any benefit from going to see her at the same bar? It seems like OTC is graduating from the LD and it would be hard to go back unless the club experience is off the charts...
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BE CAREFUL! There are plenty of stories of being robbed at gunpoint by your favorite hottie in OTC.
1. Extras club - if I have done OTC with a stripper, and she works in an extras friendly club, I would continue to see her inside the club if I could still get extras at a reasonable price. Example - OTC with the stripper costs me $200 and I can get ITC for $200 then I'll still go.
2. Non-Extras club - if I am able to get OTC with a dancer, and I can't get ITC or something close inside the club, then I'm a lot less excited to spend money on her inside the club. I'd rather save that money for an OTC session with her. You can also use this as a negotiating tool.
Not at all trying to be a drag. But click on the above link. The odds favor you getting the pussy. But there is a risk.
Morale to others and to my future self: If you meet a cute girl at a club and she sends you a "Are you up" text, you better ask her to "hang out" or make an appointment for the next day.
So IMO, successful OTC is a longer game where you build trust and comfort with a regular or fave who is willing to do it. That last part is key. I don't see the value in trying to get OTC with a girl that really doesn't want it, but DSDF. You probably have better chances if you've done it ITC first (if feasible) and decide to move it OTC for more comfort, privacy and value for both parties. But again, that's the longer game.
Anyway, to answer the OP, depends on how much you enjoy and value LDKs compared to other extras/FS or the quality of your OTC meeting. The dancer might not even care either way, and appreciate getting further business from you even if only in the form of a few dances. But you on the other hand might be disappointed in the experience after you've had her OTC and feel it's just a cheap imitation of the "real thing" with her and feel like you're just wasting money instead of saving some.