Ive been clubbing for a long time and finally thinking of breaking into the OTC game with a fav from a club. My question is after you OTC with a fav from a bar, is there any benefit from going to see her at the same bar? It seems like OTC is graduating from the LD and it would be hard to go back unless the club experience is off the charts...
It’s up to you. But if you value her as a regular, then feel free to get some odd lappers here and here. Customers want to get dances from the girl who is busy giving lots of them. You would be sending good karma her way.
If you have an OTC relationship, what would be the benefit of seeing that specific woman in the club? You can everything it OTC with that specific woman you can get I the club and more. The club would be for other chicks.
BE CAREFUL! There are plenty of stories of being robbed at gunpoint by your favorite hottie in OTC.
1. Extras club - if I have done OTC with a stripper, and she works in an extras friendly club, I would continue to see her inside the club if I could still get extras at a reasonable price. Example - OTC with the stripper costs me $200 and I can get ITC for $200 then I'll still go.
2. Non-Extras club - if I am able to get OTC with a dancer, and I can't get ITC or something close inside the club, then I'm a lot less excited to spend money on her inside the club. I'd rather save that money for an OTC session with her. You can also use this as a negotiating tool.
Good points and thanks for the heads up @willy. She's fairly new to this place and ive only had a few dances with her. Im perplexed at why a dancer would rob a guy at gunpoint? I can easily see a backpage girl who only does OTC robbing a guy especially girls who travel from area to area. But why would a girl risk robbing me if I would hand over lets say $200 and then pay her a "visit" the next time she performs?
@willy you just proved my point. That was a "Stripper" from backpage. She probably has never stripped a day in her life and robs guys pretty frequently. She can probably rob a few guys, travel to a new town and rob a few guys again. however, a dancer at a club who may do OTC from time to time does not raise red flags from me. Especially if she makes a decent living from the club. I would think OTC carries a higher risk for girls. A lot of guys at clubs can be clingy and borderline stalkers. Most of the top girls do a good job of keeping work and home life seperate because of this.
Its a fair point NJB. Unless she's prepared to kill you, you know where she works after all. I'm just saying in the club there are parameters that keep mugs safe. Outside the club you're meeting up with some person you don't know that well who shakes her ass for money. I've turned down OTC from a chick that I really wanted to fuck for that reason. Maybe that makes me risk adverse - I did just move a good chunk of money out of the stock market after all. But I stand by my point that there is risk. Doesn't necessarily mean you shouldn't go for it. I do think it means you should think about mitigating risk to the extent possible given your pussy procurement goals.
I think a lot of it comes down to whether you enjoy the club atmosphere generally or if your main reason for going is to pick up OTC. If it’s the former, sure, go see her in the club.
Update, girl I was planning to OTC with has magically dissapeared and I dont think will ever dance at the club again. She had a great body, attitude, but my gut feeling is her reluctance to spend money on hair/makeup made breaking into this club very challenging. I would say this is the third time ive dropped the ball on following up with an OTC. One other stopped doing OTC when she got a boyfriend and the other moved out of state.
Morale to others and to my future self: If you meet a cute girl at a club and she sends you a "Are you up" text, you better ask her to "hang out" or make an appointment for the next day.
On the other hand getting FS from a flaky girl who doesnt have the courtesy to respond to a follow up text is probably not a good idea either. But damn it would have been a good mistake to make,.
I think people might overestimate how good OTC with a random stripper might be. If she's a professional (say a former escort or an escort using the club to find johns), then you'll probably have an escort like experience and very businesslike. If she's a backpage ho, then that's the type of experience you'll probably get with all the drama that entails. There aren't really that many more types that will OTC right away with any random PL. Or you might just get the flaky types who may or may not really want to do it.
So IMO, successful OTC is a longer game where you build trust and comfort with a regular or fave who is willing to do it. That last part is key. I don't see the value in trying to get OTC with a girl that really doesn't want it, but DSDF. You probably have better chances if you've done it ITC first (if feasible) and decide to move it OTC for more comfort, privacy and value for both parties. But again, that's the longer game.
Anyway, to answer the OP, depends on how much you enjoy and value LDKs compared to other extras/FS or the quality of your OTC meeting. The dancer might not even care either way, and appreciate getting further business from you even if only in the form of a few dances. But you on the other hand might be disappointed in the experience after you've had her OTC and feel it's just a cheap imitation of the "real thing" with her and feel like you're just wasting money instead of saving some.
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BE CAREFUL! There are plenty of stories of being robbed at gunpoint by your favorite hottie in OTC.
1. Extras club - if I have done OTC with a stripper, and she works in an extras friendly club, I would continue to see her inside the club if I could still get extras at a reasonable price. Example - OTC with the stripper costs me $200 and I can get ITC for $200 then I'll still go.
2. Non-Extras club - if I am able to get OTC with a dancer, and I can't get ITC or something close inside the club, then I'm a lot less excited to spend money on her inside the club. I'd rather save that money for an OTC session with her. You can also use this as a negotiating tool.
Not at all trying to be a drag. But click on the above link. The odds favor you getting the pussy. But there is a risk.
Morale to others and to my future self: If you meet a cute girl at a club and she sends you a "Are you up" text, you better ask her to "hang out" or make an appointment for the next day.
So IMO, successful OTC is a longer game where you build trust and comfort with a regular or fave who is willing to do it. That last part is key. I don't see the value in trying to get OTC with a girl that really doesn't want it, but DSDF. You probably have better chances if you've done it ITC first (if feasible) and decide to move it OTC for more comfort, privacy and value for both parties. But again, that's the longer game.
Anyway, to answer the OP, depends on how much you enjoy and value LDKs compared to other extras/FS or the quality of your OTC meeting. The dancer might not even care either way, and appreciate getting further business from you even if only in the form of a few dances. But you on the other hand might be disappointed in the experience after you've had her OTC and feel it's just a cheap imitation of the "real thing" with her and feel like you're just wasting money instead of saving some.