Was really getting into a newbie young dancer earlier this year who had been working in a club, but not as a stripper, prior to her "crossing over". Honestly was super stoked that she decided to be a dancer as I am really attracted to her and she worked on one of my regular SC visit days. Really enjoyed her company both during dances and just us hanging out. The mileage was pretty good, not the highest I've had but more than enough to keep me interested. So as many a girl does, she was MIA without warning. A little time goes by and she's back dancing. I'm thrilled to be honest and we start to be reacquainted. Didn't pick up where we left off sort of speak but figured she was easing back into. Well after a few visits and multiple dances, I come to realize the mileage isn't going to be what it was in the past. Still enjoy her company a lot and the dances weren't terrible but not what is was. I should take it for what it is and there is another dancer who unexpectedly has peaked my interest (but hard to see her due to schedule conflicts) but this particular girl has taken some small but significant square footage in my head(s). Have had many a CF and the ATF who quit dancing but this feels different. Anyways, like always this will be a speck in history down the road.
Many girls are not cut out to be dancers and never improve (mileage-wise) and often quit after a short-while - and some turn the corner although it may take them a while - newbie dancers are often more of a crapshoot.
Two common culprits could be she has a boyfriend who still lets her dance or the club has gotten more strict. I have a fav who finished me off with a HJ everytime and would beg me to hang out with her outside the club. The club installed cameras in the LD room and she has some guys name tatted on her so the mileage of our dances has dropped along with any side talk of OTC. It is what it is, but I still go to see her. She's a pro at what she does and isnt into mind games like most dancers/women I know.
did you ask about the mileage drop? If you are a regular there's a good chance she will give you an honest answer
Thinking back to the young one - what was she doing before stripping? A rub girl? A waitress? Wh6 do you think she changed? My best guess is that she’s looking for more money. Did you help her achieve her goal? She will remember you fondly if you did.
Have you asked her why she took a hiatus? Can you talk frankly about what your wants and wishes might be? I spent an hour and a half today talking with a very attractive winsome young woman today. I finally got around to the fact that I’d like to see her totally nude; that I’d like to caress and touch her most private parts; that I’d like to kiss and lick the sweat from her most delicate crevasses, and that I’d like her to get to know my body. She has a boy friend, which she initially stated as a reason why my thoughts could never turn into action. But as we talked, it became clear that this was fantasy time. She agreed to hide a camera this weekend when she has sex with her BF and to share her “porno” with me on Sunday when she works again. I’m not sure but I think that she and I will do some mutual touching next week and that we’ll enjoy mutual oral sex shortly thereafter. I’m unsure if I want to have full sex with her or not. She certainly has all the physical attributes, but let’s wait and see how things work out.
Frank and open communication delivered in a loving respectful manner. Charms them right out of their tightly whiteys more often than not.
I had an ATF once that started dropping off her mileage and claimed it was due to newly enforced club rules. But the thing is, my other backup fave at the time worked at the same club and never said anything about it or changed her mileage so I knew ex-ATF was bullshitting me. She was the only fave I ever had that was married and I think she lowered her mileage because of that. Regardless it took only two visits of lower mileage before I stopped seeing her and her backup became my #1 fave.
Club hasn't changed based my recent experience with others.
Doubt there is a boyfriend but possible.
Have discussed her hiatus but not sure I completely believe it.
I didnt directly ask but through conversations could infer that it was a conscious decision to lower the mileage.
I haven't spent any less on her on these subsequent visits.
She probably just isn't cut out to be a dancer.
I won't completely move on yet as I still enjoy her company, just to a lesser extent.
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did you ask about the mileage drop? If you are a regular there's a good chance she will give you an honest answer
Have you asked her why she took a hiatus? Can you talk frankly about what your wants and wishes might be? I spent an hour and a half today talking with a very attractive winsome young woman today. I finally got around to the fact that I’d like to see her totally nude; that I’d like to caress and touch her most private parts; that I’d like to kiss and lick the sweat from her most delicate crevasses, and that I’d like her to get to know my body. She has a boy friend, which she initially stated as a reason why my thoughts could never turn into action. But as we talked, it became clear that this was fantasy time. She agreed to hide a camera this weekend when she has sex with her BF and to share her “porno” with me on Sunday when she works again. I’m not sure but I think that she and I will do some mutual touching next week and that we’ll enjoy mutual oral sex shortly thereafter. I’m unsure if I want to have full sex with her or not. She certainly has all the physical attributes, but let’s wait and see how things work out.
Frank and open communication delivered in a loving respectful manner. Charms them right out of their tightly whiteys more often than not.
Doubt there is a boyfriend but possible.
Have discussed her hiatus but not sure I completely believe it.
I didnt directly ask but through conversations could infer that it was a conscious decision to lower the mileage.
I haven't spent any less on her on these subsequent visits.
She probably just isn't cut out to be a dancer.
I won't completely move on yet as I still enjoy her company, just to a lesser extent.