Remembering your first LDK

I didn't start going to strip clubs until the end of last year. I went to one and decided afterwards I wanted to try a lap dance. I had ZERO idea that such a thing as a full contact lap dance existed, I thought all lap dances were air dances. Since that sounded lame I drove to a jack shack a few hours away from my home. I figured at least there I could jack off while watching a girl dance. However instead I got a medium mileage full contact lap dance which was WAY more than I was expecting and popped super fast. As I walked back to my car I thought to myself... Why the fuck haven't I been doing this. I should do this every week!

Contact strip clubs started at MBOT, and lap dancing meant lap sitting. That it was in the front room was central to the legal defensibly.

What actually happened varied widely, but Jim and Artie did prohibit FS, and they fired girls who violated.

But beyond that, not much else was absent. FIV and FIA were common, though not standard. Lights were kept very low.

DFKing, well, in such an environment, that has to be expected to be common.

Booths and back rooms were added later, when the Mafia came in, followed by Deja Vu, and after the legal battles had already been won.

Buying dances today, is a chump's game. Front Room, until you have a makeout session going and it is time for your own pants to come down.

SJG

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I will never forget my first LDK. It happened at Treasures, Las Vegas in summer 2013. Up until that point I'd only been to about 5 strip clubs over the course of 5 years. I remember having only visited Sapphires in Vegas and wanting to try a new club this time. Settled on Treasures. Got nice and tipsy before I went so I wouldn't have to waste money on their alcohol. They ended up getting me anyway once I hit the VIP (more on that later). Step inside and the club was beautiful, but it didn't seem like there were that many dancers, despite it being Friday night. I remember turning down a few requests for dances because I was looking for my type. Treasures seemed to have a ton of skinny white girls with huge fake boobs, but not much booty.

Finally, an Asian looking dancer walks by and she is the one. I'm surprised because usually Asians don't have much ass. But this one did. At this time I wasn't even knowing about fake asses or anything so maybe she had one. Anyhow, I take her for some test dances and they were to my liking, so I go for the 30 minute VIP.

The VIP was $300 ($100 more than Sapphires) AND they make you buy not two, but FOUR drinks for $100. This is when I was a straight up rookie to the SC game and didn't even know that the University of TUSCL existed. So of course, I paid with credit card. Ha, so wet behind the ears.

Once the bouncer and waitress left, she begins her dance. Right away she straddles me and practically forces her nipple into my mouth. At this time I'd never sucked a dancer's tit in a club, I thought that was a no go. But she left it there right by my mouth so I opened mouth enough and gave it a quick suck. No unpleasant reaction from her so I start sucking away like the thirstiest baby in the world. I look up and she's smiling down at me like I am indeed, her newborn child. After awhile of that I am rock hard and she goes through all the best positions. Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, OTP titfuck, OTP stick shifting. By about the 20 minute mark she's in cowgirl again and it's feeling so good that I grab her hips gently and rock her forward and back. Before this point, usually when I'm this excited and feeling like I'm gonna cum I sit up as to let the girl know that maybe we should chill out a bit. But this time, I was slumped back in the chair, looking at her bare back, holding her hips and looking down at her thong covered ass just going forward and back over my erection. It looked and felt so good that I just said fuck it. Shot off a load right there in my pants and I'm quite sure she knew exactly when it happened as my dick was just pulsating for a good 10 seconds. But she was great, didn't stop moving until I released her hips and stopped moving myself. She looked back at me and said 'did you have fun?'. 'Fuck yeah' I exclaim with the biggest grin on my face. Tipped her quite well, then went to the bathroom to check out the damage. I was worried it had soaked through my pants but nope. I had on cotton boxers that absorbed everything. Wiped off as much as I could and took my ass back to my hotel.

It was funny riding back. I shared a cab with some guys from the club who were apparently not done clubbing. Treasures closed at 6am and the sun was out. Yet these guys wanted to go to another strip club. I recommended Sapphires to them, said it's 24 hours. They were like hell yeah, you wanna go too? I told them I was spent. Little did they know I meant that literally in every way.

And thus, another LDKer was born.

I was in college still and in the process of my relationship with my GF falling apart. I was into porn and a fan of the star, Serenity who was dancing at the New Century Theatre. Prior to that I had been getting lap dances and going to strip clubs for the first time at Deja Vu with jeans. In anticipation to make the visit as fun as possible I already decided I shouldn't wear jeans and wore dress pants instead. I watch her stage show and afterwards she was giving 1:1 private dances so I get the first place in line. It was weird in that she was giving them in her private dressing room so there was a line of us in a back stairway in the non-public part of the club. Her bouncer/manager opens a door and lets me in. She is sitting at a vanity station with a smoking hot gold bedazzled bikini. We go through introductions and she says the dances are $50 each and I have to keep my hands at my side. I had no issue and paid for two since I was in awe that I was going to get a dance from a porn star. After paying she starts some music and I can't remember specifics but I do remember realizing that dress pants were much better feeling than jeans and also she had no issues grinding her pussy into my hard cock in numerous positions. It felt great. And given that I was already horny for my porn star and I had the dress pants on I came uncontrollably early into the second song. I don't even know if she noticed, and I tried not to give it away because it was unexpected. But I did shy away from her at that point forward because I knew my jizz would be seeping through my pants soon. I'm not sure but I think she picked up on it and air danced for most of remainder of the song. I was just stupid happy so it was all a blur to me. After the song ended she hugged me goodbye and I left with a strong afterglow. After that experience and finally breaking up with my GF I started going to Deja Vu, MBOT, and New Century Theatre more regularly with the intent to LDK every time.

Quite honestly I don't remember many details, name of the dancer, what she looked like (other then I know she was a brunette BC my ex wife is blond and I didn't want anything reminding me of her) but I remember the club, Christies Tempe. I do remember being embarrassed because it had never happened to me before on any other SC trip. I had not had sex in awhile. Wife was not having sex with me anymore and divorce was on the horizon. I was just looking for some positive female interaction. The dancer started grinding on me and during the second song I could feel the buildup and I didn't say anything. I tried not to cum but I was at the point of no return and I exploded. I sheepishly paid and left.

After some reflection on the drive home and over the next couple of days, I didn't really feel all that bad about it. I think my main concern was with the stain on the pants. As I moved forward my main foicus was on making sure I could LDK without leaving any visible evidence. Then once I found tuscl and discovered what actually happens in a strip club I moved into other extras. I rarely have LDK's anymore but I do understand those who have them and why.

For me an LDK orgasm is unlike anything else. Like edging but different.

I cant ldk even if i tried. How do you guys do it? Lol

It’s a mystery to me too, chessmasta

Chessmaster it's probably just not enough of a turn on for you. Having a girl topless wearing a tiny thong grinding away on my junk is absolutely satisfying to me, but some people just need the whole shabang. To each his own.

For what it's worth, I've never had a blowjob to completion. I don't know if it's the girls I had performing them, but it wasn't turning me on enough. Poor girls, they would ask me afterwards if I liked it and I'd lie and say yes.
But honestly, I wasn't feeling it. But yet, I can grind my dick between her butt cheeks for 10 minutes and splash!

Shit I don't know, I'm a weirdo. Don't take my word on it. Let someone normal explain how they LDK. I am not normal.

I enjoyed reading these, especially yours TFP

@chessmaster - For me I think it comes down to a number of things:
1. I would agree with TFP that just having a stunningly hot girl on my lap is very satisfying on it's own. I am into pretty vanilla porn usually and absolutely love striptease videos. So a lot of what is readily available at a strip club are things that I tend to fetishize anyway.
2. The emotional and psycological stimulation of the experience. It is a big turn on for me to think that a smoking hot 22yo girl is trying to make me cum and is also continually trying to figure out what I like and how to best make me happy. That last aspect is one of the reasons I like to stick to favs and the fact that she "figures me out" is a turn on in itself.
3. The fact that it is a totally selfish experience.
4. When I was a young teenager living in the bible belt I did the whole abstinence until marriage thing and did something similar to a lap dance for years. So I am extremely well conditioned to be able to enjoy it.

So in some ways I look at it like jacking off where I can prolong it or accelerate cumming by focusing on what feels good. It helps to actually fantasize that I am fucking her for real and that she lets me control it. Also I have several "go to" positions that feel good to my dick and it helps to stay in these positions for a while. I basically go to these highly boner stimulating position long enough to get to my edge and then from there it is fully immersing myself into the fantasy of actually fucking this hot chick to the point that I'm cumming until I actually do.

For example tonight I LDKed with a brand new stripper in three songs. I was at a club I rarely go to and stopped in by chance and I struck gold with an awesome LDK stripper. She was a late 20s blonde. Skinny 22" waist but she had all natural D cups and a meaty ass. Her skin was creamy smooth too. And pillowy soft. A true hot as fuck 8+. Looked like Marsha Brady with a banging body.

Anyway I watch her on stage and as she gives me a good grind she presses those all natural D cups into my chest. They were heavenly soft. I immediately ask her how much dances were and she said $30 ea or 3 for $70.

After her set she comes over and we go to the private dance area. She says it is prepay which I don't like but 3 for $70 is a good deal and this way I don't need to tip so I pay her against my better judgement. And it was well worth it.

TFP you will love this - she started out topless and kept her fluorescent pink thong on and immediately straddles me but also tells me I can touch her anywhere short of either hole. Right out of the gate she shoves those pillowy soft D cups into my face and starts stroking her pussy (still in hot pink thong) up and down directly on my dick. She was doing it a little too hard so I grabbed her ass, spread her cheeks wide open and controlled the pressure that she could put on the underside of my semi-hard cock. This immediately improved the feeling and I got harder. And the thing is, she just let me control everything except that she would put hard pressure on my dick if I didn't, so it was just a perfect scenario for me. During most of the first dance I was able to stroke her pussy over her thong and OTP all up and down the underside of my hard cock to my heart's content and at whatever pace and pressure that I wanted. All the while I had my face buried in between her perfect tits or sometimes I would squeeze them. And her fucking ass was just as soft and creamy as her tits. So in this position alone and with her letting me control the pace of stroke and pressure on my hard cock I was able to establish that I could stay hard this way and given enough time I would be able to edge and then come. And again it was not unlike masturbating.

During the next song she turns around for some reverse cowgirl at first and once again has no issue stroking her pussy up and down my hard cock. And once again she makes me control the pace and pressure on my boner or else she is putting hard pressure on me. I'm beginning to realize that this stripper is all about constant pussy on boner pressure and she likes a hard grind. But again her key was letting me have at least 50% control. She was a dry hump queen and it was so hot to look at her ass and pink thong over her butterfly pussy lips underneath as it also stroked my hard cock. Towards the end of the second song she turns around and straddles me cowgirl again and by the end I know I'm going to be able to LDK with her. She had no issue with how I spread her ass to control the stroke of my cock rubbing into her pussy. And she stayed in whatever positions I liked.

During the third song she increased the pace and started smiling and moaning as she looked at me. I like that she knew it was our third song and she was being more aggressive. I told her she was hot as fuck as I sat up and pressed her soft tits into my chest as I grinded my hard cock hard up against her pussy lips. I imagined I was face to face fucking this hottie and about halfway into the song I LDKed. And even so she just kept grinding her pussy into my cock and LOL I got to the point of over stimulation that I had to hold her up as she kept wanting to gyrate her pussy on my cock. And she just smiled as I looked at her Marsha Brady face and just barely allowed her gyrating pussy to stroke my spent but still mostly hard cock until the song ended. Fuck she made me stupid. We hugged and parted ways. I told her to would be back to see her and she said for sure.

I have no idea what number LDK in my PL life this was, but to me it was just as good as the first.

^^^^^fucking excellent! Those are the kind of LDK dances that you wish could happen every time you get dances from a new stripper. Love love LOVE girls who aim to please like this.

Unfortunately, it doesn't always go like that. But it is quite a pleasure when it does.

SLD funny that you mention that she had a pink thong. It reminds me of my ex who knew all too well about my thong/assjob fetish. She had this pink thong that was easily my favorite. If I took off her pants and she was wearing that pink thong she knew I was only gonna be good for an assjob that night and that's it. Lol.

@TFP yes she was a most excellent LDK stripper and for sure it doesn't always work out that way. The last stripper I tried at random was a hottie but she didn't stay in positions long enough and air danced more than half the time. I was one and done with her. When she is a dick dodger for most of the dance she is no good for LDK.

And I don't consider it a fetish but I can totally relate to a hot thong. I love how they look and they actually feel better in some ways than bare pussy because they slide with less friction over pants material. The sensation during a lap dance grind is a smoother feeling stroke OTP because of the extra layer. Plus after seeing her pussy for real I think it is erotic as fuck to imagine it under the thong and also see the outline of her pussy lips pressing through it. And then if I see just a hint of wetness seeping through the material I am turned on as fuck!