Guess this is akin to when does ART turn into PORN.
I'm one of those guys who look for classy-ish strippers. I'm into desecrating these girls so I need them not to respect themselves too much but on the other hand have a minimum amount that not just anything and everything can run through them. It's a fine line for sure
@Cash
Haha, well some of us haven't yet moved on to harder drugs just yet. Need a semblance of ordinary.
God filth to even more filth. I'm on marijuana and you're gone to crack. LMAO
True filth can be an acquired taste.
If a dancer takes off her thong - and her pussy lips unfurl like an old tattered flag - that’s when I know I’ve found a dreamboat...
To me a classy stripper is one that has less than 3 tattoos.
I don’t go to clubs looking for classy strippers. I like my women trashy in both the club and real life.
It's easy to tell which ones fall solidly into one category or the other. But there's a very wide grey area in the middle.
Outside appearance, I want classy. Actions in private are a totally different matter though.
I make it my ULTIMATE GOAL to DOOM these women to a life of shame and dishonor, nothing brings me more joy than to turn a Brutal spanking in the VIP into a girl willing to get skulled/actually choked out. I prefer a new toy to be 18-21 pretty enough to pass for above average, without having that drug/alcohol addiction voice preferably with no children. There is nothing that brings me more joy on this earth, I love em young and naive
Classy don't do much for me. These girls that think they are "classy entertainers" I pay little or no attention to. They might get a few dollars from a rail tip but that's it. When I am in a SC I'm looking for trashy.
classy strippers don’t exist. even most of the girls at fancy clubs like sapphires would be considered trashy by the rest of the world. they are only classy in comparison to other strippers/porn stars.
This is what classy looks like:
Classy = Finger Trashy = Fist
I believe that most people would see front room makeout sessions and girls that lead by DFKing as trashy.
But it is all supposed to be for shock value, and education in sexual openness.
SJG
I like the way Flagoneer thinks! That’s a useful “Sniff Test” - lol!
Classy=GPS
Classy = Finger Trashy = Fist
ROTFLMFAO, face turning red
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SJG
I want a lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets.
“classy strippers don’t exist”
I disagree. I’ve known quite a few strippers with quite a bit more class than the average “civilian” woman. The fact that one takes one’s clothes off for the entertainment of others doesn’t make one trashy.
It goes far beyond that. It’s a matter of attitude and integrity, not appearance.
^ +1
Classy is a very relative term - the term classy stripper sets the classy bar very low.
I don't think there is such a thing as classy vs trashy in the world of strippers.
But if I had to guess, the difference would be in how the girl carries herself and interacts with people.
The difference between the two, for me, depends on presentation (makeup vs no makeup; hair), outfit (does it match, is it new/old/has loose stitching? is it clean or does it smell?), level of intoxication (those I work with who get sloppy drunk are complete pieces of shit to me, but this is just my opinion), and drug selection(s) - if any (I understand how hard it is sometimes to work completely sober, but there are just some drugs girls should not do while working).
That’s a very useful perspective from Legend. Those points make good sense - and I can see their application in forming an opinion of other dancers.
Legend - Is there an actual mix of dancers in your club? Where some fit the trashy mold - and others are a bit in the middle - and also some classy dancers too?
Absolutely. There are girls who look like supermodels and then there are girls with hair that appears to not have been washed in weeks wearing Walmart swim tops. But then there are hot, well kept girls who cocktail with xanax and alcohol, while the unkempt girls might work sober or have a shot or two. I consider myself in between depending on how much time I have to get ready. My hair is always straightened and styled because it's easier to do and I do the same makeup look every night. But my outfits are always on point.
I had expected you to be in the classy classification. With great outfits, a toned and sexy body, and great hair & make up. I’m guessing your pole work is pretty impressive too.
I understand the need for a drink (and a bit of Xanax) if there is major stage fright.
It must make it an interesting club to work in - with a variety of dancers. Hopefully there’s not too much drama.
I'm studying for my personal training certification. I hope I'm toned lol. I'm super lazy about hair & makeup. I make it look good, but I rarely change it up. I curl my hair seldom because I'm a pole sport competitor, so my hair ends up looking like Walmart if it's curled after a stage rotation. My hair is bright as fuck (currently pink & green). I like stimulants (not coke though). Caffiene pills, coffee, Adderall, etc. I have a thyroid disease and a sleep disorder, so I need to pep myself up. Girls who have anxiety about stage or in general, should not strip in my opinion. At Legends, I feel like I'm a six. The girls there are hot as fuck. There are a few hot messes, but many. At Deja Vu, I feel like I'm a 15. Those girls get sloppy ass drunk in the locker room. A lot are out of shape. It's like over all appearance and presentation of oneself is last in their order as nost seem to be more excited to drink and bash "Detroit whores" (they say every dancer from Detroit has or currently does extras lol. They're naive as hell.)...
*but not many. *Most
Fuck typos.
Classy vs. trashey is all about how she presents her image and her state of mind. Classy is grace or effort on the pole and/or floor, style (clothes, hair, make-up), clean appearance, few or very artful tats, can hold a conversation, keeps the high road and doesnt talk too much shit about others, is not overly messed up on booze/drugs, and is fairly polite. But in the club she still needs that "could fuck your brains out" look to her and not a prissy or prude demeanor. Trashy is just the opposite. In my world classy or trashy has nothing to do whether she will do extras or not.
Sometimes you feel like a nut, other times you don’t
Legend - based on your mention of studying for your certification - and dancing in pole dancing competitions - I’m sure you are very toned! The girls I’ve seen doing that have bodies that appear to be a cross between female fitness competitors and gymnasts (due to their flexibility and agility).
With your concentration on pole work I’m sure it can make a mess of your hair style.
Legends seems to be a large club. I just checked their Instagram page - and there are quite a few dancers - and drink girls - and stages. Wow!
I’m sure you are a total knockout!
There are lots of untrue rumors that float around - and most aren’t worth repeating.
it all a matter of opinion and environment. pervs and other people in the sex industry are more likely to see certain porn stars or strippers as classy. the rest of the world doesn’t. ive met some dancers and big name porn stars who I think are well spoken, carry themselves better and are more successful than a lot of regular girls I know but getting gangbanged or grinding on old man boners for cash is just trashy. what’s wrong with being a little trashy though? I like trashy.
You make a good point Zoey101. In my view, it’s a job, a way to make a living. Some dancers, porn stars and escorts make a good living working in the sex industry. If they work hard - and don’t rip others off - there’s nothing to criticize.
How a person carries himself or herself can make that person stand out as either classy or trashy.
I think it was Dolly Parton who said - It takes a lot of money to look this cheap! - I don’t think that’s a bad thing at all!
My thought is a dancer who works to create an artistic floor routine - with some athletic pole work - can be both sexy and classy.
I’m not into desecrating the classy ones - as I prefer my filth to already be well used. I prefer to push a filthy whore to new levels of filth.