I have seen a number of 30-something or even early 40's Eastern European and Filipina women dancing over the past few years that had two things in common: They had kids, and their English was rough and accented like they had come from abroad. I have wondered if they were the mail order bride of some pathetic loser. Maybe when he brought her over to the US, he was able to support her on a single income, but once the kids came, there was a need for more household income. The wife, lacking an American education and good communication skills, decided stripping was the most lucrative option.
I thought the whole mail order bride thing was uncommon, but three guys at my work brought over Asian women (at least two of the three are Filipina).


Your logic makes sense. I don’t know if it’s the actual truth - in the case of the wives you mentioned.
There can be significantly misleading understandings of life in America. Mail order brides/internet brides - can easily think that they will live lavish lives when they come here. Of course - many loser hubby’s wouldn’t temper those misconceptions - as they want pussy.
I could see it happen with or without kids. Its easy for a couple to piss away money with a few spending sprees. Just the flight - tithe Philippines can be expensive. If a guy decides to fly first class - it can be several times the cost. It’s not good - but it makes sense.