Kissing

3/7/2018 1:04:42 AM

In my opinion, it seems to be more prevent now. Any contrary opinions? Related question: Do you kiss while getting a BJ? Obviously, not simultaneously (most of us are not that flexible), but some sucking, kissing, more sucking, etc. is this a form of gayness? I don’t think so.

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realDougster

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7 years ago

Yes, many dancers try to prevent kissing (cf. skibum's ATF)

jackslash

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7 years ago

Strippers kiss me all the time. I attribute it to poor eyesight.

Warrior15

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7 years ago

I had this little Cuban down in Miami that would give me the best BBBJCIM that I had ever had in my life. Once she was finishing up draining the last drop out of me, then she wanted to kiss me with it still in her mouth. She got real offended that I wouldn't. I stopped seeing her after that.

max_starr

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7 years ago

I kiss them after eating their pussy so its only fair I kiss them after I blow a load in their mouth lol....it really isn't that bad.

shadowcat

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7 years ago

I would agree that the number of strippers kissing has increased to the point that I now ask upfront before accepting VIP and if she says no, it is usually a deal breaker. Of course being her first VIP customer of the day is important to me.

RTP

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7 years ago

My rule is no kissing strippers. You have no idea where that mouth has been. I also have broken this rule probably more than any others.

max_starr

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7 years ago

That reminds me, isn't mono the "kissing disease" that is easily transmitted that way?

orangepicture

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7 years ago

I love kissing strippers. I seek out those that offer it.

yahtzee74

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7 years ago

@shadowcat
of course no telling who she blew at home before she left for work

Bj99

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7 years ago

I thought realDougster was into original Dougster, but his recent obsession w Skibum is making me wonder if he has a new crush! ‘Skibum this, and Skibum that’.. jeez.

shadowcat

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7 years ago

yahtzee - Yeah but what I don't know doesn't bother me as much. :)

Eve

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7 years ago

This is precisely why I keep a bottle of Crest in my locker.
Kissing makes a dance much more sensual, whether if its on the mouth, along the neck, on your ears, or down the chest. Combine (at the partner's consent) with nibbling/biting and licking, and the guy is a melting candle. I think what this does is that it makes the dance feel more like foreplay than it does just a fun dance they're throwing money out for.

Funny thing is that a lot of girls will scrunch their face at the thought of kissing customers, but a good number of those same girls are the ones willing to give bareback blowjobs in VIP. That's logic.

doctorevil

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7 years ago

Eve: yes, I agree with all of the above. And yes, my past experience has been most would rather give BBBJ than kiss, but it seems to be changing.

san_jose_guy

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7 years ago

In my experience most BJing also includes a lot of hand jobbing. And so there is lots of opportunity for titty sucking and DFKing, and I like to do it that way.

But actual BJ 'till completion, to me that is a special kind of thing, not for general use. BJing is just a preliminary to FS.

And so it will all always involve a great deal of DFKing.

BJ is a good intermediate thing to do with her after DATYing, to let your own mouth clean out, before going to FS with DFKing.

Also, I like 69ing, so some preliminary BJ mostly to get off on watching her face, then 69ing till she cums real hard, then let her BJ me some more, then start to reintroduce DFKing with it, and then go to FS with DFKing.

SJG

san_jose_guy

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7 years ago

DeclineToState

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7 years ago

Kissing isn't typical in the topless clubs in SF where I club (because it's closest geographically). With the TL club girls that do kiss, it tends to be a few brief pecks and I've experienced only one girl who makes out (she started it, it was fucking hot, she was 20 yrs old with a great though medium size natural rack, and I would seek her out in subsequent visits before she got fired). And it does not happen in the front room FYI.
I suspect in the local FN places it's more common and I intend to find out.
Me personally, I wouldn't be keen on kissing in extras clubs though.

wallanon

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7 years ago

I'm guessing SF is San Fran, TL is topless, and FN is full nude. Is that about right?

wallanon

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7 years ago

There were always girls in the clubs that wanted to kiss. Just wasn't my thing. I've gotten more lax about it as time has gone on, but don't seek it out. It's something that just happens or doesn't depending on the vibe.

georgmicrodong

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7 years ago

Almost never, ITC. There’s a couple though, I’ll risk it with, because their breath is always sweet and fresh.

DeclineToState

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7 years ago

@wallanon: Yes to those acronyms.
More time I've spent on this site, more I've gotten used to the acronyms. At first I spent time wondering was WTF does that mean? (as in SA = Seeking Arrangement, AMP = Asian Massage Parlor). Someone used TSA and some other acronyms in discussion earlier this week and I've already forgotten. Too bad users can't update the glossary instead of just founder having that access.

san_jose_guy

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7 years ago

Decline to State, remember that today San Francisco is run by Deja Vu. They call themselves management consultants. They have figured out the psychodynamics of strip clubs. They have found that they make more money by severely restricting front room contact and forcing it into the back room. This not only raises the cost, but it spoils your choreography of interaction with the girl., and it also tends to lower the median mileage.

No real need for any back room until it is time for your own pants to come down. But you don't really want that until the girl has really opened up to you, letting her sympathetic nervous system rest and letting her parasympathetic nervous system take over.

In the old days lap dancing meant lat sitting, and in many ways it was better, because it just goes easier with the girl.

As I know the most important of the acronyms came from San Francisco RedBook. Operators from Taiwan were coaching the girls and using the AAMP form to compete with domestic escorts, and this means good DFKing, and the Taiwan girls have proven good. So hence we have 'GFE'.

I you only know one acronym, the one to know and watch out for is DV -> Deja Vu.

SJG

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