Choosing Your Entertainment - Exotic Dancer vs. Escort vs. Masseuse

Jan 9, 2007, 8:35 AM

Being an avid reader of this discussion board, I've noticed that there are several posters that have mentioned taking part in other entertainment avenues, such as massage parlors and escorts.

I personally think I get more enjoyment (bang for the buck) by going to strip clubs (and especially OTCing), than I would get going to a massage parlor, or enlisting the services of an escort.

Admittedly, I've never been to a legitimate massage parlor (not the type that is really a front for a full service brothel), but unless the massages are like the asian massages that I've seen vidoes of (where the girl gets naked, oils both you and her up, then climbs aboard to rub herself all over you), I don't think I would get as much enjoyment from a massage. Is there even two-way touching? I don't even have much of an idea of the usual pricing structure, so I guess I can't say that much about it, one way or another.

I HAVE had several escorts in my "career", and although I've definitely enjoyed myself, I don't think it's as much fun as playing with the dancer of my choice. There are several negatives with an escort. In my experiences, I've picked the girls on-line from pics, which was definitely a fun process in itself, but in at least one instance, it was NOT the girl that I picked who showed up, and though still f$#kable, was a little disappointing. Also, due to paranoia about being caught in a potential sting operation or being robbed, it's a bit on the scary side. The escorts that I've had also are efforting to make the "transaction" as quick as possible, a definite negative. I have a hard time worrying about what/who she was with before me, which is a turnoff. Then there's money... though maybe cheaper than some of the marathon (all nighters, etc.) OTCs that have had, it's still pretty expensive when you consider that it's for one hour. Usually, anything extra (multiple acts) will cost you more money, too. Out of the half-dozen-ish escorts that I've experienced, only one was a true GFE, and memories of Amanda (Houston) still can keep me warm on cold nights.

IMO, spending a lot of time with a dancer, especially in an OTC rendezvous, seems to be more worthwhile, and returns the most enjoyment. Personally, an hour with a hot girl (an escort) is no where near long enough, and just leaves me frustrated and wanting/needing more. Where as a marathon session with a dancer is more relaxed; no need to watch the clock (at least not as much), and tends to be far more of a GFE. I'm already familiar with the girl before hand, so I'm not wondering if she's going to pull out a badge. I don't have to worry about who she was with just before me, 'cause I'm the only one. No surprises about what she looks like. In my experiences, I'm not having to pay extra money for multiple acts (having sex multiple times, taking pics, oral play, etc.).

Does anyone have any thoughts? I assume most of us here are going to be pro-club / dancer, but I know at least one of you (was it FONDL?) prefers the masseuse.

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chandler18 years ago

I've tried just about everything, and for me none of them, including OTC, can compare to a night at a strip club. With most other "avenues", I've known after just one experience that it wasn't anything I wanted to repeat. They had very little of the spontaneous fun that comes with even a mediocre time with a bunch of strippers, all acting like bad girls.

However, I know I'm not the same as you, Doug. And I know that you definitely are allowed to touch at most massage parlors, so that might be right up your alley.

casualguy18 years ago

Talking about safety, I would have never visited an Asian masage parlor except I happened to be walking by one totally unaware and had 3 girls grab me and pull me in. 3 girls can be pretty forceful. They were right next to a strip club I wanted to visit. The next time I planned to visit the strip club, I approached the club from the opposite direction and had 3 girls grab me from the other side. There was a different massage parlor on the other side of the club. I had the most difficult time trying to visit that particular strip club. It's in an area that got closed down years ago.

Book Guy18 years ago

Full-service AMP ...

FONDL18 years ago

DougS, first of all I agree with your conclusion that spending time with a stripper who you really like is the best option, provided that you can find one you really like in a place that isn't too expensive (and provided that getting laid isn't your primary objective.)

But therein lies the rub, it's tough to find such a girl in an inexpensive place, and trying to do so can cost you an awful lot of time and money. I've been looking without success since my ATF quit dancing 8 years ago, and I've pretty much given up.

Meanwhile my ATF went to school and became a licensed massage therapist about 3 years ago (and if you call her a massuese she'll get really pissed.) And since she started giving me massages (the legitimate kind) I've become hooked.

A legitimate massage with a girl who you really like can be a very intimate and enjoyable experience, as long as you're not looking for something sexual. And I've discovered that it's the intimacy that I most enjoy, whether strip club or massage, and the massage is a whole lot cheaper.

There can be a surprising amount of similarlity between spending time with a stripper vs. getting a massage. Most massage therapists are young attractive women, at least as attractive as most strippers. And they're usually more personable and more intelligent. They don't get naked but you do (your privates will remain covered by a sheet or towel.) And there's total privacy and lots of 1-way touching. And you can talk or remain silent throughout, it's your choice (they're specifically trained to do that.) And it's all for around $1 per minute, which is miniscule compared to the cost of most laps.

If, like me, your primary objective in going to a strip club is to have a private and intimate encounter with a pretty and intelligent young girl, try a massage sometime. Just one word of advice - don't ask for a happy ending unless she has given you reason to expect one (eg. by charging much higher prices) - it's highly insulting to a legitimate massage therapist.

Incidently, I've never been to a massage parlor, Asian or otherwise, that doesn't interest me at all. Nor does hiring an escort - that's not what I'm looking for. I enjoy an intimate encounter but not a sexual one, unless it's with someone I know very well and care very deeply about. Casual sex doesn't interest me.