"Prostitutes are rental material, not girlfriend material."
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Yes rental material. And how is that any different than paying strippers or SBs for sex?
I have never employed someone from an escort service. So I have no direct experience with girls that do that. Or not that I was aware of. However, I have had numerous OTC dates with strippers. So I guess you could count them. My OTC excursions are essentially dates as I like to take them out to dinner or to events, just like I would a date. But I do realize that is not your question.
Would I allow my girlfriend to be an escort ? NO. I could not deal with the jealousy. Period. Is that hypocritical since I do the OTC thing with other girls ? Yes, it is. Next question.
I did date an escort "off the clock" for a while, but it was still just a FWB thing cause I was married. I did it cause she said she was tired of not going out on any fun dates, cause vanilla guys she dated couldn't handle her chosen occupation.
I feel the same way about escorts as I do about strippers or any other sex worker. I'd be willing to date a sex worker if she were a different kind of person than she probably is. In other words, I don't mind the part where she sucks a lot of cock and meets with strange men for money. That part doesn't bother me at all. The part that bothers me is that she's probably also a rude, flaky, shallow, self-centered bitch who's been hardened and coarsened by her job. Just like most strippers are. That, and, frankly, the odds are she and I would have little in common beyond the sex industry. Not having much in common is not a good way to start a relationship.
But I think you're really asking about jealousy and fear of disease. First, no, I wouldn't be jealous at all. I would think it's cool that she fucks dudes for money. Especially if she buys me dinner afterwards. And second, no, I'm not afraid of disease. If she's fucking two guys a day, three days a week, for a year, that's about 312 guys a year. That's really no different than a girl who has fucked 312 guys during her youth, but then chooses to settle down with me afterwards. Except that the hooker probably used condoms, whereas the slutty civilian probably didn't. So you're safer with the hooker. And if the hooker never uses condoms, then this whole discussion is moot anyway because she'd probably be dead before she ever gets to date me LOL.
I currently have a stripper living with me. She's looking to score big bucks fast ( needs to pay back fines and pay a lawyer to hopefully get her license back). I know I'm just a PL to her but I like the way she pays the rent for her upstairs "apartment".
Anyway she asked me to help her get on Backpage and have her Johns see here at my house. I couldn't say yes cuz it would make me insanely jealous to hear her bed banging away while I'm downstairs. She has a regular customer who I agreed to let see her once. I know him and we both have a long history with her, but just the same it drove me nuts having them fucking over my head.
I think dating an escort would be just as hard.
I think in theory I could date an escort. I have no jealousy issues. If she practices safe sex with her Johns - I’m fine with that too. However - the theory and reality can be very very different!
The emotional components (mentioned by BHF) are the components that would be difficult to overcome. If she would open up emotionally - and if she was able to let her guard down fully - with me - that would be the only way it could work.
In theory - and fantasy - as I loved the movie Leaving Las Vegas - it wouldn’t be an issue. In reality - it would be very different!
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Yes rental material. And how is that any different than paying strippers or SBs for sex?
Would I allow my girlfriend to be an escort ? NO. I could not deal with the jealousy. Period. Is that hypocritical since I do the OTC thing with other girls ? Yes, it is. Next question.
Maybe I'm pimp material or retarded....I get off loving an unlovable Lady
But I think you're really asking about jealousy and fear of disease. First, no, I wouldn't be jealous at all. I would think it's cool that she fucks dudes for money. Especially if she buys me dinner afterwards. And second, no, I'm not afraid of disease. If she's fucking two guys a day, three days a week, for a year, that's about 312 guys a year. That's really no different than a girl who has fucked 312 guys during her youth, but then chooses to settle down with me afterwards. Except that the hooker probably used condoms, whereas the slutty civilian probably didn't. So you're safer with the hooker. And if the hooker never uses condoms, then this whole discussion is moot anyway because she'd probably be dead before she ever gets to date me LOL.
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Anyway she asked me to help her get on Backpage and have her Johns see here at my house. I couldn't say yes cuz it would make me insanely jealous to hear her bed banging away while I'm downstairs. She has a regular customer who I agreed to let see her once. I know him and we both have a long history with her, but just the same it drove me nuts having them fucking over my head.
I think dating an escort would be just as hard.
The emotional components (mentioned by BHF) are the components that would be difficult to overcome. If she would open up emotionally - and if she was able to let her guard down fully - with me - that would be the only way it could work.
In theory - and fantasy - as I loved the movie Leaving Las Vegas - it wouldn’t be an issue. In reality - it would be very different!