Disenchantment?

Jan 11, 2018, 6:57 PM

So I turned a year older 2 weeks ago (49 but I look young for my age), and I’ve suddenly become disenchanted w/scoring extras, sitting near the rail, spending $$$ on dances/VIP (even though I will drop some cheddar here and there), and any other whale/perv endeavors at clubs. Just don’t seem to care for it anymore. It’s as if I’ve become more cognizant of the ‘sex mirage’ ITC than before. I still MAY try to score OTC if the vibe is right (did see someone recently for 4 months). Otherwise, I just go to chill and chat it up w/a few girls during the early/mid day shift.

Anybody else experience this change where it feels like either a flipped switch or an escape from the Matrix?

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shailynn7 years ago

You know how I know you're gay?

Cashman12347 years ago

No. I’ve not experienced that. It’s probably time for a break from clubbing.

RickRollin7 years ago

A. No I don’t listen to Coldplay or wear macrame jean shorts B. Maybe so, but will still drop by with lower expectations and without dropping too much coin

shailynn7 years ago

Lol glad you have a sense of humor.

Just take a short break, I've done that before. Everyone has a different need in terms of time. I've taken 6 months before, some guys, it only takes 3 weeks.

rh48hr7 years ago

I've taken multiple breaks. Too much of anything can get monotonous.

shailynn7 years ago

^^^^ except tacos, I can never get tired of tacos.

TeoTommy7 years ago

Mistress L can smack you out of your doldrums.

JohnTitor7 years ago

NO Fuck, wish I were at the club right now. Not disenchanted at all. I just go in with full wallet and mild expectations, and it's all good.

jackslash7 years ago

"even though I will drop some cheddar here and there"

There's your problem. Try some Gouda.

skibum6097 years ago

My last time was 12/28. No plans to go back. No idea why, but on the way back home on the 28th I realized I had lost interest.

Papi_Chulo7 years ago

For most of 2017 my strip-clubbing was mostly meh - something to do but didn't really excite me like it used to.

I would assume if one goes once a month or less, then less chance of burnout or it not being fresh - if one goes every week then probably more chance it loses its luster at some point for many.

san_jose_guy7 years ago

Women you can actually know. You might find them in strip clubs, or elsewhere.

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