What can they possibly talk about? (another conversation discussion)
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
You ever hear this expression regarding May-December relationships? Well in the strip club it becomes an everyday or even every hour occurrence. I'm not actually nosy enough to eavesdrop on other PLs and dancers conversation, and even i was, it's usually too loud to do it anyway. Although i guess it could be possible if you're sitting at a full bar. Of course the babies aren't good conversationalists in general (and the slightly older girls only marginally better), and if i don't keep it going, there's just long periods of silence. But how meaningful can an initial conversation be anyway? It's mostly just pleasantries (How are you) and general questions (You come here a lot? What do you do? What type of girls do you like?) before they may or may not ask for a dance. Of course as one half of the equation, you can steer the conversation any way you like with mixed results. Sometimes i will observe a PL talking his head off and the girl pretending to listen, barely even able to get a word in. Strange, i thought women were much more garrulous than men. And sometimes, it will be the other way around, but usually i assume the guy asks what he thought was a simple question but got a story instead.
I'm not even going to go into the type of conversation that guys pay girls for. Probably therapeutic or sexy talk. But otherwise, it seems like a waste of time for both parties to just ramble on for hours, although many guys do like to talk. Me not so much. I prefer to let my hands do the talking :)
I'm not even going to go into the type of conversation that guys pay girls for. Probably therapeutic or sexy talk. But otherwise, it seems like a waste of time for both parties to just ramble on for hours, although many guys do like to talk. Me not so much. I prefer to let my hands do the talking :)
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It can be simpler when a pl is chatting up a dancer - as he can simply go through the usual topics - the weather, local traffic, the local pro/college sports teams, etc...
In certain cases - you are simply buying time - to see if you want to buy dances from her. It’s best to get a full look at the dancer - and see how playful she is conversationally. If she has a natural smile - and if she touches your arm, hand, thigh - it could be a sign she’s relaxed with you - and that should help her to relax when you get a dance.
For every PL on here that's trying to figure out the magical combination of words and gestures that will convince a stripper to spread her legs for the least amount of money, there's a stripper looking for the magical combination of words and gestures that will convince us to empty our wallets for the least amount of work / contact on their part.
To pay so much money only to then engage in such inane conversation (i suppose it's possible that they could have multi-tasked, or more specifically he, while she just sat pretty). I mean if it was sexy or therapeutic, maybe i could see the reasoning. I still personally hate it when strippers do that (talk their ass off during a dance) but that's yet another discussion and another day (yay!). In retrospect that was probably the easiest $225 or so that that dancer ever made (every dancer probably wishes all her customers were like this); she was one of the hottest girls there (i recognized her voice), although she probably never struggled to make money there.
They have to stay in character and let the guy do the talking, if they want it to go well.
SJG