Do you tip on top of multiple dances?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
In general i will tip if a girl gives extra or exceptional service. Usually if a dance is that good i will do multiple dances as well. I don't think i've ever done just one excellent dance, unless that was my last dance and i ran out of money, which might have happened only once. But there is a part of me that thinks that doing multiple dances (say 3 or more) is a tip in and of itself. Think about it, a dancer has to spend time to get a PL to the LD room, then they have to burn a song (if they're not ROBs) as they wait for a new one. If the PL only does one song, then they have to spend part of the next song trying to sell another song or getting dressed or collecting payment. So a dancer will spend at least 3 songs to do one dance. And if i get only one dance, unless it was a very dirty dance that i just didn't want to continue for whatever reason, that means i don't want to get another dance from her probably ever again, so no tip. But if i do multiple dances, the stripper makes a lot more money in a much smaller amount of time than selling the same number of dances one dance at a time. Some strippers have asked for or hinted at tips (you owe this much, plus whatever you feel like...) after numerous dances. Again, i don't have a problem tipping if they were exceptional or extra services were performed. But if they were just good or very good dances, i think the multiple dances should be enough. What say you?
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If a girl is awful - and I’m not feeling it - I’ll get two dances - pay her only for the dances - and just say thank you.
I don't tip strippers I only get one dance from.
the clubs in my area sell dances in blocks of time. 10 minutes for 100 bucks, 15 minutes for 150 bucks and so on.
this sucks because unless you plan on spending several hundreds of dollars, its difficult to try out many different dancers.
now if i'm at a club in which dances are sold 20 or less per song, then i'm much more likely to tip because they aren't making me spend 100 bucks just to get a damn lap dance
Front room friendliness, select the girl yourself and build some intimate rapport before even talking about booths or back rooms. You can feed her money in the front room, and that way you can lead it.
Best is a front room makeout session. Save booths and backrooms until it is time for your own pants to come down. They you invite her.
Then take her home with you to continue and keep on seeing her regularly.
SJG
Other than that as a general rule I don't feel obligated to tip for dances $10 and up; I sorta take it on a case-by-case basis, and is a combo of how much she went above-and-beyond and how I'm feeling that day - for me if they allow titty-sucking or some FIV, then I will almost always tip something extra; if it's just a standard dance then I don't feel as compelled and in this case may only tip if I happen to be feeling extra-generous that day.
Getting your girl off script and accepting casual front room money for her time, and where you can civilianize and lead the interaction, is better than 'dances'. Lap dancing used to mean lap sitting, and that created a more open situation.
Most important thing is to get your girl off script, and they way you do this is by never treating her like a prostitute, while at the same time respecting the fact that she expects money.
SJG
In my 1-way contact club, I like to tip any girl who allows even modest 2-way contact (hips, thigh, or ass grabbing) as to encourage her to continue, plus she's risking a $300 prostitution ticket for allowing contact, if vice catches her. Or $10 is she tries to push the 1-way levels is erotic ways.
What's $10 if I enjoyed it?