Why would a dancer tell you she hasn't had sex in a long time?

Ever have this happen to you? While you're getting a dance, the dancer just casually says that she hasn't had sex in a long time. Now from my previous discussion, i often wondered how easily strippers found boyfriends, and it turned out not so hard at all. So if it was simple sex she wanted, that i'm sure she could find in a heartbeat. Now, i know that bitch wasn't talkin to me, please. This is a little different when a girl might mention that she bets you're a good lay based on how the dance is going and long you're keeping it hard and by how you are touching her. Which has also happened more than once or twice which i'm almost sure was SS. Would this possibly be a thinly veiled hint at OTC or just one of numerous random shittings from a stripper?

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  • doctorevil
    7 years ago
    I don’t hear it all the time, but it’s not that unusual either. It’s part of her sales technique.
  • JuiceBox69
    7 years ago
    From time to time...usually I take them back and fuck em
  • Cashman1234
    7 years ago
    It’s possible SS. It could be that she wants to setup otc with you - and she’s trying to let you know that she’s clean?

    Hasn’t had sex in a long time - she needs it - she doesn’t have a man to take care of her sexual needs. It could work to make otc great?
  • shadowcat
    7 years ago
    I had one tell me that she hadn't been laid in 6 months since she caught her ex BF cheating on her and broke up with him. Since she was in my bed at my house at the time, I was inclined to believe her.
  • Huntsman
    7 years ago
    I've heard this a few times and it cas be either pure ss to sell dances or it could be a hint at otc. Or it could just be random stripper blurting. Whether or not I'm interested in her answer, I can't help but follow up to try to find out, out of curiosity if nothing else.
  • Subraman
    7 years ago
    -->"I don’t hear it all the time, but it’s not that unusual either. It’s part of her sales technique."

    Of course. Dirk, don't take this the wrong way, but I'm surprised anyone who has managed to find tuscl hasn't heard this plenty and understand it's hustle. It *could* just be a way to turn you on, or it *could* be a hint to offer OTC, but none of us have the slightest idea which it is, only a PL who asks can divine the answer.
  • theDirkDiggler
    7 years ago
    ^ Actually, in 15+ years of clubbing, i've only heard it literally a handful of times or less (i can remember each occasion and from whom), so it messed with my head a little. To the point of distracting me and then i'm not as focused on the dance while it's happening. If it was pure hustle, it didn't lend itself to VIP or more dances. If they had said that while we were sitting, of course i would pick her brains more and see what were the reasons for that...
  • wallanon
    7 years ago
    Sometimes it's because she wants to have sex.

    There is a term that doesn't get used much around TUSCL anymore. HASE. Sometimes it happens by touch and feel. Sometimes it sounds like bad porn dialogue and then things get heated. Sometimes it is just stripper shit and don't take it personal. If it's a HASE, anyone who's ever experienced it will say you'll know it when you see it.

    But that's the same thing a stripper said the other night when she was explaining how aliens exist.
  • Tiredtraveler
    7 years ago
    A 'long' time can have many definitions.
    She could be referring to Yesterday or last week before she rode the white pony or since her last penicillin shots!
  • etsutwigg222
    7 years ago
    90% of the time it us pure ss. Just yesterday I was in a club and this new little blonde exited VIP, headed straight to dressing room, and guy hit the restroom. When guy came out, I recognized him and waved a hello. He sat at table next to me and proceeding to fill me in on the newbie he was just in VIP with. He also requested if I had a condom he could have, as he was meeting his CF but used his condom unexpectedly on the newbie.
    New dancer his on stage, so I tip to get a closer look and she was doable. She then joins me at my table after getting off stage. She starts the sales pitch with her hands, then tells me she hasn't had sex in 3 months.
    By now my friend's CF is in his lap working him for VIP. He hears her, looks over and just shakes his head.
    I begged off telling her maybe later, but I was waiting on someone. Yea, it was a newbie sales pitch, but I had scoped out the object of my visit. No need now to reward ss.
  • warhawks
    7 years ago
    I’ve heard it a few times.

    Most of the time it was trying to get me to pay for more dances or an up sell without delivering.

    The majority of the girls I’ve had sex with in the vip were discrete about it. That’s usually how I know they are serious about it. Remember, unless you are in Nevada or Mexico, it’s technically illegal and the dancer can get fined or fired if caught having sex. So why blatantly advertise it?
  • RTP
    7 years ago
    I think I hear that line at least 50% of the time. I think it is SS 101. Don't let them know that you are having sex often, everywhere and in every position. It helps with the fantasy that it is your manliness and sex appeal that are attractive to me, not your wallet.
    Dancers are offered sex everyday. If they actually want some, they are getting it.
  • K
    7 years ago
    The answer to "why does a stripper say xxx" or "why does a stripper do xxx" is almost always , she wants to separate you from your money. It may be a stupid thing to say or do and have little chance of working but that doesn't change her reasons. Could it be an opening to OTC? yes, or an attempt to make you think OTC is an option and you need to buy another dance to find out. Be brave. be bold. Ask her if she is up for getting together OTC. If yes, go for it if you wish. If not move on unless you do want more dances. Either way , don't buy another dance to find out
  • theDirkDiggler
    7 years ago
    I did consider the legal angle, and that is probably why they wait (in my case) when they're already naked and my hands are all over them before they say it, which makes it all the more pointless. One of them (and she was very hot so i do wonder if i lost out) did keep on dropping other hints without outright asking. But she also wanted a $1000 puppy and i wasn't about to get her that.
  • londonguy
    7 years ago
    It's SS. Intended to get you to think you have a possibility of being her first since 'x' and thereby encourage you to part with more money.
  • nofuglies
    7 years ago
    From the mid 1990’s until they closed in the mid 2000’s, I visited this one club about once a month. During those 10 years, I saw what I thought was the most attractive dancer (face and body) only twice. Neither time was I able to get a dance from her. Once, I was about to leave for an appointment and the other time she was stacked up with regulars.

    Fast forward to 2010. I was looking for another dancer who had recently left another club and was told to try Club X. Well, lo and behold, the first dancer that I saw on stage at Club X was this dream of a dancer who I recognized instantly from 15 years ago, even though I had only seen her twice and had never gotten a dance from her.

    It took a couple of visits to get the time of day from her, and that was only after another dancer vouched for me assuring her I wasn’t some undercover cop. She became my ATF with me visiting her at the club about every other week. Her dances were playful, erotic and consisted of being unzipped with her giving me a handy while sitting on my lap.

    One night about a half year later, we start as usual, then she stands up and puts little junior in as she sits back down and says “happy birthday to me, it’s been a while and you’re just my size”. This then became the norm… ahhh the memories. Sadly she retired a few years later.
  • GoVikings
    7 years ago
    ^ Nice
  • flagooner
    7 years ago
    I've said it to a dancer once. Because it was true.
  • lopaw
    7 years ago
    Classic SS.
  • ime
    7 years ago
    No way a stripper would lie, you are also the handsomest guy with the biggest dick she has ever met. Don't waste time put a ring on it.
  • motownkid
    7 years ago
    ime - lol

  • Corvus
    7 years ago
    The stripper shit gets thick at times. Hell, one time I had a young stripper tell me she was a virgin. It was pure SS of course. She just didn't want to fuck me. What a shame too, she was stunning.
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