The real war no women - is it real?
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
There seems to be a growing war (backlash) against what could be defined as conventional relationships.
MGTOW (youtube it), PUA, Pump-and-Dump, plummeting marriage statistics, high divorce rates. Going by just what can be seen on social media, there appears to be a growing backlash, by men, regarding being in monogamous long term relationships with women.
Its taken decades to sink in but men seem to be figuring out what a trap marriage is. They also seem to be revolting against single mothers and/or pursuing cultural norms of dating (pump and dump).
The premise is the majority of women are just looking to get over on dudes and cannot be trusted.
My personal experience with dealing with the young honeys is that they are amazing people but self entitled to a point that it would almost impossible for them to have a healthy LTR. Put another way...anyone marrying them better be ready for infidelity and to have half their shit taken from them when the honey feels slighted.
Is the backlash real or a misperception?
MGTOW (youtube it), PUA, Pump-and-Dump, plummeting marriage statistics, high divorce rates. Going by just what can be seen on social media, there appears to be a growing backlash, by men, regarding being in monogamous long term relationships with women.
Its taken decades to sink in but men seem to be figuring out what a trap marriage is. They also seem to be revolting against single mothers and/or pursuing cultural norms of dating (pump and dump).
The premise is the majority of women are just looking to get over on dudes and cannot be trusted.
My personal experience with dealing with the young honeys is that they are amazing people but self entitled to a point that it would almost impossible for them to have a healthy LTR. Put another way...anyone marrying them better be ready for infidelity and to have half their shit taken from them when the honey feels slighted.
Is the backlash real or a misperception?
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Agree, but wonder how they can possibly trust men in the future after being SBs themselves.
I blame it on Feminism. Take a look at this short video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pcd4WNiB…
But marriage rates are down. It just doesn't make sense anymore economically, except for a high wage career elite.
So many women have come to accept the fact that marriage is becoming more and more remote.
https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Markets-…
SJG
Pink Floyd, awesome compilation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xP8XzjUy…
This video I consider bull shit. Fact is. lots and lots of people live in ways which are not dependent on playing to limited and complimentary gender roles.
You find this especially when people live alone, but also more and more in today's couplings.
And then of course there are those living far more flexible sex roles too.
SJG
Personally, I am 49. never married. And trying to come to terms with the fact that I may never be married and never have a 25th anniv. Say what you want but I would like to try it once.
I would not suggest that.
F2F first meetings always better.
Most any woman 30yo+ is dying to be married.
SJG
Another Pink Floyd compilation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYJbLpMe…
SJG
Lots of young women would be very interest in a 49yo man.
SJG
http://www.breitbart.com/london/2014/12/…
But I do believe that most young men are socialized in realms where they don't learn how to move assertively with women. Certainly was like that for me.
SJG
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO1ifNaN…
I am a gen Xer and in just about every gen X couple that has kids I know, both work. I also know several Millenial couples and in most of those relationships the female does NOT work regardless of how many children they have. I know a ton of Millenial guys who are 30 or older that never have been married but want to be married, but they just can’t get their shit together enough to impress a girl enough to marry them.
From what I read too many Millennials still live at home and too many have too high expectations of what a relationships should be.
Thank goodness for it, though. My CF sugar date (we don't really have a true SB/SD relationship) is super easy to get along with, very accommodating to me in terms of schedule and what we do on dates, is super horny all the time, and the $200 per date I've been giving her is a bargain compared to the cost and hassle of courting a civvie to the same amount of sex.
If you spoke with a doctor - and he told you the chances of success for a surgical procedure (that you really didn’t need) - were about 50% - and it would take years to recover - would you actually get the surgery done?
I'm not as picky as most of the guys on here, but I'm still picking girls that are worth providing economic support to.
I've also been personally involved in watching a woman attempt to make the transition from only wanting to date/fuck hot guys (who ended up treating her like crap) to realizing that it might be in her better interest to date/fuck stable guys that can help take care of her (assuming she can figure out how to be somewhat stable too; us stable guys don't tend to keep the trainwreck girls around for very long). It took her to her late 20s to figure it out, but once she did, things really calmed down for her.
Reminds me of a joke:
"Women look for the *one* guy that will provide *all* their needs - men look for *all* women that will provide his *one* need"
:)
Good book:
https://www.amazon.com/Backlash-Undeclar…
SJG
SJG