This question should have been addressed to TUSCL
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
“So I have a super weird predicament that I’ve been dealing with for basically this whole summer so far. Back in June, I won a good amount of money gambling on the NBA finals, so I decided to go out to one of the local strip clubs.
I was having a good night for a few hours just enjoying myself then one of the young ladies came up to me and sat on my lap. She was very attractive and just seemed different than most of the other girls at the club. She told me her name and we talked for a while then I proceeded to get a couple of lap dances to end the night.
She ended up giving me her phone number so I hit her up again at the club the next weekend. This went on for a few more weeks or so until July came around and we eventually started hooking up and going on dates and what not. Long story short, I have been dating her now for almost two months and basically I just would like to know if this is a bad idea or not. She doesn’t really dance anymore – maybe once every other week at the most because she has a different job now. We hangout all the time and get along great and there hasn’t really been any problems so far (that I know of). If I should be done with her, should I break it off as soon as possible so I don’t develop serious feelings for her or should I give it a little longer? How would you suggest going about this strange situation?”
Sometimes you just have to play the odds. What are the chances that a stripper meets a normal guy at a strip club, begins dating him, gives up stripping, gets married, and lives happily ever after without ever cheating on the guy she met at the strip club or banging a richer dude than him instead?
Basically zero, right?
I believe that a Stripper Cinderella story can exist, but I don’t think Stripper Cinderella meets her Prince Charming in the strip club, I think a guy meets her outside the strip club and never has any idea she’s ever worked in a strip club before.
Dating a girl you met in the strip club is fine, but don’t fall madly in love with her. Keep some distance between you. If she ever confronts you and says, “I feel like you’re intentionally creating distance between us,” do what every guy does — lie and tell her it’s all in her head.
Odds are she’s banging someone other than you right now too.
I don’t blame her, it’s just the way the game is played.
https://www.outkickthecoverage.com/anony…
I was having a good night for a few hours just enjoying myself then one of the young ladies came up to me and sat on my lap. She was very attractive and just seemed different than most of the other girls at the club. She told me her name and we talked for a while then I proceeded to get a couple of lap dances to end the night.
She ended up giving me her phone number so I hit her up again at the club the next weekend. This went on for a few more weeks or so until July came around and we eventually started hooking up and going on dates and what not. Long story short, I have been dating her now for almost two months and basically I just would like to know if this is a bad idea or not. She doesn’t really dance anymore – maybe once every other week at the most because she has a different job now. We hangout all the time and get along great and there hasn’t really been any problems so far (that I know of). If I should be done with her, should I break it off as soon as possible so I don’t develop serious feelings for her or should I give it a little longer? How would you suggest going about this strange situation?”
Sometimes you just have to play the odds. What are the chances that a stripper meets a normal guy at a strip club, begins dating him, gives up stripping, gets married, and lives happily ever after without ever cheating on the guy she met at the strip club or banging a richer dude than him instead?
Basically zero, right?
I believe that a Stripper Cinderella story can exist, but I don’t think Stripper Cinderella meets her Prince Charming in the strip club, I think a guy meets her outside the strip club and never has any idea she’s ever worked in a strip club before.
Dating a girl you met in the strip club is fine, but don’t fall madly in love with her. Keep some distance between you. If she ever confronts you and says, “I feel like you’re intentionally creating distance between us,” do what every guy does — lie and tell her it’s all in her head.
Odds are she’s banging someone other than you right now too.
I don’t blame her, it’s just the way the game is played.
https://www.outkickthecoverage.com/anony…
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In defense of the ex-stripper two of the guys were alcoholics so it wasn't necessarily the strippers fault. The 3rd victim, uh I mean guy, I didn't know well enough to know who was at fault in that relationship.