I was actually denied VIP!???? (Ignore the other thread)
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So I came to G2G to see if the talent gotten any better...it didn't. Except for one girl. Gave her the necessary attention on stage and tipped her generously making it known I want her to chill with me. She goes right over to a young buck white guy that looks similar in age as me and is standing. What a waste of money on my end.
Soon a girl that I always tell no to pops up behind me. She knows me on name basis, that's how many times she bugs me. And she's consistent with it every half hour. EE type girl. Not generally my type. Comes back again after first polite decline and being that the only girl I was willing to actually approach was occupied I relented and got a dance with this ee girl. It was actually pretty good and unlike other EE women I've dealt with, she's attentive to the penis and she demanded I fondle all over her tiny soft ass. And now I'm currently afflicted with lust for the slim type and standing at attention.
After first song, I ask her if she wants to go to VIP, clearly more money. And she says she no, she doesn't do VIP. Total shocker, after all the time she bugged me for a dance and clearly hungry for money, she actually turned down a VIP. I had to end the session right there I was so shocked. Not sure why she expected a tip though.
What am I missing here fellas?
So I came to G2G to see if the talent gotten any better...it didn't. Except for one girl. Gave her the necessary attention on stage and tipped her generously making it known I want her to chill with me. She goes right over to a young buck white guy that looks similar in age as me and is standing. What a waste of money on my end.
Soon a girl that I always tell no to pops up behind me. She knows me on name basis, that's how many times she bugs me. And she's consistent with it every half hour. EE type girl. Not generally my type. Comes back again after first polite decline and being that the only girl I was willing to actually approach was occupied I relented and got a dance with this ee girl. It was actually pretty good and unlike other EE women I've dealt with, she's attentive to the penis and she demanded I fondle all over her tiny soft ass. And now I'm currently afflicted with lust for the slim type and standing at attention.
After first song, I ask her if she wants to go to VIP, clearly more money. And she says she no, she doesn't do VIP. Total shocker, after all the time she bugged me for a dance and clearly hungry for money, she actually turned down a VIP. I had to end the session right there I was so shocked. Not sure why she expected a tip though.
What am I missing here fellas?
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Jk...
Possibly because of a partner at home. Possibly because that's their self-imposed boundary.
I don't think that you're missing anything. She probably has limits and it's as simple as that.
There's a factory worker, he makes $X amount of dollars a year, is home every night and gets by just fine. Then there's another worker at the same factory, he busts his ass and works every overtime he can get, and he makes $X + another $20,000 a year. With that comes sacrifices with more hours at work missing out on time with family, free time, etc.
Same with a stripper like this, she does fine just giving lapdances and she's not willing to sacrifice going to VIP where she will have to perform extras. Her reason for her choice is her own.
By all reports and my own experiences, the hard core stuff dropped off a lot in the VIP booths after they installed a camera in each one about 5 years ago. However, reports are mixed on this and some girls might be getting creative in them. Idk.
But as others have said, maybe she doesn't want to deal with the expectations some guys have when going to a VIP booth. Or maybe she feels like it's a bad deal for her if she can keep selling dances at $20 per pop. Or maybe she just doesn't want to be trapped in a VIP booth with an intense looking young black man with a boner. Maybe she was getting ready to leave and didn't want to commit to 30 minutes in a booth. Who knows what these girls think?
All you can do when something like this happens - and it happens to all of us - is to shake it off. I'm sure that there were others there who would have gladly taken you back.
you've been labeled as an asshole from the last time you went to this club.
that's why the dancer on stage ignored you, and why the other just gave you a lap dance.
girls talk, and if you continue to frequent this club, you'll always have the asshole label, and even if someone agrees to do VIP with you, they'll be sure to leave you with a set of blue balls for a ton of money.
even if that dancer whose feelings you hurt leaves the club, your reputation will be perpetuated until the club shuts down.
@flagooner. Nope, kept it respectful and clean. No name calling here.
@joeWebber. You would be right....if that was the club it happened at. Sorry, try again.
i still remember the one (And only) time a girl rejected my dance request because she didn't do the clubs lowest priced dance which was 25 bucks. basically, she only did 60 bucks and up.
this is the one and only time i've had a dancer turn down a request for a LD. man, was i shocked. i still am
She was quite pretty but she put nothing into her dances, might as well stay in Orlando.
If you really want to piss these GPS girls off, react like this:
Oh, so you do extras but you charge more than the going rate here? I might be up for that.
On thr other hand, if she denies you a trip to vip it is leaving you wanting more. She knows you are interested so she has an in for the next time. This is clearly working since you have been thinking about it enough to post it here. She knows guys always desire what they can't have.
fuck.