"Your gonna have to stop coming to the club very soon if we're to be serious fri
HarryJones
Back again. So i'm still having dances every weekend but things have definitely changed.
She messages me first everyday and I get a "goodnight" message at least 4 times a week.
I am ALWAYS online on Facebook to chat but I was going through a rough time last week and stayed offline for hours which is very strange for me. So she phoned my Mothers place of work to ask her if I was okay
She purchased me a mens bracelet this week, then another "surprise" gift today. She's coming to my place tomorrow to chill and will bring it with her then.
I was having a dance on Friday night and she randomly says to me "Your gonna have to stop coming to the club very soon if we're to be serious friends and take things further"
"You can have dances with other girls but we should just talk if you do come to the club instead of dance. That way we can do more stuff away from work without worrying about getting into trouble all the time"
She's going away for 2 days with her family soon and she is leaving me with a key to her apartment so that I can feed and walk her dog. Things have always been great but i'm not sure where this sudden extra affection and trust has came from.
That is a crazy thing to say. She isn't driven by my money and as i've said before, she often stops me from spending....but some nights at the club are so dead, i'm literally the only guy who buys a dance from her. I'm not sure how she'll cope. She even discussed quitting.
Its my Birthday in 3 weeks and i've been promised a party at the club plus a free 30min VIP dance worth £160. And October will be a year since we met. So i'm thinking of having my last ever dance on the 1 year anniversary of our first ever dance.
Whether we remain good friends away from the club or my ultimate hope of a relationship comes true, this definitely seems like a positive step....it will certainly save me some money every weekend and lower my awful alcohol intake
She messages me first everyday and I get a "goodnight" message at least 4 times a week.
I am ALWAYS online on Facebook to chat but I was going through a rough time last week and stayed offline for hours which is very strange for me. So she phoned my Mothers place of work to ask her if I was okay
She purchased me a mens bracelet this week, then another "surprise" gift today. She's coming to my place tomorrow to chill and will bring it with her then.
I was having a dance on Friday night and she randomly says to me "Your gonna have to stop coming to the club very soon if we're to be serious friends and take things further"
"You can have dances with other girls but we should just talk if you do come to the club instead of dance. That way we can do more stuff away from work without worrying about getting into trouble all the time"
She's going away for 2 days with her family soon and she is leaving me with a key to her apartment so that I can feed and walk her dog. Things have always been great but i'm not sure where this sudden extra affection and trust has came from.
That is a crazy thing to say. She isn't driven by my money and as i've said before, she often stops me from spending....but some nights at the club are so dead, i'm literally the only guy who buys a dance from her. I'm not sure how she'll cope. She even discussed quitting.
Its my Birthday in 3 weeks and i've been promised a party at the club plus a free 30min VIP dance worth £160. And October will be a year since we met. So i'm thinking of having my last ever dance on the 1 year anniversary of our first ever dance.
Whether we remain good friends away from the club or my ultimate hope of a relationship comes true, this definitely seems like a positive step....it will certainly save me some money every weekend and lower my awful alcohol intake
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I'm not sure how I am going to hold on until October. She says she wants to go steady, but I don't want to give up lap dances in the club until a symbolic date. I stay up at night thinking of what could be, but I can't imagine a future of her being naked without a bouncer at hand.
I actually meet a stripper like that once
She wants to be more than friends.. Best Friends!
The dating thing is still the dream but it's less of a need than it once was. I have been focusing more on myself as a person and other areas of life recently....and I had a very wild night with a civie girl last weekend although it meant absolutely nothing
We haven't slept together and yes your probably right with the whole friendzone thing. We essentially are best friends. She still insists that she isn't ready to date anyone yet due to the previously mentioned family issues and past
And we'll remain great friends whilst she continues to be single and deals with shit, and whilst I try to explore life for myself. I am still 19 remember
If anything further happens...then it happens
Strip clubs might have been a disappointment back then unless they had 9's and 10's working.
You know the food is bad when everyone is eating up all the leftover cereal for supper because the food they have for supper resembles Fear Factor Road kill.
I'd be happy to save my money to buy better food. Skip the strip clubs.