In the past I would have a hard time lasting as long as I wanted to during sex, maybe 5 min of penetration. I'm young enough where I can recover pretty quickly and be ready in 5 min or so. Sometimes the girls don't mind and maybe I massage them or something while I'm getting recovered and ready for round 2. The thing is that for me it's kinda embarrassing cumming that fast.
I've found something that works for me. If you have an inclination that you could have sex that day, go ahead and jack off and release a few hours before. The result for me is being able to go for close to a hour, doing all the positions, and cumming so fucking hard. So for example you and your buddies are going to a nightclub to try to see if you can take something home. You don't know if you're going to get the sex tonight, but plan ahead and jack off a couple hours before you hit the nightclub. If you end up taking something home at the nightclub, you won't have a cumming quick problem.
This works for me as a 26 year old. Just my thoughts.
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last commentJerking off before hand? Kinda defeats the point, no? Also, who cares if you pop quick? She's a stripper, you don't need to impress her with tantric like abilities, you just need to get yours a pay her her money. Matter of fact, a quicker pop is a cheaper bill at the end for you, what a deal. Spend more time with "foreplay" type shit if you want it to last longer.
Oh and a little fyi - jerking off excessively can potentially lead to not being able to last too long. Just saying...
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26 minus 11 equals 15.
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Young feller, I suspect that a bigger issue on this board is cumming too slow -- or not at all. For many of us PLs in our 60s (or older), orgasms are a precious thing, not to be wasted on jacking off. I do remember sometimes masturbating the day before a club visit in my 40s so that I would last longer during lap dances, which have always been (and still are) a big turn-on to me. However, nowadays I don't jerk off at all -- ever! -- preferring to experience all of my increasingly precious orgasms with a woman in some sort of sexual activity, either ITC or OTC.
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@a2 I'm talking about stripper and civilians. That's a good point on spending more time on the foreplay!
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Everyday you remind us what a retard you really are.
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@Mr. Deuce- I never want to get old!
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^^^^Spoken like a fifth grader !
Getting old is much better than the alternative.
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Just get high. Then you can go as long as you want the first time. But an hour is overkill for the majority of women.
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Somebody just got done watching There's Something About Mary.
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Thanks for the support, 25! What am I supposed to say when a 20-some-year-old utters some inanity like "I never want to get old!" ?? Getting old does, indeed, beat the alternative -- and some of the ladies love our staying power! I find that once I get hard, I can stay hard for a long time these days. Being 60+ isn't all bad!
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Larry, in both men and women, climax occurs when the sympathetic nervous system reasserts control over the parasympathetic. These two systems operate in counter balance. Most actions start with the sympathetic, fight or flight. But sex works by the parasympathetic, feed and breed.
So the parasympathetic will take you further and further into the experience. But at some point the sympathetic will take over and bring it to conclusion.
So as taught in tantra, the way to last longer is to stop fighting. If you fight not to cum, that makes you cum. You have to just learn to let go, get off on the girl's face and curves, and feel the energy flows and resonances in both parties. And also use varied rhythms, and use deep strokes sparingly. Let air get out so vacuum can form. Pull her knees up to change the entry angle and give her nice short strokes for a g-spot massage, under vacuum. Sometimes stop all motion, and get off on very gentle kissing. Just enjoy your girl and the experience to the maximum, and then it can go on as long as you want, and you can get her going over the top in wave after wave, with each deep stroke.
And then after, rest, talk with her, and then start heating her up again for the next round.
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Larry
Learn foreplay. Instead of jerking off, get a blow job then return the favor before penetration.
Youth is wasted on the young.
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@Mrdeuce fish boy is an idiot as evidenced by his inane babbling. He doesn't participate in debates, he just likes the sound of his own voice. The guy called me a dimwit in a thread where he didn't even read it well enough to comprehend the whole story and offered dangerous advice, I maintain as I have from the time he first popped up he is far from the brightest bulb in the chandelier.
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LFM giving advice how to make love to Rosie Palmer and her 5 Sisters. o_0. You can't make this shit up! LMFAO.
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Larry is to douche as LeBron is to GOAT.
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@John Smith- I don't smoke
@K- I like blowjobs, but if a girl does a really good job really good job sucking, I'm only gonna last 5 min. So you're saying have her suck me, then I cum, we clean up, I eat her pussy, and then we fuck?
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OMG. STFU Larry
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LFM --> "K- I like blowjobs, but if a girl does a really good job really good job sucking, I'm only gonna last 5 min. So you're saying have her suck me, then I cum, we clean up, I eat her pussy, and then we fuck?"
That sounds more like a "porno" than making love. The problem is between your ears than between your legs. You're an idiot.
I guarantee you're doing 1&2 far too much.
JFC, it's like talking to a 15yo.
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@Dom to @LFM: "You're an idiot. "
Truer words have never been written.
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Who is 'JFC' ?
SJG
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Oh, 'Jesus Fucking Christ'
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Jesus fucking christ
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Larry go do your fucking homework your going to flunk the 4th grade again.
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In the book, "the sensuous man", written by M, there is a technique that prevents a guy from cumming too quick. Read the book at 16 and that was the last time I popped before I wanted to. The only negative is that if you add a few cocktails to the mix, you might stay hard and not blow a load. Cum from a blow job in 5 minutes? Ahh Junior High memories.
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25, I'm clearly mostly playing around, but you're so gullible I shouldn't even be surprised lol. I could ask how do you put the dick in the pussy and you would believe I was being serious LMAO. I've finally figured out why your username is 25, it signifies how many brain cells you have LMAO.
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@Larrydipshit...
I can't speak for everyone, but it is hard to believe that anyone believes you.
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Usually I like to have a partner blow me to completion to start things. I'll play with her for a while after then can fuck her as long as she wants.
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@LF that's not even an adult insult last member who used that line said my IQ was 25 but even so it's 24 brain cells more than you have.
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How is this OT?
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When I was in middle school the older boys told me that if I jacked off before going to the school dance that I wouldn't get a hard on when dancing with the girls. They lied. It didn't work. :)
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