Lesbian, Bi-Sexual, Bi-Curious or Other?
HungryGiraffe
Somewhere USA
Had an interesting convo with a close dancer friend recently. We were talking about masturbation, and she mentioned that she used to masturbate as much as 4-5 times a day in her late teens early 20's -- at home, at school, in her car while driving, or in a ladies room. No biggie, I thought, I masturbated a lot at that age too. When I asked what usually triggered her desire to play with herself, she said the sight of a really sexy girl usually was the impetus. Knowing how much she enjoys dick, I was surprised that she didn't say her main trigger was a hunky guy.
I find it interesting how many strippers are into women. Some work in strip clubs just to be around naked chicks. I've asked my friend in the past whether she's into women, since I know she likes to watch porn. She says she's not into girls. Now I'm wondering whether she is a closet lesbian, bi-sexual, bi-curious, or, as she stated, just sexually stimulated by the female form. Is this typical?
BTW, I'm non-judgmental about individual sexuality choices. Just wondering what others have observed about attraction between females, particularly those doing sex work.
I find it interesting how many strippers are into women. Some work in strip clubs just to be around naked chicks. I've asked my friend in the past whether she's into women, since I know she likes to watch porn. She says she's not into girls. Now I'm wondering whether she is a closet lesbian, bi-sexual, bi-curious, or, as she stated, just sexually stimulated by the female form. Is this typical?
BTW, I'm non-judgmental about individual sexuality choices. Just wondering what others have observed about attraction between females, particularly those doing sex work.
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SJG
As they are not prude and are sexually open, I think Strippers make for a great example of the Kinsey scale, or more popularly as of recent, sexual fluidity. These theories are related to the the quite flexible range of sexual attractions to genders varying from straight as an arrow to poly/pansexual and everything in between.
Not saying I understand or buy into it all, but it's interesting, especially when you bring strippers into the mix.
I am never at a shortage of finding bi or bi-curious dancers at clubs that are more than happy to take care of me. There are tons of them out there. Occasionally I'll find a lesbian dancer but they tend to hold back with me in their dances, probably out of "respect" to their GF/wife.