Lesbian, Bi-Sexual, Bi-Curious or Other?

5/20/2017 10:32:14 AM

Had an interesting convo with a close dancer friend recently. We were talking about masturbation, and she mentioned that she used to masturbate as much as 4-5 times a day in her late teens early 20's -- at home, at school, in her car while driving, or in a ladies room. No biggie, I thought, I masturbated a lot at that age too. When I asked what usually triggered her desire to play with herself, she said the sight of a really sexy girl usually was the impetus. Knowing how much she enjoys dick, I was surprised that she didn't say her main trigger was a hunky guy.

I find it interesting how many strippers are into women. Some work in strip clubs just to be around naked chicks. I've asked my friend in the past whether she's into women, since I know she likes to watch porn. She says she's not into girls. Now I'm wondering whether she is a closet lesbian, bi-sexual, bi-curious, or, as she stated, just sexually stimulated by the female form. Is this typical?

BTW, I'm non-judgmental about individual sexuality choices. Just wondering what others have observed about attraction between females, particularly those doing sex work.

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Bj99

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8 years ago

I'm not at all bisexual, but sex in general is a turn on for me, and strippers are just sexual. I love how other girls' tighs move when they dance, or throw it back. It's funny bc I find the thick girls more sexy, but would like to look like a Barbie type myself lol.

san_jose_guy

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8 years ago

Not bisexual at all. But interesting how some girl on girl action is for a male audience, and some is not. Just saw SF MBOT ad here on TUSCL, talking about girl on girl shows. Usually girl on girl shows involve open tongue kissing, and when in real life, that is an extreme turn on. I see it as a power play, showing that women control the erotic. Once girls do that, they are loosened up for DFKing. :)

SJG

a21985

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8 years ago

Going with @BJ, strippers are highly sexualized to begin with. Add that in with sexual orientation not being so black and white (or binary, if you will), and you have these girls are attracted to and are willing to sexually engage with is quite expanded.

As they are not prude and are sexually open, I think Strippers make for a great example of the Kinsey scale, or more popularly as of recent, sexual fluidity. These theories are related to the the quite flexible range of sexual attractions to genders varying from straight as an arrow to poly/pansexual and everything in between.

Not saying I understand or buy into it all, but it's interesting, especially when you bring strippers into the mix.

HungryGiraffe

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8 years ago

Thanks all for the insight!

Jascoi

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8 years ago

I think most women are bisexual.

lopaw

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8 years ago

All of the above.
I am never at a shortage of finding bi or bi-curious dancers at clubs that are more than happy to take care of me. There are tons of them out there. Occasionally I'll find a lesbian dancer but they tend to hold back with me in their dances, probably out of "respect" to their GF/wife.

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