Got some awesome dances (non-extras variety but great grind) last night and twice the dancer asked me "What are you thinking?" Has anyone ever encountered this? I was stumped. The truest answer I could have given was "we should be naked doing this." But that was just the second time she has ever danced for me and knowing the club, that's just not on the menu. Just to have some answer, I replied with something like "Wow." Is this some stripper Jedi mind trick she's using on me? I usually have no problem bantering during a dance, but these questions left me clueless.
I just telll them what I want. I'm paying for it. I'm not in the mood at a club to play games. If I want to play games I'll date a civie. No need to pull punches with dancers or beat around the bush.
I used to get asked this by civvies when I dated civvies but can't recall a dancer asking me that but if one did I'd answer honestly like rl27 - who knows maybe if I say "I was thinking how bad I wanna fuck you" she might reply "maybe that can be arranged" - you have not b/c you ask not
I think women asking that shows that most of them arecl always thinking/analyzing/sizing-up in the background unbeknownst to most guys and even most women themselves since they probably do it subconsciously by nature
I've been asked this question several times by females in general when I'm quiet and they aren't probing me with any specific questions. You can bring up whatever topic you want to but she might not always like the topic. Change to another topic quick unless you want to argue or have her leave if she doesn't like whatever topic. I had a dancer bring up politics last night. I told her I didn't vote for either Hillary or Trump in the primaries. She said she didn't either. She voted for Bernie. I'm not sure why so many dancers like Bernie unless they think socialism gives everyone more. It doesn't. Anyway I changed the topic quickly instead of arguing about it saying that it doesn't matter who we vote for in South Carolina because the state has voted republican for lime 50 years. I voted for a libertarian several times and it had no effect.
I think it's best not to argue with relatives you want to stay friendly with if you can avoid it. I avoid talking politics with my relatives who have different views. They are hard headed. Many people are. Some believe strongly in the right to bear arms and are ready to fight to defend those rights. Some people do not believe in the second amendment and think we'd all be better off like France with no rights to firearms. Doesn't matter to their views if criminals are all armed and for you to obey the law, you are unarmed if new Supreme Court justices appointed by democrats say you don't have the right. You can mention how people have defended themselves using guns against home invaders. They say they never hear that in the news. I see the problem. They either don't hear or don't read anything that supports opposing views. I can see where gun violence would be a lot better in this country if we were more like France but getting there confiscating guns would be like a civil war. Plus criminals would still have easy access so only illegals and criminals and the police would be armed. That doesn't make me feel safer. Ok I will stop rambling.
I think a big problem in this country is that instead of people talking about issues or concerns, one side labels the other side as idiots, nitwits,etc, for thinking the way they do. I see it on climate debates, politics, gun rights etc.
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I thought only gf's/spouses asked that.
haha, great answer.
"Your soft tits feel really good rubbing on my lap."
"Imagining how warm your mouth would feel."
"Wishing we were fucking."
I just telll them what I want. I'm paying for it. I'm not in the mood at a club to play games. If I want to play games I'll date a civie. No need to pull punches with dancers or beat around the bush.
"How much to blow me?"