Once a ROB, always a ROB?

Is that truly a ROB though. I didn't have the patience to read the whole post.

She just sounds like a low mileage dancer to me.

Like flag said, sounds like a low mileage dancer

Drugs.

Oh yes. Several years ago, I had my eye on a dancer a few trips to the club, a real knockout, and eventually we started chatting. I made a silly joke about nothing important and all of a sudden she starts screaming and cursing at me. Not such a good joke whatever it was!

A bouncer comes over, and I say I have no idea what set her off which was true. He then talks to the dancer in private and she doesn't come back out. The bouncer then apologizes and even bought me a drink. Okay, crazy lady....stay away.

Okay, maybe a year goes by, and I still watch her in the club but I don't make eye contact or anything. Remember, I was very attracted to her to begin with. Yet eventually she comes over to me and we chat. We both mend fences and it turns out we had some real personal chemistry. I took a chance and took her to VIP and she really made it memorable! Most extras ITC up to that point that I'd had in this club. She's now my night shift regular! We even laugh about how we "met".

Probably just being in the business now for a few years has softened her up to the strip club ways.

When you first met her she was probably fairly new to the club scene. Now after being in it for years, she's changed her ways and her attitude. That's my guess.

That's not a ROB. She was just a noob and now she's adjusted her hustle and boundaries for the local expectations. I've seen that happen plenty of times. She's made adjustment in order to earn money.

It probably better for her mental health that she established and stuck to her boundaries early on, rather than just get exploited. She'll make a fine dancer going forward.

I'll say yes. YMMV. I've known lots of dancers who ripped off other customers while acting like my in club girlfriends. I've had customers walk up to me to ask how much I paid after they got fleeced by a girl they'd seen do much better work. I offer to buy them a beer. Strippers can do math.

It cuts both ways, though. I was in Seattle once and saw a dancer dismantle a customer in plain sight. Thought that guy might have a heart attack. Got her for a dance and was told that he was a very good customer so what he got wasn't happening. But she said I was cool and offered something for free. I laughed and told her that wasn't going to do anything. I was wrong. Good thing I didn't live there.

So I used to complain about ROBs. The I realized if I got the bad end of the deal it was my fault. One of the more intriguing moments to witness is when a dancer realizes she could have probably gotten more but a deal is a deal.

I had a three experiences with a noob, low mileage dancer. The first visit was nervous air dances and she was strict in reminding me "no touching." The second and third times I saw her, months later, she had loosened up and was chill about it. She laughed at her earlier dances.

This was the dancer I often called "Busty & Sexy" or "Smart & Sexy." She was clearly a young college student, glasses and all. Fun girl.

So they can change.

Yeah, she doesn't sound like she was ever a ROB, just dancer who had limits that didn't fit the mold of what you look for in a stripper. Girls change what they're comfortable with doing, for better or for worse, temporarily or more long term. Her change in style just happened to benefit you this time around.

I tend to think once a ROB, always a ROB. But, what you're describing doesn't sound like a ROB that mended her ways, just a new/conservative girl that opened up after realizing she wasn't really entitled to shit.

I guess I'm missing the part where she actually ripped you off, since you never got any dances from her. If you tipped her $20 at the stage, once or repeatedly, and she didn't come over to you there are many possible reasons for that. A stage tip is a stage tip. It doesn't really entitle you to anything.

I'm with the others in saying she was not a ROB, just low-mileage. And girls like that can always change their minds. Can a ROB quit being a ROB? I don't think so. Maybe if she was in a shitty club with poor management and bitchy co-workers - a completely toxic environment, and then moved a a great club with great everything where she didn't need to be a ROB. But that's the not the case here, that was just a girl who decided to increase your mileage.

I agree with Warhawks.

I met a girl from her C/L add ostensibly for a FWB relationship. I got both BBBJ and BBFS...I wasn't sure if she was a pro until she took clothes off in front of me with no awkwardness; ah ha. Afterwards I did giver her $100 for "expenses" which I thought was a great value, and I was okay that this wasn't a future g/f but just a fun P4P resource.

Then I start reading C/L adds posted by people who she robbed! OMG....WYF? But it seemed to me one guy was posting this shit because of a personal problem.

I saw the girl a second time, and it was just like the first. She was friendly and warm and didn't take my money and run. So maybe that guy was full of crap, or maybe she liked me?

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In this case the term ROB is to be used loosely as in not-giving good-value w/ her lame dances and attitude.

One should not be surprised w/ a stripper's behavior on any given day - both good or bad. In the past I'd normally black-ball dancers that tried to ROB me; w/ time I just took-it as part of the game as long as I knew what was up - I've had dancers treat me poorly one-visit and rock my PL-world on a subsequent visit.

As others have mentioned, it often takes dancers time to let loosen up - and some of them come w/ some preconceived GPS-notions (they may be used to civvy guys kissing their ass and think they are hot-shit and think guys in the club will throw piles of $$$ at them for just being hot w/o having to work at it and being stock-up as IRL).

Early on in my PL-career I met a light-skinned 20 y/o dancer (i normally don't like dancers too-young but her natural DDs made her look like a woman) - the first few-times I interacted w/ her she would barely say a word and not make eye-contact - I then didn't see her at the club for a few-months; the next-time I saw her she was all chatty and wanting to sit w/ me and have a drink and talk and was much more open and comfortable w/ her convo and dances

Another time it was a mixed-dancer that was thick like an ebony - she was always serious and her mileage was just middle of the road - on one visit out-of-the-blue she climbs on me at the bar and starts kissing me (she did not seem drunk) and riding my hard-on at the barstool (she was still dressed so these were not dances) - she then tells me if we could move to a different spot in the club (which happened to have a little more privacy) - she gets on me FCG and after a few-minutes starts rummaging inside my sweatpants - she pulls down the waistband of my sweats and takes-out little-Papi - she presses bare little-Papi in b/w her coochie and my abdomen and starts sliding her cooch on the back of my super-hard torpedo and after 3-songs she busts a nut; very different from my previous mostly mechanical interactions w/ her.

So dancers can and probably often change; perhaps most of the ones that don't wanna change end-up leaving the game - w.r.t. true ROBs probably harder for them to change but eventually many might either b/c they ROBed when in a very tight financial situation; they get tired of the lying and SSing; or they may start getting a bad rep in the club w/ custies and/or management.