What I like about Strip-aholics Anonymous is that whenever you get the urge to go visit a strip club, you call them on the phone and they send over an escort to stay with you until the urge passes. :)
I haven't gone to a strip club since Thursday before last -- #13DaysClean. However, I did spend last Wednesday night to Thursday afternoon with my ATF, so I guess #6DaysClean. And I'm going to a strip cub tomorrow. Yup, I'm still a PL :)
Ha! I went last night but it was a grave yard so I didn't spend much. I'm going back tomorrow afternoon to see old friends after months of only going at night.
But is the best response to strip club addiction to stop going? Or is it to start seeing dancers outside and having real sex, intimacy, and relationships?
Dancer long ago told me, "Don't use strip clubs for sexual gratification, because that is perverted."
What I interpret that to mean is that just getting strip club action as your only sexual gratification is perverted. Rather, you need real sex and real relationships, and that needs to happen outside.
And then going that way, you won't need to go to strip clubs very often, as your women will keep you busy outside.
I very seldom go to clubs anymore. The only reason for me to go to a club now is to find a new GFE girl. Once I find the new GFE girl I stop going to the club and start an OTC relationship with her. We have a schedule then where we meet at my hotel or I pick her up for our sexual entertainment. There is no need to go to a club where restrictions are placed on what you can do and can't do. In my hotel room or her bedroom we have no rules. Everything and anything goes.
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Dancer long ago told me, "Don't use strip clubs for sexual gratification, because that is perverted."
What I interpret that to mean is that just getting strip club action as your only sexual gratification is perverted. Rather, you need real sex and real relationships, and that needs to happen outside.
And then going that way, you won't need to go to strip clubs very often, as your women will keep you busy outside.
SJG
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