Giving the DS one more shot
larryfisherman
California
To those who don't know, DS=dream stripper
I have a DS that I'm trying to get to know OTC. The first time I asked her if she wanted to go to a movie, she said maybe, but nothing materialized.
The second time I asked her if she wanted to go get something to eat at a fancy restaurant, she said she would love to, but she was working that night, she said we should do it on a day she's not working, I didn't follow up with another day, but maybe that one was my fault.
Lastly, she has been out of town for close to 2 weeks stripping in Miami. I told her if she wanted to go to a sporting event this upcoming Wednesday (I had two tickets and I expected she would be back in town), she said she would love to, she was thinking of flying back in town on Wednesday, so if she got back in time she would go (the sporting event is at 7:30 pm). She said she would let me know when she has her flight info, she does stuff last minute.
If this doesn't materialize, I'm gonna give up on her and just realize it wasn't meant to be. Three strikes and you're out.
The sporting event is on Wednesday, so she'll probably let me know Monday or Tuesday.
Make a educated guess on what you think is gonna happen. Whoever gets closest to the right answer gets a prize lol. When I find out I'll report back.
I have a DS that I'm trying to get to know OTC. The first time I asked her if she wanted to go to a movie, she said maybe, but nothing materialized.
The second time I asked her if she wanted to go get something to eat at a fancy restaurant, she said she would love to, but she was working that night, she said we should do it on a day she's not working, I didn't follow up with another day, but maybe that one was my fault.
Lastly, she has been out of town for close to 2 weeks stripping in Miami. I told her if she wanted to go to a sporting event this upcoming Wednesday (I had two tickets and I expected she would be back in town), she said she would love to, she was thinking of flying back in town on Wednesday, so if she got back in time she would go (the sporting event is at 7:30 pm). She said she would let me know when she has her flight info, she does stuff last minute.
If this doesn't materialize, I'm gonna give up on her and just realize it wasn't meant to be. Three strikes and you're out.
The sporting event is on Wednesday, so she'll probably let me know Monday or Tuesday.
Make a educated guess on what you think is gonna happen. Whoever gets closest to the right answer gets a prize lol. When I find out I'll report back.
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IME, particularly w/ hot chicks, the more one chases hem the less they respond; having a don't give a fuck attitude IME works better and why bad-boys often get the puss and nice guys bending over backwards maybe get a pat on the head,
So here's a link to my system for fucking dream strippers. If it's too late for his one then follow my system with the next one.
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One I knew was doing civilian dates at 2AM. You might try that with her. But if she is used to being paid, then she might want that.
SJG
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In my experience beautiful strippers have heard every line and usually appreciate straight forward honest come ons. Don't waste your or her time with basketball games, movies or dinner. Tell her what you want and if the price is right, enjoy it. If you two learn that you enjoy each others' company, the rest will follow. Kind of backwards from dating civvies.
"get a pat on the head" Lol that's funny Papi. I'm not a terrible looking guy, I just have trouble talking to girls in general.
I suspect JS69 is right. She probably thinks I'm a nice guy, but I don't know what I've done to separate myself from all her other suitors. She shows me pics of the money she's making money in Miami. She literally has to put her money in a plastic bag. Everyday she's worked in Miami, she hasn't come home with less than $1,200. God damn it.
I'm not gonna treat this girl like a prostitute, I'm not gonna do the money for sex with her. She's in school (or so she says), she wants to be an anesthologist. I think she makes enough in the club (non extras) that she doesn't have to do extras or OTC. Frankly knowing her a little bit, even if she wasn't making as much as she is, I don't think she would ever entertain extras or OTC sex P4P. Not all strippers are prostitues, I wouldn't even say half of them are.
So yeah I wouldn't mind dating this chick, she is my DS.
The only one I can think off is maybe King of Diamonds (upscale black club) but I think extras happen there also though maybe not as much since it's mostly a make-it-rain club - floor dances are $10 or guys just tip $1s as the girl dances - private dances are $25 but in my limited visits I didn't see too many people going to the private-LD area.
Plus why would a dancer tell a custy what she makes and why believe she's telling the truth.
E11ven is a newish club and I only visited once on an empty dayshift so not sure if extras go down; I don't recall reading about extras in reviews but not sure they don't go down at all.
@Ch- yeah if she flakes on this one I'm done with her, as hard as that will be.
And as always, the issue is knowing where you want this to go. Most guys don't, and girls see this right off.
And Larry, you spend time and money in strip clubs, that is an excellent place to learn how to talk to girls. Just put it to good use.
Good Luck,
SJG
"And Larry, you spend time and money in strip clubs, that is an excellent place to learn how to talk to girls. Just put it to good use."
Lowkey SJG is one of the smartest people on here.
SJG
"So yeah I wouldn't mind dating this chick, she is my DS."
I don't know a lot about women, and I'm not very experienced... that being said, based on my own experiences and some really great books I've read about male-female relationships, here is what I think: The very first time she said "maybe" was one of her first tests... and you failed. Why? Because a confident man KNOWS what he wants, and a man with high self-esteem wants a great woman who really wants to be with him. So, when she said "maybe"...
1. She really wanted to say "yes" but she's playing games and being manipulative
2. She didn't want to hurt your feelings (and didn't want to lose a customer) by just outright saying "no"
In either scenario, does she respect you? Ask yourself, Larry... does she respect you? Or are you a joker that she keeps around because she likes to be entertained by using naive men? Not trying to disappoint you, 'cuz I know how it feels to be interested in a girl and not have that interest reciprocated... just trying to give you a fresh, third party perspective.
Again, all of this is just my opinion.
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The thing that SJG and African genocide have in common is that each one keeps killing every year, yet nobody cares. He should focus his energy in Rowanda and sending support their, instead of some fantasy political game here in the USA.