Ever have a stripper move in with you temporarily?
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If so, please share your war stories. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
My old fav, who I've known for a while now, was recently evicted after her boyfriend violated parole and was sent back to jail.
We're pretty close and she's in a bind, so I offered for her to stay with me for a little while. She's staying with a girlfriend for a few nights, but won't be able to stay there long. After that, she may be checking into Hotel ClearShoes for a few days. Am I in for a nightmare?
She doesn't have any illegal drug addictions. She drinks, but we'll go out drinking together.
As an alternative, if staying with me seems like a potential nightmare, I may take her to vegas and get us a hotel for a while.
On the plus side, it will be nice to get to spend so much time with her. She's about a 9.5, so it will be fun going out on the town with her too. She's about 10 years younger than me. We've done overnights before and she's given me discounted and an occasional free session, so she seems fairly trustworthy. As much as a stripper can be trustworthy, I guess. She seems to really appreciate me helping her in the past, which is why she's offered up free and discounted sessions from time to time.
I trust her enough that I don't think she'll rob me or harm me in any way. I'm just bracing for a potential tornado blowing through, because she can be a bit of a gorgeous trainwreck.
Anyway, any experiences you can share if this type of situation working out temporarily or it being a nightmare?
Thanks.
My old fav, who I've known for a while now, was recently evicted after her boyfriend violated parole and was sent back to jail.
We're pretty close and she's in a bind, so I offered for her to stay with me for a little while. She's staying with a girlfriend for a few nights, but won't be able to stay there long. After that, she may be checking into Hotel ClearShoes for a few days. Am I in for a nightmare?
She doesn't have any illegal drug addictions. She drinks, but we'll go out drinking together.
As an alternative, if staying with me seems like a potential nightmare, I may take her to vegas and get us a hotel for a while.
On the plus side, it will be nice to get to spend so much time with her. She's about a 9.5, so it will be fun going out on the town with her too. She's about 10 years younger than me. We've done overnights before and she's given me discounted and an occasional free session, so she seems fairly trustworthy. As much as a stripper can be trustworthy, I guess. She seems to really appreciate me helping her in the past, which is why she's offered up free and discounted sessions from time to time.
I trust her enough that I don't think she'll rob me or harm me in any way. I'm just bracing for a potential tornado blowing through, because she can be a bit of a gorgeous trainwreck.
Anyway, any experiences you can share if this type of situation working out temporarily or it being a nightmare?
Thanks.
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Well, this just got interesting. My SB just got back from winter break early and I made plans to see her at a hotel. There's a chance the old fav might be showing up around then. The two of them are VERY different. Part of me wants to try to arrange a menage, but they don't know one another, and I'm worried it might scare off my SB. Or, if my fav is staying with me at the hotel, I may have to ask her to leave for a couple of hours while the SB comes over. They know about each other, but have never met. This could get a little expensive, but should be interesting...
My experiences went well but I knew these women.
I travel a lot and have had strippers stay with me a week at a time in hotels in the middle of nowhere as well as Vegas. One in particular would strip in Vegas and spend her off time with me. Worked out well, I got sex for free and she got to stay in an upscale hotel for free, one she wouldn't normally be staying in.
When I've done this I have had no issues what so ever because all 3 of the girls that have stayed with me more than 2 nights were not on any kind of drugs or any boyfriend drama. All of them were also over the age of 30 as well, hence maybe a little mature than your average stripper.
I don't think as many thoughts go through others heads as mine but to suddenly jump from not even going out to thinking about letting someone move in, ridiculous I thought. If I had gone out with her and really liked her, maybe. If I trusted her not to bring over anyone who might steal stuff from me, maybe. I would have to trust her enough not t clean out my place herself. Suppose she wanted a new boyfriend and just told him to sleep over in your house?
Now a 9.5, I would be very tempted.
Trip thing is cool - cuz it is a limited time - once they move in - remember they have the stripper mentality - they can't help themselves - always looking to score... just saying...
Etsu: that's an amazing story and probably an exception for sure.
Shailynn: That's kind of how I envision Vegas with her. I'll pay for the hotel, meals, etc. and I'm pretty sure she'll be grateful for all that (based on past experience) and won't be expecting a big payment too. We'll see.
Sharkhunter: Definite things to consider.
The second time she overdosed and luckily I had narcan and revived her. Never again. My wife witnessed all this and while she has Alzheimer's, even she knew it was fucking stupid.
I'd say if you got the bandwidth (finances, time, temperament) then at the least you'll have an interesting story to tell in the future (YOLO), o/w lf one already has a certain amount of shit on their plate taking on a stripper rehab project is not doable IMO.
Perhaps there are exceptions, but I regard this as rainbow unicorn / black swan territory.
Depending on the situation, sometimes she gets followed and watched by random dude you park on your street. Tip: get rid of dude sooner than later. It always seems like pretty party girls have stalkers.
Someone got tired of her for a reason. In all fairness there are dudes to which this applies, too.
Would probably do it again / should do at least once.
The big head wins this fight. I was just surprised by the possibility of getting to spend a lot of time with her, since I always want more, so I was thinking with the little head. Logic prevails. This time anyway.
SJG