I've probably spent more time in clubs in an average month this year than in the previous 20. That coupled with the crazy train OTC ride with the ATF, has led to complacency toward clubbing. Fucking a 10, knowing full well that anyone could and that it isn't personal, is a hollow victory. Buying drinks for some doll in a civie bar is a greater challenge and, therefore, a more rewarding experience.
I've always been about quality over quantity, and if there is no challenge, it doesn't captivate me. No , I'm not ready for Shailynn's stamp collecting circle, but I do need a change of pace.
Didnt you say you look like Bigfoot before? How do you pick up a civie? Do you go the chloroform and gag route like SJG?
Take a break and it will seem fresh again. I am so busy with work I rarely club from November thru January. It's a nice break and once late January early February rolls around I'm excited to go back into a club.
I agree on the civie statement, conversation with them usually tends to seem more natural and engaging than with even a well versed stripper.
Sometimes you just need a break from the strip club scene. After hitting strip clubs (or strippers OTC) at least twice a week through the first ten months of this year, I have taken an almost complete break during November-December (with just a two-day, four-club orgy in Washington Park a couple of weeks ago) for reasons of health and boredom. When I start up again in the new year, clubbing will seem fresh and exciting again.
Strip clubs, for the most-part, IMO are not meant to fulfill one emotionally nor mentally - strip clubs "relationships" are an imitation of the real-thing so expecting the real-thing is running a fools-errand - no matter how much you chase it, try to catch it, you never will - kinda like fitting the round peg in the square hole - it don't fit; stop banging on it - take for what is it is - don't look to be fulfilled emotionally - if you are not getting what you want/need; take a break.
I visited a club over a week ago but it seems like several weeks ago. My vacation seems to be flying by too. Last year they introduced electrical tape or duct tape to cover nipples in the club after shutting down another club. I didn't return for almost 2 months. One dancer didn't see me at all for 3 months. Take a break if you aren't enjoying visiting. Others will keep strippers making money so that they won't close up the strip club if you stop visiting. Hopefully.
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Keep chasing your tail imamutt... when you get bored you mau be tempted to chase cars too, but resist that urge
Take a break and it will seem fresh again. I am so busy with work I rarely club from November thru January. It's a nice break and once late January early February rolls around I'm excited to go back into a club.
I agree on the civie statement, conversation with them usually tends to seem more natural and engaging than with even a well versed stripper.
Strippers then escorts then massage girls then civilians then homosexual then full circle back to strippers