It's kinda a matter of personal taste - seems like hardcore strip-clubbers (like most on this board) are not too much into escorts - and those hardcore into escorts are not too much into strip-clubs - thus not necessarily a natural progression
Is this question about escorts, or about prostitution generally (that is, extras in the club)? In general, I know a few people who do both escorts and strip clubs, but typically the experience is so different that the groups don't mix that much. On the sex industry forums I've been on, there's very few posters who move between the escort, AMP, and strip club forums -- they each tend to have their own distinct sets of posters, who mostly put down the other groups :)
It ain't just men. We women explore too. I "dabble" with escorts occasionally and my first escort session was with a former stripper. The 2 worlds can be tied together but I don't think it's always a natural progression.
I prefer escorts. Less games than at a strip club. I get exactly what I am looking for which is sex.
Strip clubs sell sex on the downlow of course but I no longer waste my time being dry humped for the
same amount of money I could spend having actual sex.
Was watching Cops yesterday. 2 different arrests, $15 for a BJ, $20 for FS. S88 wants to be paid $200 to give that hooker FS (gigolo). Both were 2x my weight and the johns weight. Stomach sticks out more than her tits. Face burned and wrinkled and smoking aging.
It was the reverse for me. After a while, you want more than wham, bam thank you ma'am. Plus it's getting harder and harder to find decent looking walkers these days much less ones I'm particular about seeing.
I think they do tend to lend to each other, but it isn't guaranteed. I prefer clubbing, there is fun in the buildup before ITC or OTC (Of which, OTC is prostitution regardless of how we look at it. LOL), but I will engage in other that clubbing if it is a good lady. Clubbing being my preference.
Definitely not a natural progression. Strip clubs are too expensive to be a regular gateway vice. In fact, if you go on hard core monger boards, you will find a healthy % of posters who believe that strip clubs are a colossal waste of money. In many areas, you can have fun with a Backpage girl for $100 and with a streetwalker for even less. You are lucky to cover your bar tab and some tipping for that kind of money in most strip clubs.
I think it is far more likely that most guys end up patronizing prostitutes simply because they are horny and because the places where these girls advertise are not exactly a mystery. It is just a matter of working up the nerve. When lust overpowers fear, often times aided by a bit of liquid courage, the trigger gets pulled. From there, it is a little easier each time until it eventually becomes no big deal.
I don't lose respect for a dancer who offers extras even if they are technically prostitutes. Have you NEVER stepped over ANY Legal line into the nonlegal NO matter how small or Large in your entire Life, even if there were NO witnesses? IF you've been 200% LEGAL your whole life, then more power to you & your a BETTER person than most people!
I hate to find myself on the same page as Rick Dugan but lets be honest here, Prostitution has been called "The World's oldest Profession". Whores were around long before strip clubs and strip clubs are NOT the 'gateway drug'. What forms of adult entertainment a customer and a dancer engage in are argumentatively a matter of personal choice and mutual consent, at least ideally (if you don't have pimps/ traffickers in the mix).
Availability of services in clubs may push 'clean' dancers over the edge to make bank in some clubs but it is still most often a matter of choice. As for the PL/monger line of demarcation, its again a matter of personal taste, availability, and funds. Some guys want this, some guys don't.
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Strip clubs sell sex on the downlow of course but I no longer waste my time being dry humped for the
same amount of money I could spend having actual sex.
Tony, my advice to you is not to dabble in prostitution. Have more respect for yourself. The money will not be worth it.
I think it is far more likely that most guys end up patronizing prostitutes simply because they are horny and because the places where these girls advertise are not exactly a mystery. It is just a matter of working up the nerve. When lust overpowers fear, often times aided by a bit of liquid courage, the trigger gets pulled. From there, it is a little easier each time until it eventually becomes no big deal.
Availability of services in clubs may push 'clean' dancers over the edge to make bank in some clubs but it is still most often a matter of choice. As for the PL/monger line of demarcation, its again a matter of personal taste, availability, and funds. Some guys want this, some guys don't.