I got a little too much time on my hands and needed to change things up by going over to StripperWeb for a little perspective. Sorry I don't know how to do links with my phone, but I found a comment funny as hell from one of their members on this topic as follows...
"No it is not something to be expected or that you should feel that you must tolerate. You did say he was young- maybe he is sexually inexperienced as well. In 7 years dancing it probably happened to me a handful of times and I worked in two of the most high contact areas I n the country."
This has happened to many a PL in one week, let alone 7 years. You just gotta love hearing the stories from another perspective. My guess is she is too into herself to even realize completion, or she has a terrible grinding pose. Thoughts? (Doing my best Larry Fisherman imitation)

