Soooo last weekend was my first time going into a stripper club with my husband. I thought I was going to end up leaving with so much jelousy but instead i just ended up with this need or fantasy of having sex with the stripper. I dont know if it was because she was soooo nice (of course needs to be if wants some good tips) or her skin was so soft and just feeling her kisses on my neck and ears turned me on and cant get it over with. She let me touch her boobs and outside of her vagina. Idk what got into me;im 23 yrs old my husband is 28 yrs old... i guess my question is is it a possibility to get a VIP danve for me and my husband and for me to get more than a dance jst for me or no??? And if yes what are the tips??? I feel so stupid asking this question...
It would help if you posted what area you are in so that people who club there can give you some advice.
Every area is different and every club is different in what is allowed. Women customers often get away with way more than guys do (I ought to know).
I've only seen females get kicked out twice. One time they were filming in the club as if they didn't know not to do that. Another time this drunk girl was parading around the club topless and went on stage too while a dancer waited for her to get off the stage. She evaded the bouncers for a while until she had a few of them all following her. She had become the show in a large club and one of the few females I ever saw get kicked out of platinum plus before all the extra rules.
I've seen male customers get escorted out for merely stepping on an empty stage without permission. I guess if they don't like whatever you see doing, you can be asked to leave but females do get away with more, also if you're known to be a big spender or high rolling unknown undercover agent spending 2000 per visit, they might overlook things.
If you mainly want full on sex (you doing him watching) as a couple and you both are new to the game, I think a couple friendly escort is likely a better option. If you want the strip club experience read reviews here for high or ultra high milage clubs that have VIPs, ask the dancer if she'll do you in front of your husband and expect to spend. I can think of clubs where you could do that for about $300 1/2 hr, many where it would be more but I doubt much cheaper except in very low end clubs.
Honey, don't you read the headlines? Or even the disclaimer at the bottom of the page? There are no extras in strip clubs. What we talk about here is just fantasy, all our stories are works of fiction..
Vivorita, next time you go, just ask the dancer. She'll tell you what she'll allow. It's not just a case of club rules; dancers all have personal rules too.
I tend to suspect any new member that come here and just starts asking questions. This is a perfect example. Why no review of the club? If really just a newbie, I would assume they had to read to find the "Discussions" heading, "She" would have to read past "Clubs",
"Reviews" and "Top 10"
Agree with AlterEgo, swinging will get you what you want. But when you do go to the sc, always wear a dress/skirt. Gives the girl easy access and sometimes they will practically go down on you on the main floor.
Thank u all whos helping and giving me ideas.... and to those who r just hatting let me tell you NOBODY SAID u gotta like or read my discussion.... Dont be ignorante and let others comment their HELP!!!
Is that you in the pic? If it is, I can imagine you having a lot of fun in strip clubs if you are part bi or into females as well. Some dancers will stay away from females. I suggest tipping them so that they know when you are in the club, they know you are enjoying the visit and that your husband didn't drag you there against your wishes.
Yes that is me.... i always founf myself attracted to women but havent done anything than jst make out... hope i do ot right this time and get lucky this weekend jeje
For this to be a stripper club website, surprisingly theirs some closed minded people in here idk what the fuck u expected to read in this places!!!fucking idiots!!! Jst because im a women dosent mean i cant have fantasies with my HUSBAND . Jst by knowing how closed minded u are i cant even imagine how miserable your wives are in bed..... ATTE. The fucking whore and lizard alot of husband will like to have!!!
My divorce comment revolved around you wanting to do it. Your husband would probably like to watch. You probably wouldn't do it because you would feel uncomfortable if he was watching.
It seems there's no one giving advice from personal experience. Including me.
So here's my thoughts:
1. Escorts are rarely as hot as dancers unless you spend big bucks.
2. Denver is not an extras friendly town.
3. The whole scenario is hit or miss, just luck, whether you find the right girl and the right situation.
4. It doesn't have to be a stripper or escorts, many girls are open to experimentation.
I suggest you keep your approach low key. Hit the clubs until they know you. Let the girls know what you need. Don't be in a hurry and eventually the right situation will avail itself.
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Every area is different and every club is different in what is allowed. Women customers often get away with way more than guys do (I ought to know).
I tend to suspect any new member that come here and just starts asking questions. This is a perfect example. Why no review of the club? If really just a newbie, I would assume they had to read to find the "Discussions" heading, "She" would have to read past "Clubs",
"Reviews" and "Top 10"
Blatant misspellings give it away.
"u" "whos" "r" "hatting" "Dont" "ignorante".
Sounds like trust issues coming to the surface.
Trolls and idiots have jaded everyone.
So here's my thoughts:
1. Escorts are rarely as hot as dancers unless you spend big bucks.
2. Denver is not an extras friendly town.
3. The whole scenario is hit or miss, just luck, whether you find the right girl and the right situation.
4. It doesn't have to be a stripper or escorts, many girls are open to experimentation.
I suggest you keep your approach low key. Hit the clubs until they know you. Let the girls know what you need. Don't be in a hurry and eventually the right situation will avail itself.