Be gentle with the tits

Most commonly this happens just before a women is about to start her period. They appreciate a gentle massage during this time.

A lot of girls say guys grab too hard. It's kinda like your nuts, sometimes girls/women fondle them too hard and you gotta say "slow down babe if you keep squeezing that hard I'm either going to throw up or pass out."

Or they have a crack baby at home and tits are sore from breast feeding!

-->" A lot of girls say guys grab too hard. It's kinda like your nuts, sometimes girls/women fondle them too hard and you gotta say "slow down babe if you keep squeezing that hard I'm either going to throw up or pass out.""

Ya, I think that's the right metaphor, but you didn't take it far enough. If some girl was being a little rough with your nuts, you might be able to deal ... but if you know that 15 other girls were lining up to give them the same treatment, knowing your balls would be sore for a week, you might put a stop to it.

I do think some chicks just use it as an excuse to reduce touching, but every stripper I know well has told me that lots of guys are super rough on their tittays, and they have to keep everyone super gentle no w

It can go either way. I have heard dancers complain that some guys want to rip their tits off. I think that's legit wanting it not so rough. On the other hand, a dancer once told me anywhere I was about to touch was sore. When I asked where she wasn't sore, said that her entire body was sore. She looked OK hanging upside down on the pole, though...

I agree with the above, I imagine most guys are too rough and sometimes they might be sore cause of her period. And I'm sure sometimes it's because they just don't want to be touched. I always thought women enjoyed it a lot more when you caress their tits.

I wouldn't say I'm rough with tits but I definitely love squeezing them. Most of the time the dancers don't say anything. Ive had one that I had to start off not squeezing at all and then each visit I squeezed more and more. But that was because she had just gotten her tits done so they were still tender (and that was actually the reason, I had seen her earlier and she was an A cup).

I've had some regulars that normally don't mind if I squeeze but every once and a while they'll ask me to be gentle, must be cause they are in their period.

And I've had 3 or 4 favorites that encourage me to squeeze as hard as I want , nothing better than that.

i can't ever recall dancers mentioning or saying "be gentle with their breasts" or "you're being too rough with them" so i guess i've been gentle with them. or perhaps they just don't say anything about it because their goal is to make $$$ and they don't want to hurt their chances of doing that.

obviously i'm not a woman, so i don't know what its like having them. but i'd imagine they're sensitive--some pairs more than others.

i usually don't squeeze that much---but i absolutely LOVE sucking them :-)

Vikings, same here. I have just the right amount of pressure. The only complaint I ever got was from my wife, who forbade me to touch them about a year after we got married.

In my PL-mind most that say "they're sensitive" and won't let you touch is b/c they don't want them touched period (softly or not softly) - I assume some women may have issues w/ their breasts where even light-touching is uncomfortable but I would think that is a very small-minority - if she's afraid the guy will be too rough she should correct him after the fact and if doesn't comply them not let him touch; but to not allow any guy to touch them IMO means they don't want them touched at all whether softly or not.

A lot of guys grope like teenage boys, squeezing hard.

Also, if a strippers tits get groped 10 times a day, that's gonna make them sore.

I had an interesting experience at PP Columbia several years ago before all the restrictions in the lap dance rooms. I don't particularly like pierced tits, but found a pierced dancer who was very sexy and I decided to get a dance from her.. She was skinny with b cups and I thought she was early twenties. Turns out she was 35 and had two boys in high school. Once the dance started I lightly touched her tits thinking it might be painful to her with the piercings. Obviously she was a veteran stripper and candidly asked me why wasn't I playing harder with her tits. After my explanation of not wanting to cause her pain she said "squeeze them as hard as you can" . She added "squeeze them like you are squezzing a tennis ball." For the next two dancesI I tried to squeeze them like I was trying to break them. I literally squezzed as hard as I could for the remainder of the session and she never even flinched. It almost became an obsession to make her complain but she kept telling me how much she was enjoying it and I could go harder. I was already at 100% (most guys would have complained if I shook their hand that way) . I am sure she was the exception, but some girls must have very little sensation in their tits. I am glad she did not squeeze my dick as hard as I was squeesing her.

Yes some guys treat boobs like grip strengtheners. Every boob is different, and some are more sensitive than others. Keep in mind that a woman's boobs can also get more sensitive a few days before her period too. I make it a habit to ask the dancer if her nips are sensitive before I latch on.

Dancers say this because the vast majority of men are fucking bumbling clods and have no idea how to touch a woman. Watch and see, they look like they're making a burger.