Getting hard during dances

22 comments

• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  You need Viagara. Nah lol, I'm with you, sometimes dancers get me hiring and I could bat with my schlong, other times they do nothing for me.
• JohnSmith69

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  8 years ago

  This means that you are gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that. PM SJGay for some advice on clubs.
• rockstar666

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  8 years ago

  I always use medical assistance and I'm always hard as a rock.
• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  You're thinking about it too much. It's all in your head.
• Aaron_hip

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  8 years ago

  A serious answer is that you watch too much porn.
• vincemichaels

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  8 years ago

  A time with pigs and sheep will spoil you.
• ime

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  8 years ago

  Stop jacking off so much, just because Juice does it 7 times a day doesn't mean you have to.
• Tiburon

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  8 years ago

  1 of 3 things: 1) you've had plenty of sex and while a women still gets you excited, nothing gets you further excited than actual sex. 2) you play with yourself too much and/or lived in the porn world for so long that real life doesn't stimulate you as much as seeing a porn star get dogged out. Either way, stop jerking off. 3) You MAY be a pansy that likes boys or just been in the stripper club for too long. You need to have some sex my friend.
• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  I agree with the others. Aaron_hip, ime, and Tiburon +1000. First, excessive masturbation messes up you or ability to get good quality stiff, lasting erections for penetrative sex. But a healthy man should be having more actual sex than masturbation, not the other way around. Second, hard-core pornography messes with your brains wiring. Abstain from that. If you must, use soft-core porn or sensual porn or couples porn with style and plot. Avoid the FF or skip buttons, excessively. Try to get into the seduction rather than just 100% fucking. The hard core stuff (especially if you skip around a lot) recalibrates your brain in a way so that real women no longer stimulate you. Some here say a 2 week abstention is enough. I think 5 weeks is needed. Then your brain wiring (IME) starts to return to normal. Third, don't overlook diet and exercise. Eating clean helps (and stop whacking off) helps you get better ejaculate volume (more semen). Also avoid coffee and cigarettes (girls tell me it makes semen taste bitter). You'll have better orgasms. Plus you'll have stamina to last longer. Also RE: stamina, PORN IS NOT AN INSTRUCTION-fucking-MANUAL. Stop jack hammering the women and try for a steady, slow thrusting pace you can keep up for 10 minutes. If you can last that long, you are going too fast. Slow down. Ditto for the days you masturbate. Shoot for 10 minutes. To keep her aroused, instead, trade off jackhammering for being rough on her with you hands on her body. When getting dances I usually like to go for 10-25 minutes, once she's aroused and seduced me. If you're 3 minutes and done or 3 minutes the you're bored; it's because you've been whacking off to too many 30 second or 3 minute hard core porn clips on tube sites. A lot of what goes on in sex is between the ears and not between the legs. I think you need to recalibrate, my friend. :) I was talking about actual dances and not extras but the same applies to extras or p4p.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Could be a side effect of a med you're taking. Could be stress and worry.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Or could be that dances don't do it for you anymore
• Darkblue999

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  8 years ago

  OMG You didn't understand my post at all, I do master bate once a month now.I don't whack off in 3 minutes or 30 seconds.I keep stroking for 30 min to 45 mins minimum while watching several hollywood movie sex clips.I dont watch porn movies at all because I don't like porn actresses. Coming to the point during dance I get erection but not upto my full potential. Ok may be except for 2 dancers .I think it varies depending on the type of dance they are giving. So girly hand touch squeezing the manhood or hot ass grinding..which makes super hard...
• JuiceBox69

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  8 years ago

  Jacking of every day has actually helped me get hard and stay hard during lap dances...it's even helped me LDK...I train my dick
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  ^ Listen Mr Down Syndrome, because you jerk off everyday, it's made you LDK within 30 seconds of a song starting during a lapdance. If you would not jerk off 8 times a day you could build some stamina and not cum every time a swift breeze passes you by.
• Jascoi

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  8 years ago

  don't worry about it.
• JuiceBox69

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  8 years ago

  Lol Shaylynn lol I love jerking off so much because it saves me money and most of the times it even stops me from even going to the Club's
• Ch3ll

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  8 years ago

  It happens. When I first started going to SCs any girl would get me there. Now it depends on her dance or if she says something that gets me going.
• JamesSD

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  8 years ago

  In a perfect world she gets me hard before we go back
• Stripperheels

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  8 years ago

  I get hard unless I think about it too much ! A lot of the dancers grind the crap out of me so that really gets me going !
• sharkhunter

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  8 years ago

  Maybe it's the girl if she looks like miss piggy. [view link] I wouldn't worry if you're not hard. You got flattened.
• ATACdawg

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  8 years ago

  OMG. I have to stop clicking these links. I may have to tear my eyes out after that one, shark. :-(
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  Sexual response is learned, and in DIY you have total control of the fantasies. So it does seem to degrade real sex. But also, once one is no longer a teenager, full hard ons are for when they are needed, like when the girl is submitting to you, when you can have her. So that means front room GFE and getting her to where she really wants you to fuck her, and she wants to go home with you. No reason to waste hard ons for dry humping or HJ or BJ. SJG