Somehow I won't get full hard on during dances .You know what I mean it's not 100% .It gets super hard only if the dancer takes it out and try to get it hard. Is it normal?
1 of 3 things: 1) you've had plenty of sex and while a women still gets you excited, nothing gets you further excited than actual sex. 2) you play with yourself too much and/or lived in the porn world for so long that real life doesn't stimulate you as much as seeing a porn star get dogged out. Either way, stop jerking off. 3) You MAY be a pansy that likes boys or just been in the stripper club for too long. You need to have some sex my friend.
I agree with the others. Aaron_hip, ime, and Tiburon +1000.
First, excessive masturbation messes up you or ability to get good quality stiff, lasting erections for penetrative sex. But a healthy man should be having more actual sex than masturbation, not the other way around.
Second, hard-core pornography messes with your brains wiring. Abstain from that. If you must, use soft-core porn or sensual porn or couples porn with style and plot. Avoid the FF or skip buttons, excessively. Try to get into the seduction rather than just 100% fucking. The hard core stuff (especially if you skip around a lot) recalibrates your brain in a way so that real women no longer stimulate you. Some here say a 2 week abstention is enough. I think 5 weeks is needed. Then your brain wiring (IME) starts to return to normal.
Third, don't overlook diet and exercise. Eating clean helps (and stop whacking off) helps you get better ejaculate volume (more semen). Also avoid coffee and cigarettes (girls tell me it makes semen taste bitter). You'll have better orgasms. Plus you'll have stamina to last longer. Also RE: stamina, PORN IS NOT AN INSTRUCTION-fucking-MANUAL. Stop jack hammering the women and try for a steady, slow thrusting pace you can keep up for 10 minutes. If you can last that long, you are going too fast. Slow down. Ditto for the days you masturbate. Shoot for 10 minutes. To keep her aroused, instead, trade off jackhammering for being rough on her with you hands on her body.
When getting dances I usually like to go for 10-25 minutes, once she's aroused and seduced me. If you're 3 minutes and done or 3 minutes the you're bored; it's because you've been whacking off to too many 30 second or 3 minute hard core porn clips on tube sites.
A lot of what goes on in sex is between the ears and not between the legs. I think you need to recalibrate, my friend. :)
I was talking about actual dances and not extras but the same applies to extras or p4p.
You didn't understand my post at all,
I do master bate once a month now.I don't whack off in 3 minutes or 30 seconds.I keep stroking for 30 min to 45 mins minimum while watching several hollywood movie sex clips.I dont watch porn movies at all because I don't like porn actresses.
Coming to the point during dance I get erection but not upto my full potential. Ok may be except for 2 dancers .I think it varies depending on the type of dance they are giving.
So girly hand touch squeezing the manhood or hot ass grinding..which makes super hard...
^ Listen Mr Down Syndrome, because you jerk off everyday, it's made you LDK within 30 seconds of a song starting during a lapdance. If you would not jerk off 8 times a day you could build some stamina and not cum every time a swift breeze passes you by.
Sexual response is learned, and in DIY you have total control of the fantasies. So it does seem to degrade real sex.
But also, once one is no longer a teenager, full hard ons are for when they are needed, like when the girl is submitting to you, when you can have her. So that means front room GFE and getting her to where she really wants you to fuck her, and she wants to go home with you.
No reason to waste hard ons for dry humping or HJ or BJ.
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Nah lol, I'm with you, sometimes dancers get me hiring and I could bat with my schlong, other times they do nothing for me.
Not that there's anything wrong with that.
PM SJGay for some advice on clubs.
First, excessive masturbation messes up you or ability to get good quality stiff, lasting erections for penetrative sex. But a healthy man should be having more actual sex than masturbation, not the other way around.
Second, hard-core pornography messes with your brains wiring. Abstain from that. If you must, use soft-core porn or sensual porn or couples porn with style and plot. Avoid the FF or skip buttons, excessively. Try to get into the seduction rather than just 100% fucking. The hard core stuff (especially if you skip around a lot) recalibrates your brain in a way so that real women no longer stimulate you. Some here say a 2 week abstention is enough. I think 5 weeks is needed. Then your brain wiring (IME) starts to return to normal.
Third, don't overlook diet and exercise. Eating clean helps (and stop whacking off) helps you get better ejaculate volume (more semen). Also avoid coffee and cigarettes (girls tell me it makes semen taste bitter). You'll have better orgasms. Plus you'll have stamina to last longer. Also RE: stamina, PORN IS NOT AN INSTRUCTION-fucking-MANUAL. Stop jack hammering the women and try for a steady, slow thrusting pace you can keep up for 10 minutes. If you can last that long, you are going too fast. Slow down. Ditto for the days you masturbate. Shoot for 10 minutes. To keep her aroused, instead, trade off jackhammering for being rough on her with you hands on her body.
When getting dances I usually like to go for 10-25 minutes, once she's aroused and seduced me. If you're 3 minutes and done or 3 minutes the you're bored; it's because you've been whacking off to too many 30 second or 3 minute hard core porn clips on tube sites.
A lot of what goes on in sex is between the ears and not between the legs. I think you need to recalibrate, my friend. :)
I was talking about actual dances and not extras but the same applies to extras or p4p.
Could be stress and worry.
You didn't understand my post at all,
I do master bate once a month now.I don't whack off in 3 minutes or 30 seconds.I keep stroking for 30 min to 45 mins minimum while watching several hollywood movie sex clips.I dont watch porn movies at all because I don't like porn actresses.
Coming to the point during dance I get erection but not upto my full potential. Ok may be except for 2 dancers .I think it varies depending on the type of dance they are giving.
So girly hand touch squeezing the manhood or hot ass grinding..which makes super hard...
I love jerking off so much because it saves me money and most of the times it even stops me from even going to the Club's
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I wouldn't worry if you're not hard. You got flattened.
But also, once one is no longer a teenager, full hard ons are for when they are needed, like when the girl is submitting to you, when you can have her. So that means front room GFE and getting her to where she really wants you to fuck her, and she wants to go home with you.
No reason to waste hard ons for dry humping or HJ or BJ.
SJG