Becoming friends with a stripper

21 comments

• StPaul101

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  8 years ago

  I don't want to sound like its impossible to become friends with a stripper, I was friends with a stripper and didn't even know it (she never told me she danced). If she works at a club and you gave her money, she is being honest that she gave you that number to bring you back into the club to see her again. Its a job for most strippers and they want your $$s, if you want to be her friend there is nothing wrong with that but Im guessing she will want some money for it. Check this place out to see how some strippers think. [view link]
• jackslash

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  8 years ago

  The best way to become a stripper's friend is to spend money on her.
• Stripperheels

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  8 years ago

  How
• Stripperheels

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  8 years ago

  Shoud I just say fuck u to her
• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  Money. It is always about money. Sure she *likes* you. All that means is she gives you priority and moves you to the front of the list. But her time isn't free. Money. It is always about money.
• Stripperheels

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  8 years ago

  I mean doesn't she like me as a person
• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  p4p = pay 4 play. If you want someone to "like you" get a dog (canis familiaris). Don't get married. Don't bother with a GF. Just get a dog. Then start paying strippers for sex.
• JamesSD

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  8 years ago

  If she's texting you about things not directly related to the club, maybe you can be friends. At some point she'll need something from you. Maybe just to help her move (like all hot girls ever). Maybe money. It's easy to be put in a friend zone where you're essentially being used. By all means keep texting. Just be careful about doing too many favors.
• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  These posts have always been obviously troll posts, but I figured there were lurkers reading who could learn something. But now they're so over-the-top it's not even worth answering anymore. Whoever's troll account this is, time to go back to the drawing board and pick a little less outlandish scenarios :)
• shadowcat

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  8 years ago

  It's a very rare thing. My ATF of 8 years described our relationship as friends with stripper benefits. She lived 65 miles from the club and during the last 2+ years of our relationship, she only worked at the club when I came to town.
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  you sound as naive as 4got.
• Ch3ll

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  8 years ago

  Agree with Subraman, a troll. I sent this dude a PM about the money I've spent and results with these strippers and me THINKING it's something more than business and it isn't read. You'd think this dude would've posted as much as larryfisherman when he joined.
• MrBater2010

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  8 years ago

  AMEN Brother Dominic77
• Jascoi

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  8 years ago

  One time some years back my wife and I went to Ojai near Ventura California with our little Chihuahua. while she was hitting the stores and thrift shops and secondhand stores I just sat on a bench at a bus stop with the little Chihuahua . I was amazed how many women... young and old and in between... pretty and ugly... came by to pet the dog and some small talk.
• Jascoi

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  8 years ago

  and I love being friends with a pretty stripper.
• Clubber

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  8 years ago

  As sc says, rare, but it happens. I, like sc, am one of the lucky ones.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  Becoming friends with any women, in my opinion, is questionable. Either you are fucking her, or really there is nothing. Women are not really going to be friends. SJG
• vincemichaels

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  8 years ago

  I can't agree s_j_guy, my last girlfriend was a very good friend. I met her on the Internet, met her a few summers ago in person, she needed help renovating her house. I volunteered to help her, we became friends, then lovers. I lost her when she was deported. I still miss her.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  vm, Girl who was your friend? Have you ever had girls put you in the "friend zone"? I know that that was not the issue here. Sounds like right from the start she probably wanted you for more than a friend. SJG
• vincemichaels

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  8 years ago

  s_j_guy, she was a good woman. It wasn't an issue of her citizenship, We never discussed me being her sponsor. Our relationship was good, she was my friend, I was her friend. Go ahead and doubt it if you wish, But you know nothing about us. I am not going to concern myself with some "friend zone" You had a common marital disfunction. That's too bad, you have my sympathy. I've chosen the path of being unmarried, it has good and bad points. I make no apologies or excuses.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  Most of the time with women, either they are your lover or potential lover, or they want to put up barriers. They don't really want men who are just their friends, hence my reply to our OP. SJG